Chapter 11: Relationships Flashcards
What is friendship?
A mutual relationship in which those involved influence one another’s behavior and beliefs.
What are the five stages of friendship according to Levinger?
Acquaintanceship, Buildup, Continuation, Deterioration, and Ending
In what stage in life do people tend to have the most friends and acquaintances?
Young adulthood
What does the Social Baseline Theory suggest?
The human brain expects access to social relationships that mitigate risk and diminish the level of effort needed to meet a variety of goals by incorporating relational partners into neural representations of the self.
True or False. Close friendships change the way our brain functions.
True. Parts of our brain that are activated when we face a threatening situation alone do not activate when facing the same threat with a friend.
What are the three broad themes of adult friendships?
- Emotional basis (self-disclosure and intimacy)
- Communal nature (how much our friends have in common with us)
- Sociability and compatibility (the degree of fun they are to be around).
What four sources does trust form in online friendships?
Reputation, performance (what users do online), precommitment (self-disclosure), and situational factors.
What is socioemotional selectivity?
A theory that proposes that people seek out social contact for a variety of reasons (ex. information seeking, self-concept, emotional regulation).
Initiating social contact for information is a predominant goal for __________ adults while emotional regulation is a predominant goal for _________ adults
Young. Older.
True or false. Older adults are less selective in their social relationships and always prefer people who are different from them.
False. Older adults are more selective in social relationships and always prefer people who are familiar to them.
What are four characteristics of same-sex friendships that do not differ between men and women?
- Geographic proximity
- Similarity of interests and values
- Inclusion
- Symmetrical reciprocity
What three characteristics distinguish female same-sex friendships from male same-sex friendships?
Communion and self-disclosure, greater expectations for friends, and a greater risk of coruminatlon (extensive discussion of problems and focus on negative feelings).
How do cross-sex friendships benefit men?
They help lower dating anxiety and raise capacity for intimacy in men.
What are the three components of love that Sternberg found?
Passion, intimacy, and commitment
What components are high and low during the early stages of a romantic relationship?
Passion (infatuation) is high while intimacy and commitment are low
What components increase and decrease as a romantic relationship goes on?
Passion decreases while intimacy and commitment increase
What is the assortative mating theory?
A theory that states that people find partners based on how similar they are to each other.
How does speed dating differ from traditional dating? How is it similar?
Speed dating allows individuals to spend time with many people who are different from them.
More often, physically attractive, outgoing, and self-assured people are selected more and their dates run smoother.
How many people meet online for dating in the US?
1 in 5
True or False. There are global patterns of mate selection and romantic relationships.
True.
How many men and women in the US regret hookup sex?
3/4
What cultures are associated with more secure attachment relationships?
Cultures that have good healthcare, education, resources, and permit young ones to choose their own mates.
What is battered women syndrome?
A situation where a woman believes she cannot leave an abusive relationship and may go as afar as killing their abuser.
What are some factors that predict the likelihood of someone ending up in an abusive relationship?
- Being female
- Being Latina or African American
- Having an atypical family structure
- Having more romantic partners
- Having sexual activity at an early age
- Being a victim of child abuse
How many women and men experience physical assault and rape in romantic relationships eyer year in the US?
5 million women and 3 million men
True or False. Culture does not play an important role in contextualizing partner abuse.
False. Culture does play a major role. Many cases of violence against women worldwide reflect cultural traditions, beliefs, and values of patriarchal societies.
What is a common cause of women’s murders in Arab countries?
Honor killings
How many older adults are at risk of experiencing some type of abuse?
1 in 10
Do men or women remain single longer in younger adulthood?
Men
Why is singlehood increasing in Latinos in the US?
Average age of Latinos is lower than other ethnic groups and poor economic opportunities.
Why may someone choose to remain single?
Cultural traditions, personal choice, or economic decisions
Cohabition in the US has _______ over the years.
Increased.
How many women cohabit with a partner in their first committed relationship?
More than 1/2
In what countries is cohabitation a common alternative to marriage?
European, South American, and Caribbean countries
Does cohabitation make marriages better according to research?
No. In some cases, it can cause more harm than good and cause lower-quality marriages. The happiest cohabiting couples are the ones who look like happy married couples.