Chapter 4: MU To I LOVE YOU Flashcards

1
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a relationhip between two people that often involves a deep knowledge about each other

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Intimate relationship

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2
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a social experience rather than prelude to marriage

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dating

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3
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can be recreation,companionship, status-seeking,personal growth

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dating

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4
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the process of coming together until a couple agrees that they are now gf and bf

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M.U.

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5
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first crush female age:

male:

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14

15

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6
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an activity that involves going out with someone of opposite sex

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Date

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7
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like people who are familiar to us

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familiarity

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8
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closeness

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proximity

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9
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we like those who like us

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repricity

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10
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it shapes the development of an intimate relationship in the long term

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Similarity

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11
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people end up pairing with others who are as attractive as they are

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matching

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12
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physical attractiveness x probability of acceptance

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desirability

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13
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physical attractiveness x probability of acceptance

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desirability

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14
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he argues that the one ingredient to the success or failure of a relationship is commonality along crucial priorities

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Dr. rubin

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15
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a complex and multifaceted phenomenon

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love

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16
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3 basic components of love

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intimacy
passion
commitment

17
Q

refers to warmth, emotional closeness and sharing in relationship

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Intimacy

18
Q

captures physical attraction, sexual desire and and romantic feeling of being “in love”

A

passion

19
Q

a decision to maintainn a relatioship and make it last

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commitment

20
Q

it occurs when only intimacy is high as we see friendship

A

liking

21
Q

when friendshup or liking involves passion

A

romantic love

22
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emotional closeness and sexual desire defined by sternberg

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romantic love

23
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liking with commitment

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companionate love

24
Q

simlar to deep long term friendship

A

companionate love

25
Q

falling in love

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passionate love

26
Q

arranged marriages that have lost their warmth and passion

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empty love

27
Q

passion alone is___

A

infatuation

28
Q

passion and commitment together is…

A

fatuous love

29
Q

combination of intimacy, passion and commitment

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consummate live

30
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erotic love

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eros

31
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friendship love

A

storge

32
Q

game-playing

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ludus

33
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possesive love

A

mania

34
Q

selfless love

A

agape

35
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pragmatic love

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pragma

36
Q

revealing personal information about one’s self

A

self-disclosure

37
Q

predicts that people will be satisfird in their relationship if gets proportilnal to what each person gives

A

equity theory