Chapter 1 Flashcards

Fundamental Techniques in Handling Peoples

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On May 7, 1931, the most sensational manhunt New York City had ever known had come to its climax.

/senˈseɪʃənl/

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causing great suprise, excitement, or interest

trying to get your interest by presenting facts or events as worse or more shocking than they really are

inf. extremely good; wonderful

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One hundred and fifty policemen and detectives laid siege to his top-floor hideaway.

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lay siege to something
​to begin a siege of a town, building, etc.

​to surround a building, especially in order to speak to or question the person or people living or working there

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They chopped holes in the roof; they tried to smoke out Crowley, the “cop killer,” with teargas (=gas that hurts eys)

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​to force somebody/something to come out of a place by filling it with smoke

​to take action to discover where somebody is hiding or to make a secret publicly known

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Then they mounted their machine guns on surrounding buildings, and for more than an hour

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to organize and begin something
synonym arrange

to increase gradually

to get on a bicycle, horse, etc. in order to ride it

to go up something, or up on to something that is raised (=climb on the step)

to fix something into position on something, so that you can use it, look at it or study it

mount something to get onto the back of a female animal in order to have sex
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New York’s fine residential areas reverberated with the crack of pistol fire and the rut-tat-tat of machine guns.

rɪˈvɜːrbəreɪt

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to be repeated several times as it is reflected off different surfaces

reverberate (with/to something) (of a place) to seem to shake because of a loud noise

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Crowley, crouching behind an over-stuffed chair, fired incessantly at the police

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to put your body close to the ground by bending your legs under you
(=squat)

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Crowley, crouching behind an over-stuffed chair, fired incessantly at the police

ɪnˈsesntli

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without stopping
(=constantly)

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Police Commissioner E. P. Mulrooney declared that the two-gun desperado was one of the most dangerous criminals ever encountered in the history of New York.

despəˈrɑːdəʊ

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a man who does dangerous and criminal things without caring about himself or other people

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But how did “Two Gun” Crowley regard himself?

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to think about somebody/something in a particular way

to look at somebody/something, especially in a particular way

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In this letter Crowley said, “Under my coat is a weary heart, but a kind one—one that would do nobody any harm.”

ˈwɪri

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very tired, especially after you have been working hard or doing something for a long time

making you feel tired or bored

weary of something/of doing something (formal) no longer interested in or enthusiastic about something

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Crowley drew his gun and cut the policeman down with a shower of lead (a situation where many bullets fall)

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take out the weapon

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Crowley leaped out of the car, grabbed the officer’s revolver, and fired another bullet into the prostrate body

ˈprɑːstreɪt

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so shocked, upset, etc. that you cannot do anything
(=Prostrate in grief)

lying on the ground and facing downwards

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America’s most notorious Public Enemy—the most sinister gang leader who ever shot up Chicago

/nəʊˈtɔːriəs

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well known for being bad

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America’s most notorious Public Enemy—the most sinister gang leader who ever shot up Chicago

‘sɪnɪstər

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seeming evil or dangerous; making you think something bad will happen

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America’s most notorious Public Enemy—the most sinister gang leader who ever shot up Chicago

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squarrel

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Dutch Schultz - one of US ‘s most notorious rats before he crumpled up under gangster bullets in Newark

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crumple (up) to suddenly fall down with no control of your body because you are injured, unconscious, drunk, etc.

an unpleasant person, especially somebody who treats their partner or friends badly, for example by leaving them or cheating them

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17
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Most of them attempt by a form of reasoning, fallacious or logical, to justify their anti-social acts even to themselves, consequently stoutly maintaining that they should never have been imprisoned at all.”

/fəˈleɪʃəs/

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wrong, based on wrong ideas

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I have enough trouble overcoming my own limitations without fretting over the fact that God has not **seen fit **to distribute evenly the gift of intelligence.

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to be worried, unhappy or not able to feel relax

to think it is good or necessary to do something

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19
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I personally had to blunder through this old world for a third of a century before it even began to dawn upon me that ninety-nine times out of a hundred, people don’t criticize themselves for anything, no matter how wrong it may be.

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Loay hoay/ To move in an awkward way
to make a serious mistake due to carelessness

Dawn on/upon: start to realize it for the first time
Verb: to begin/ to be obvious or easy to understand

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Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself

ˈfjuːtl

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having no purpose because there is no chance of success

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Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself

/ˈdʒʌs.tə.faɪ/

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to give or to be a good reason for
justify yourself -> give good reason for what you have done

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Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment

ˈpreʃəs

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rare and worth a lot of money

valuable or important and not to be wasted

loved and valued very much

[only before noun] (informal) used to show you are angry that another person thinks something is very important

(disapproving) (especially of people and their behaviour) very formal, exaggerated and not natural in what you say and do

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Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance and arouses resentment

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resentment (towards/against somebody) a feeling of anger or unhappiness about something that you think is unfair

a feeling of anger or unhappiness about something that you think is unfair

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As much as we thirst for approval, we dread condemnation.

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to be very afraid of something; to fear that something bad is going to happen

an expression of very strong disapproval

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The resentment that criticism engenders can demoralize employees, family members and friends, and still not correct the situation that has been condemned.

ɪnˈdʒendər

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engender something to make a feeling or situation exist

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The resentment that criticism engenders can demoralize employees, family members and friends, and still not correct the situation that has been condemned.

dɪˈmɔːrəlaɪz

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to make somebody lose confidence or hope

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As a result he would get sullen acceptance, and often after he left, the workers would remove the hats.

ˈsʌl.ən

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angry or unwilling to smile or be pleasant to people

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When he returned, he exploded. He denounced Taft for his conservatism

dɪˈnaʊns

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to strongly criticize somebody/something that you think is wrong, illegal, etc.

to tell the police, the authorities, etc. about somebody’s illegal political activities

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The most disastrous defeat the party had ever known

dɪˈzæstrəs

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very bad, harmful or unsuccessful

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30
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Theodore Roosevelt blamed Taft, but did President Taft blame himself?

bleim

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to say or think that somebody or something is responsible for something bad

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Take the Teapot Dome oil scandal. It kept the newspapers ringing with indignation in the early 1920s. It rocked the nation!

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If a person or place is rocked, it is surprised, upset, or excited

rock: [ I ] She’s such a great role model for young women – she really rocks!

to be extremely good:

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Albert B. Fall, secretary of the interior in Harding’s cabinet, was entrusted with the leasing of government oil reserves at Elk Hill and Teapot Dome

ɪnˈtrʌst

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to make somebody responsible for doing something or taking care of somebody

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33
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Did secretary Fall permit competitive bidding?

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the act of offering prices, especially at an auction

​the act of offering to do something or to provide something for a particular price

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He handed the fat, juicy contract outright to his friend Edward L. Doheny

ˈaʊtraɪt

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Clearly and completely

in a direct way and without trying to hide anything

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Then, in a high-handed manner, Secretary Fall ordered United States Marines into the district

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(of people or their behaviour) using authority in an unreasonable way, without considering the opinions of other people

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Then, in a high-handed manner, Secretary Fall ordered United States Marines into the district to drive off competitors

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to force somebody/something to go back or away

to leave

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competitors whose adjacent wells were sapping oils out of the Elk Hill Reserves

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to make something/somebody weaker; to destroy something gradually

in the context, it means extract the oil

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38
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These competitors, driven off their ground at the ends of guns and bayonets, rushed into court—and **blew the lid off ** the Teapot Dome scandal.

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to tell people unpleasant facts about something

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A stench arose so vile that it ruined the Harding Administration, nauseated an entire nation, threatened to wreck the Republican party, and put Albert B. Fall behind prison bars.

stentʃ

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a strong and unpleasant smell

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40
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A stench arose so vile that it ruined the Harding Administration, nauseated an entire nation, threatened to wreck the Republican party, and put Albert B. Fall behind prison bars.

vail

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extremely bad or unpleasant

morally bad; completely unacceptable

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Fall was condemned viciously—condemned as few men in public life have ever been

ˈvɪʃəsli

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in a violent and cruel way

in a way that is full of hate and angry

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Did he repent? Never

rɪˈpent

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to feel and show that you are sorry for something bad or wrong that you have done

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Years later Herbert Hoover intimated in a public speech that President Harding’s death had been due to mental anxiety and worry because a friend had betrayed him.

ˈɪntɪmeɪt

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To let other people know what you think or mean

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44
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He is the one who has been betrayed and led to the slaughter and crucified

ˈslɔːtər

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The killing of an animal for their meat

the cruel killing of large numbers of people at one time, especially in a war

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He is the one who has been betrayed and led to the slaughter and crucified.

ˈkruːsɪfaɪ

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to kill somebody as a punishment by fastening them to a wooden cross

to criticize or punish somebody very severely

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45
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Lincoln’s long body lay stretched diagonally across a sagging bed that was too short for him

/daɪˈæɡənəli/

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at an angle; in a way that joins two opposite sides of something at an angle

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45
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So when you and I are tempted to criticize someone tomorrow

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to think that it would be pleasant, interesting to do something

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A cheap reproduction of Rosa Bonheur’s famous painting The Horse Fair hung above the bed, and a dismal gas jet flickered yellow light.

/ˌriːprəˈdʌkʃn/

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the act or process of producing babies, young animals or plants

the act or process of producing copy of a book, document, picture, etc

47
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A cheap reproduction of Rosa Bonheur’s famous painting The Horse Fair hung above the bed, and a dismal gas jet flickered yellow light.

ˈdɪzməl

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causing or showing the feeling of being sad (weather)

not successful; of very low quality

48
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A cheap reproduction of Rosa Bonheur’s famous painting The Horse Fair hung above the bed, and a dismal gas jet flickered yellow light.

ˈflɪkər

A

to keep going on and off as it shines or burns

to be expressed or appear somewhere for a short time

49
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As Lincoln lay dying, Secretary of War Stanton said, “There lies the most perfect ruler of men that the world has ever seen.”

A

a person who rules or governs

50
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Even after Lincoln had become a practicing lawyer in Springfield, Illinois, he attacked his opponents openly in letters published in the newspapers. But he did this just once too often.

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to repeat a bad, stupid, or dangerous action with the result that you get punished or cause trouble for yourself

51
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In the autumn of 1842 he ridiculed a vain, pugnacious politician by the name of James Shields. Lincoln lambasted him through an anonymous letter published in Springfield Journal

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that does not produce the result you want

(disapproving) too proud of your own appearance, abilities, or achievement

52
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In the autumn of 1842 he ridiculed a vain, pugnacious politician by the name of James Shields. Lincoln lambasted him through an anonymous letter published in Springfield Journal

pʌɡˈneɪʃəs

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having a strong desire to argue or fight with other people

53
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In the autumn of 1842 he ridiculed a vain, pugnacious politician by the name of James Shields. Lincoln lambasted him through an anonymous letter published in Springfield Journal

læmˈbæst

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to attack or critize somebody or something severely, espcially in public

54
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Take the Teapot Dome oil scandal, it kept the newspapers ringing with indignation in the early 1920s

ˌɪndɪɡˈneɪʃn

A

a feeling of anger and surprise caused by something that you think is unfair and unreasonable

55
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He found out who wrote the letter, leaped on his horse, started after Lincoln, and challenged him to fight a duel.

ˈduːəl

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(in the past) a formal fight with weapons between 2 people who disagreed, especially over the matter of honor

a competition or struggle between 2 people or group

56
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He was opposed to dueling, but he couldn’t get out of it and save his honor

əˈpəʊzd

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(of a person) disagreeing strongly with something and trying to stop it

(idea, opinion) very different from something

57
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That was the most lurid personal incident in Lincoln’s life

ˈlʊrɪd

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shocking because involving violence or sex

a too bright colour

58
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McClellan, Pope, Burnside, Hooker, Meade—blundered tragically and drove Lincoln to pacing the floor in despair.

A

to force someone or something into a particular state, usually a bad or unpleasant one:

to walk up and down in a small area many times, especially because you are feeling nervous or angry

59
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“with malice toward none, with charity for all,” held his peace

‘mælɪs

A

a desire to harm somebody caused by a feeling of hate

Held his peace: keep your silent (but you choose to keep silent rather than speak it out)

60
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And when Mrs. Lincoln and others spoke harshly of the southern people, Lincoln replied, “Don’t criticize them; they are just what we would be under similar circumstances.”

ˈhɑːrʃli

A

in a cruel, severe, and unkind way

in a way that is too strong and bright; in a way that is ugly or unpleasant to look at

in a way that is unpleasant to listen to

in a way that is too strong and rough and likely to damage something

61
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During the night of July 4, Lee began to retreat southward while storm clouds deluged the country with rain.

ˈdeljuːdʒ

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to send or give somebody/something a large number of things at the same time

62
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Finally the waters receded and Lee escaped over the Potomac with his forces.

rɪˈsiːd

A

to move gradually away from somebody or away from previous position

[intransitive] (especially of a problem, feeling or quality) to become gradually weaker or smaller

63
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And remember, at this period of his life Lincoln was extremely conservative and restrained in his phraseology.

ˌfreɪziˈɑːlədʒi

A

the particular way in which words and phrases are arranged when saying or writing something

64
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And remember, at this period of his life Lincoln was extremely conservative and restrained in his phraseology.

rɪˈstreɪn

A

to stop somebody/something from doing something, especially by using physical force

to stop yourself from feeling an emotion or doing something that you would like to do

65
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This letter coming from Lincoln in 1863 was tantamount to the severest rebuke.

ˈtæntəmaʊnt

A

having the same bad effect as something else

If he resigned it would be tantamount to admitting that he was guilty.

66
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this letter coming from Lincoln in 1863 was tantamount to the severest rebuke.

rɪˈbjuːk

A

the act of speaking severly to somebody because they have done something wrong

67
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I do not believe you appreciate the magnitude of the misfortune involved in Lee’s escape.

ˈmæɡnɪtuːd

A

the great size of importance of something; the degree to which something is large or importance

the degree to which something is bright

the size of an earthquake

68
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I do not believe you appreciate the magnitude of the misfortune involved in Lee’s escape. He was

əˈpriːʃieɪt

A

to recognize the good qualities of somebody/something

to be grateful for something that somebody has done; to welcome something
Your support is greatly appreciated.

to understand that something is true
The experience helped me understand and appreciate some of the difficulties people face

to increase in value over a period of time
We wanted a property that would appreciate in value.

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Just a minute. Maybe I ought not to be so hasty

ˈheɪsti

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said, made or done very quickly, especially when this has bad results

hasty in doing something (of a person) acting or deciding too quickly, without enough thought

70
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If I had Meade’s timid (shy and nervous; not brave) temperament, perhaps I would have done just what he had done

ˈtemprəmənt

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the fact of tending to get emotional and excited very easily and behave in an unreasonable way

a person’s or an animal’s nature as shown in the way they behave or react to situations or people

71
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Anyhow, it is water under the bridge now

A

problem that someone had had in the past that they do not worry about because they happened a long time ago and can not now be changed

72
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It will arouse hard feelings, impair all his further usefulness as a commander, and perhaps force him to resign from the army.”

ɪmˈper

A

to damage something or make something worse

73
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Theodore Roosevelt said that when he, as President, was confronted with a perplexing problem

kənˈfrʌnt

A

be confronted by/with something to have something in front of you that you have to deal with or react to

confront somebody with somebody/something to make somebody face or deal with an unpleasant or difficult person or situation

confront somebody to face somebody so that they cannot avoid seeing and hearing you, especially in an unfriendly or dangerous situation

confront something to deal with a problem or difficult situation

confront somebody/something (of problems or a difficult situation) to appear and need to be dealt with by somebody

74
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Theodore Roosevelt said that when he, as President, was confronted with a perplexing problem

pərˈpleksɪŋ

A

making you confused or worried because you do not understand something

75
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The next time we are tempted to admonish somebody

ədˈmɑːnɪʃ

A

to tell somebody strongly and clearly that you do not approve of something that they have done

to strongly advise somebody to do something

76
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he once wrote to a man who had aroused his ire: “The thing for you is a burial permit. You have only to speak and I will see that you get it.”

ˈaɪər

77
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“The thing for you is a burial permit. You have only to speak and I will see that you get it.”

ˈberiəl

A

the act or ceremony of burying a dead body

78
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He ordered, “Set the matter according to my copy hereafter and see that the proofreader retains his suggestions in the mush of his decayed brain

/rɪˈteɪn/

A

to keep something; to continue to have something

retain something to continue to hold or contain something

79
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He ordered, “Set the matter according to my copy hereafter and see that the proofreader retains his suggestions in the mush of his decayed brain

A

to be destroyed gradually by natural processes; to destroy something in this way

if a building or an area decays, its condition slowly becomes worse

 to become less powerful and lose influence over people, society, etc
80
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The writing of these stinging letters made Mark Twain feel better.

stɪŋ

A

to make somebody feel angry or upset

(of an insect or plant) to touch your skin or make a very small hole in it so that you feel a sharp pain
Ex: a bee stings me

to feel, or to make somebody feel, a sharp pain in a part of their body

(informal) to charge somebody more money than they expected; to charge somebody who did not expect to pay

81
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They allowed him to blow off steam, and the letters didn’t do any real harm, because Mark’s wife secretly lifted them out of the mail

A

release stress, anxiety

82
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When I was still young and trying hard to impress people, I wrote a foolish letter to Richard Harding Davis, an author who once loomed large on the literary horizon of America

lu:m

A

to appear as a large shape that is not clear, especially in a frightening way

(of something bad) to appear serious and likely to happen soon

83
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A few weeks earlier, I had received a letter from someone with this notation at the bottom: “Dictated but not read.”

A

to say words for somebody else to write down or to be recorded

to control or influence how something happens

to tell somebody what to do, especially in an annoying way

84
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He simply returned it to me with this scribbled across the bottom: “Your bad manners are exceeded only by your bad manners.”

ˈskrɪbl

A

to write something quickly and carelessly, especially because you do not have much time

to draw marks that do not mean anything

85
Q

He simply returned it to me with this scribbled across the bottom: “Your bad manners are exceeded only by your bad manners.”

ɪkˈsiːd

A

to be greater than a particular number or amount

to do more than a law or an order et,. allow you to do

to be better than expected
exceed expectation

86
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If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a little stinging criticism, no matter how certain we are that it is justified.

A

to make people feel strong emotions

to try to cause arguements or problems

87
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If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a little stinging criticism, no matter how certain we are that it is justified.

ˈræŋkl

A

​if something such as an event or a remark rankles, it makes you feel angry or upset for a long time

88
Q

If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a little stinging criticism, no matter how certain we are that it is justified.

ˈdʒʌstɪfaɪd

A

having a good reason to do something

existing or done for a good reason

89
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When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures **bristling with **prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.

ˈbrɪsl

A

to contain a large number of something

to suddenly become very annoyed or offended at what somebody says or does

(of an animal’s fur) to stand up on the back and neck because the animal is frightened or angry

90
Q

When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.

ˈvænəti

A

excessive pride in or admiration of one’s own appearance, achievements, or qualities.

91
Q

Benjamin Franklin, tactless in his youth, became so diplomatic, so adroit at handling people, that he was made American Ambassador to France.

ˈtæktləs | ˌdɪpləˈmætɪk

A

​saying or doing things that are likely to annoy or to upset other people

having or showing skills in dealing with people in difficult situation

connected with managing relations between countries

92
Q

By deft maneuvering he managed to land the plane, but it was badly damaged although nobody was hurt.

deft

A

(of a person’s movements) quick and showing skill

Clever and showing skill

93
Q

By deft maneuvering he managed to land the plane, but it was badly damaged although nobody was hurt.

məˈnuːvərɪŋ

A

​ways of achieving your aims that are clever, show skill and are often dishonest

94
Q

Benjamin Franklin, tactless in his youth, became so diplomatic, so adroit at handling people, that he was made American Ambassador to France.

/əˈdrɔɪt

A

clever and showing skill

95
Q

The secret of his success? “I will **speak ill of **no man,” he said, “and speak all the good I know of everybody.”

A

to say unkind things about someone:

96
Q

The young man was sick with the agony of his mistakes

ˈæɡəni

A

extreme physical or mental pain

sick (and tired) of someone/something

to have experienced too much of someone or something with the result that you are annoyed

97
Q

the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead

dæmp

A

slightly wet, often in a way that is unpleasant

98
Q

a stifling wave of remorse swept over me

ˈstaɪflɪŋ/

A

​making you feel unable to breathe, because it is too hot and/or there is no fresh air

making you feel trapped and unable to do or say what you want

99
Q

a stifling wave of remorse swept over me

/rɪˈmɔːrs

A

​the feeling of being extremely sorry for something wrong or bad that you have done

100
Q

I have stolen into your room alone

A

To steal is also to do something quickly while trying not to be seen doing it:

101
Q

I have been cross to you

A

to annoy someone by not doing or saying what they want:

102
Q

I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel

A

to touch something slightly, usually several times

to put something on a surface with quick movements

Ex: She dabbed a little perfume behind her ears.

103
Q

I ** took you to task ** for not cleaning your shoes

A

To criticise or speak angrily to someone for something that they have done wrong

104
Q

You gulped down your food

A

gulp something (down) to swallow large amounts of food or drink quickly

to swallow, but without eating or drinking something, especially because of a strong emotion such as fear or surprise
Ex: Do you know where she is?’ asked Chris. The man gulped nervously and nodded.

105
Q

I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house

hjuːˈmɪlieɪt

A

to make somebody feel ashamed or stupid and lose the respect of other people

106
Q

Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes?

A

in a shy and nervous way

107
Q

You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge

temˈpestʃuəs

A

full of extreme emotions

caused by or affected by a violent storm

to (cause someone or something to) move or fall suddenly and often a long way forward, down, or into something:

to become lower in value or level very suddenly and quickly:

108
Q

an affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither.

ˈwɪðər

A

if a plant withers or something withers it, it dries up and dies

wither (away) to become less or weaker, especially before disappearing completely

109
Q

And then you were gone, pattering up the stairs.

A

the sound that is made by something repeatedly hitting a surface quickly and lightly

fast continuous talk by somebody who is trying to sell you something or entertain you

110
Q

What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding—this was my reward to you for being a boy

ˈreprɪmænd

A

the act of telling somebody officially that you do not approve of them or their actions

111
Q

I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years.

jɑːrdstɪk

A

a ruler for measuring one yard

a standard used for judging how good or successful something is

112
Q

It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told them to you during your waking hours

ˈfiːbl

A

very weak

not effective, not showing energy or effort

113
Q

It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told them to you during your waking hours

əˈtəʊnmənt

A

the act of showing you are sorry for something wrong in the past

114
Q

But tomorrow I will be a real daddy, I will chum with you

A

establish the a friendship

115
Q

I will keep saying as if it were ritual: “He is nothing but a boy - a little boy”

A

a series of actions that are always performed in the same way, especially as part of a religious ceremony

something that is done regularly and always in the same way

116
Q

Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby

A

very tired, especially after you have been working hard or doing something for a long time

making you feel tired or bored

(formal) no longer interested in or enthusiastic about something

cot = small bed for a baby