chapter 4 Flashcards

1
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functions of secrets

A
bonding
avoiding external evaluations 
ensuring privacy 
protecting from outsiders 
isolate fam members
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2
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partners have equal status in the system

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horizontal communication

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3
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partners have real or perceived power/status differences

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vertical communication

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4
Q

networks are developed to

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manage connection

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5
Q

key person channels info from one person to another

A

Y-network

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6
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one person is the clearing house for messages

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wheel network

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7
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exchanges between and among all

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all channel network

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8
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communication networks regulate our family

A

closeness and distance

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9
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two types of narratives

A

stories

accounts

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10
Q
  • provide history
  • sharing memories
  • recounting immediate experiences
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stories

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11
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  • explanations
  • reasons for behaviors
  • reasons for a situation
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accounts

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12
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functions of stories

A
  • to remember
  • to create belonging and family identity
  • to teach expected behavior and deeply held values
  • to develop family culture
  • to provide stability across generations
  • to entertain
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13
Q

___________ serve as the foundation for family identity

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communication patterns

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14
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communication shapes and alters

A

family structure

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15
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communication forms a

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relational culture

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16
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a relational culture is a

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private world of rules, understandings, meaning, and patterns of acting and interpreting that partners create for their relationship

17
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patterns are predictable interactions

rules of interaction and transmits these rules to new members

relationship agreements that prescribe and limit a family’s behavior over time

A

communication rules

18
Q

rules are maintained or changed through

A

feedback

19
Q

rules can establish

A

who can talk to whom

about what

when

20
Q

rules about rules

A

metarules

21
Q

purposely hidden info

creates and enforce internal and external boundaries

A

family secrets

22
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types of secrets according to boundaries

A

whole family secrets
intrafamily secrets
individual secrets

23
Q

family knows but outside world doesn’t

A

whole family secrets

24
Q

known by subgroups of the family

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intrafamily secret

25
Q

known only by one member of the family

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individual secret

26
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purpose of surprise

time sensitive

A

sweet secrets

27
Q

define relationships and boundaries

enhance relationships

the sharing of intimate info

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essential secrets

28
Q

untold family stories

may shape interactions between and within

may cause anxiety and be burdensome

A

toxic secrets

29
Q

owners of the secret are in immediate danger

abuse threats of harm

A

dangerous

30
Q

result of family rules

avoid topic or painful experience

original stories not passed on

A

missing stories