Chapter 5 Notes Flashcards
Violence
Any physical force that is used to harm people or damage property
- Violence has started to become a way of life in our community
- Observing and experiencing violence can also make a person more violent towards others
Conflict
Another name for a fight or a disagreement
Factors that Lead to Conflicts Between Teens
Feeling threatened Unmanaged anger Lack of respect Bullying Gangs
Avoiding Dangerous Situations
Recognize the signs
Calm things down
Leave the situation
Firmly say you will not fight
Resolving Conflict Without Violence
-Conflict resolution is a nonviolent way to deal with arguments
Negotiate- bargain or compromise for a peaceful solution to the problem
-Peer mediation
-Be assertive, use “I” messages, don’t make assumptions, don’t raise your voice
What is Abuse?
Abuse is physical or emotional harm to someone
Unfortunately, the most common forms of abuse come from people one should be able to trust
Look for these characteristics in people: controlling, obsessive, manipulative, selfish, aggressive, needy, jealous, scary temper, mean
Types of abuse
Child abuse- physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect
Domestic abuse
Elder abuse
Hazing
Cycle of abuse
Honeymoon period-> promises, blaming, apologies, gifts
Tension building-> critiscm, yelling, swearing, coersion, anger
Explosion->attacks and threatens,(physical, emotional, social)
to honeymoon period
Effects of abuse
Depression Low self-esteem Poor appetite or overeating Low energy or fatigue Poor concentration and difficulty making decisions Difficulty sleeping Feelings of worthlessness Feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety
Protecting Yourself From Abuse
Create a supportive network of friends and family
Avoid disrespectful people
Be assertive
Show disapproval
Help for the abused
Tell someone
Go somewhere safe
Consider counseling
Facts
30% of students are bullied or bully others
1 in 3 teens do not feel safe at school
As many as 3 million cases of child abuse are reported every year in the U.S.
It is estimated that an act of domestic abuse happens every 15 seconds in the U.S.
Sexual Abuse
Any sexual act without consent
Incest- sexual activity between family members who are not husband and wife
Child abuse is common and children feel ashamed and are less likely to tell anyone what is happening
Sexual Harassment
Any unwanted remark, behavior, or touch that has sexual content
Examples: telling unwanted jokes, making sexual remarks about a person’s clothing, touching a person inappropriately, staring at a person’s body parts, making sexual gestures, continuously asking a person out
Sexual assaut and rape
Sexual assault is any sexual activity in which force or the threat of force is used
Date rape is sexual intercourse that is forced on a victim by someone the victim knows
80% of victims of sexual assault and rape know their attackers
Victims of sexual assault and rape suffer both physical and emotional trauma