Chapter 4: MU To I LOVE YOU Flashcards
a relationhip between two people that often involves a deep knowledge about each other
Intimate relationship
a social experience rather than prelude to marriage
dating
can be recreation,companionship, status-seeking,personal growth
dating
the process of coming together until a couple agrees that they are now gf and bf
M.U.
first crush female age:
male:
14
15
an activity that involves going out with someone of opposite sex
Date
like people who are familiar to us
familiarity
closeness
proximity
we like those who like us
repricity
it shapes the development of an intimate relationship in the long term
Similarity
people end up pairing with others who are as attractive as they are
matching
physical attractiveness x probability of acceptance
desirability
physical attractiveness x probability of acceptance
desirability
he argues that the one ingredient to the success or failure of a relationship is commonality along crucial priorities
Dr. rubin
a complex and multifaceted phenomenon
love
3 basic components of love
intimacy
passion
commitment
refers to warmth, emotional closeness and sharing in relationship
Intimacy
captures physical attraction, sexual desire and and romantic feeling of being “in love”
passion
a decision to maintainn a relatioship and make it last
commitment
it occurs when only intimacy is high as we see friendship
liking
when friendshup or liking involves passion
romantic love
emotional closeness and sexual desire defined by sternberg
romantic love
liking with commitment
companionate love
simlar to deep long term friendship
companionate love
falling in love
passionate love
arranged marriages that have lost their warmth and passion
empty love
passion alone is___
infatuation
passion and commitment together is…
fatuous love
combination of intimacy, passion and commitment
consummate live
erotic love
eros
friendship love
storge
game-playing
ludus
possesive love
mania
selfless love
agape
pragmatic love
pragma
revealing personal information about one’s self
self-disclosure
predicts that people will be satisfird in their relationship if gets proportilnal to what each person gives
equity theory
