chapter 5 Flashcards
eros
intense emotional attachment and powerful sexual feelings or desires
storge
affectionate, compassionate style of loving focused on deepening mutual commitment, respect, friendship, and common goals
pragma
involves rational assessment of a potential partner’s assets and liabilities
agape
emphasizes unselfish concern for the beloved’s needs even when that requires personal sacrifice
ludus
emphasizes enjoying many sexual partners rather than searching for a serious relationship
mania
strong sexual attraction and emotional intensity, extremely jealous and moody, their need for attention and affection is insatiable
heterogamy
choosing someone who’s dissimilar in race, age, education, religion, or social class
exogamy
marrying outside one’s group
selection hypothesis
people who cohabit differ from those who don’t, and these differences translate into higher divorce
experience hypothesis
cohabitating experiences themselves affect individuals so that they’re more likely to divorce once married
status exchange hypothesis
trading “superior” racial/ethnic status for “superior” economic status
four stages of love
rapport, self-revelation, mutual dependency, need fulfillment