changing patterns in family Flashcards
Divorce , marriage and cohabitation
Marriage rates are at an all time low and people are also marrying later around 30s ,remarriages are also on the rise 1/3 of weddings are remarriages
More couples are choosing to cohabit 12.5% currently , around 20% of cohabiters are serial cohabiters
Divorce has steadily increased with the occasional fluctuation , 40% of marriages end in divorce
Reasons for decline in marriage and raise in divorce and cohabitation
Changes to the divorce laws Secularisation Declining stigma and changing attitudes changing position of women raised expectations
Changes to divorce laws
Pre 1969 matrimonial offences were required in order to terminate a marriage
1969 divorce reform act accepted that couples fall out of love
Divorce is easily accessible
Also leads to declining marriage rates and more couples cohabiting as there is a fear of how easy divorce is with the average marriage only being 12 years . If they cohabit , it is easier to split up
Evaluation of changes to the divorce law
From the 1970’ the position women has changed and women don’t tend to prioritise marriage
People don’t realistically factor in divorce when planning relationships
Changing attitudes and declining stigma
Stigma - negative label attached to something
Mitchell and Goody : in the past divorce was shameful so people tolerated an empty shell marriage ( loveless marriage) to save their face
Nowadays people actively celebrate divorce
Up until the 1970’ women were questioned if they were still single in to their 20’ and labelled as spinsters
Women have undergone a gender quake and their is less pressure to marry young
In the past cohabitation was unheard of and this stigma has declined
90% of couples nowadays will cohabit
The stigma has been largely eradicated
Evaluation of changing attitudes and declining stigma
For many people divorce is still shameful eg if they have been divorced multiple times
Women are still questioned if they don’t settle down and have children
Secularisation
Decline in religious authority
30% of people in the UK don’t identify with any religious group
Fewer then 1/3 of weddings have christian services
In the past cohabiting was living in sin however as people no longer fear being labelled as a sinner , the have no concerns about living together without being married
The CofE has softened its views on divorce .
People now feel freer to make decisions and religion no longer dictates what people can and cannot do
Evaluation of secularisation
For many people religions continues to play a huge role in their life choices
People didn’t necessarily care about religion in the past , they carried more about social judgement
Rising expectations of marriage
Fletcher : there is a culture of romantic love
People are more willing to walk away if the idea of romantic love isn’t fulfilled leading to a rise in divorces
Beck and Giddens : today people seek pure relationships where the main goal is to satisfy each other
If needs are not met then people will terminate their marriage
They say most relationships are confluent
People are put off marriage as they assume too many compromises are needed and the want to test the water first so cohabitation is on the rise .
Evaluation of raising expectations of marriage
People today may simply be too busy to pursue relationships
In the past people may have had high expectations but their were barriers that prevented them of pursuing this
Changing position of women
Society has undergone a gender quake connected to the feminisation of the economy .
1970’ Brough about equality laws .
Women today have far greater financial independence eg earn their own wages so don’t need to rush in to marriage for financial stability .
Contribute to a rise in divorce as women today find it easier to leave a loveless or abusive relationship as they can support themselves and they won’t end up destitute
Women are also becoming less tolerant of the dual burden and are willing to file for divorce
Women are becoming for conscious of the presence of patriarchy so turn their back on marriage entirely
Evaluation of the changing position of women
Just because women have jobs doesn’t automatically mean they seek a divorce
The majority of women do go on to seek relationships with men
Rise in same sex households
7% of adults openly live in same sex relationships
2 main reasons why same sex relationships are more common :
1) Legal and political changes
Until 1967 homosexuality was illegal until the sexual offences act
Age of consent was lowered to 18 for same sex couples and then brought in to line with heterosexual couples
Ban on gay people serving in the armed forces was lifted on gay people
Adoption rights were given and in 2014 Full marriage rights were granted
2) Shift in attitudes
1983 : only 17% of people thought same sex relationship were not wrong at all
2016: 64%
In the 1980s : Aids epidemic and section 28
Opposition to same sex households
some religious institutions provide conversion therapy and hate crime has been on the rise in the recent years for LGBT community.
Sociologists study in to same sex couples
Same sex couples are chosen family in which they try to create the basis of a nuclear family . In the past they had to hide who they were but now they can pursue a traditional family life
Same sex couples are less stable as they have no expectations for their roles to fulfil so must negotiate each role with their partner leading to them being prone to conflict