Chapter 10 On Emotional Intelligence Flashcards
Leading with
Emotional Intelligence:
Goleman
A. Self-awareness. B. Self-regulation. C. Motivation. D. Empathy. E. Social Skill.
Qualities typically associated
with Leadership:
Intelligence (IQ).
Toughness.
Determination.
Vision.
These are:
Threshold Capabilities / Entry Level Criteria
Emotional Intelligence:
Plays an increasingly important role at the
highest level of organizations, where technical
skills are of less relevance.
Goleman’s research suggests that at all levels
of leadership / managerial work EQ is roughly
twice as important as IQ.
A) EI based on Self-Awareness:
The ability to recognize and understand your
moods, emotions, and drives, as well as their
effect on others.
Hallmarks:
Self-confidence.
Realistic self-assessment.
Self-depreciating sense of humor.
B) EI based on Self-Regulation:
The ability to control or redirect disruptive impulses and moods. The propensity to suspend judgment – to think before acting. Hallmarks: Trustworthiness and integrity. Comfort with ambiguity. Openness to change.
C) EI based on Motivation:
A passion to work for reasons that go beyond money and status. A propensity to pursue goals with energy and persistence. Hallmarks: Strong drive to achieve. Optimism even in the face of failure. Organizational commitment.
D) EI based on Empathy:
The ability to understand the emotional makeup of
other people.
Skill in treating people according to their emotional
reactions.
Hallmarks:
Expertise in building and retaining talent.
Cross-cultural sensitivity.
Service to clients and customers.
E) EI based on Social Skill:
Proficiency in managing relationships and building
networks.
An ability to find common ground and build rapport.
Hallmarks:
Effectiveness in leading change.
Persuasiveness.
Expertise in building and leading teams.
EI – the Clinical Perspective:
Genetics play a major role.
Increases with age.
Emotional Intelligence is born in the neurotransmitters
in the brain’s paleomammalian limbic system which
governs feelings, impulses, drives.
Cannot be learned by the neocortex (concepts and
logic).
The Limbic System (Emotional Brain):
Open-loop (feedback) system, as opposed to a
closed-loop, meaning self regulating system.
Depends on external forces to self-manage.
We rely on other persons to determine our
moods.
The limbic system won the “evolutionary design
competition” because it lets people come to
another’s emotional rescue.
Emotional Intelligence –
the Organizational Perspective (A):
EI is carried through an organization like
electricity through wires.
A leader’s mood is literally contagious, spreading
quickly and inexorably through the business.
Managing for financial results begins with the
leader managing his inner life so that the right
emotional chain reaction occurs.
Emotional Intelligence –
the Organizational Perspective (B):
The leader’s style provides emotional cues that
create a domino effect throughout the organization.
Many leaders whose emotional styles create a
dysfunctional environment are eventually
dismissed.
The stated reason, of course, is poor financial
results.
Interpersonal Limbic Regulation:
On person transmits signals that can alter
hormone levels, cardiovascular functions,
sleep rhythms, immune functions in the body
of another.
Humor, smiles and laughter are almost
impossible not to respond to – they are
hardwired in the limbic (emotional) brain.
The Clinical Evidence:
Three or more incidents of intense stress (e.g.
financial trouble, loosing one’s job, or a
divorce) triples the death rate in socially
isolated middle-age men, but has no impact
on men with many close relationships.