Changing Family Patterns Flashcards
What major changes in family and household patterns have happened in the last 40/50 years
-Number of traditional nuclear family households
-Divorce rates have increased
-Fewer first marriages, more re-marriages
-People marrying later in life
-More cohabiting
-Same-sex civil relationships/marriage
-Fewer children/later
-More births outside marriage
-More lone-parent families
-More step-family/couples without kids
Changes in divorce since 1960s. Peak year
-Doubled between 1961 and 1969
-Peaked at 1993 (165,000)
-Since fallen slightly
What % of marriages end in divorce
40%
Why have numbers fallen since 1990s. Who applies for them most?
-Fewer are marrying- cohabit instead
-65% Women
What type of couple are most likely to get a divorce?
-Young
-Have a child before marriage
-Cohabit before marriage
-Those who married before
What are the 7 main reasons for an increase in divorce
- Changes in law
- Declining stigma & changing attitudes
- Secularisation
4.Rising expectations of marriage
5.Womens financial independence - Feminist explanation
7.Modernity and individualisation
- Changes in law
Was very hard to obtain in 19th century. Now…
-Equalising/ Widening the grounds, making divorce cheaper
What are 3 ways couples solve unhappy marriages without divorcing
-Desertion: one leaves but stay married
-Legal separation: remain married but court separates finances/legal affairs
-‘Empty shell’ marriage: Live under same roof but remain married by name only
-Less popular as divorce is easier now
- Declining stigma and changing attitudes
-In past it was stigmatised eg by church but rapidly decreased so now more socially acceptable (not shameful)
-Ppl more willing to resort to divorce as a way to solve problems
- Secularisation
-Decline in the influence of religion- societies becoming more secular
-So churches traditional opposition has carries less weight
-Also many have softened their views
- Rising expectations of marriage
Functionalist (Fletcher) says the higher expectations ppl place on marriage are a major cause of rising rates (less tolerant as they seek personal fulfilment)
-Linked to the ideology of romantic love- has become dominant eg miss/mr right
-In past, ppl had little choice (economic reasons) Less high expectations
How does Fletcher take an optimistic view?
-Most re-marry so the institution has not been rejected
-Theres still a popularity of marriage
How do feminists critique the functionalist view
-Say it’s ‘too rosey’
-Argue the oppression of women in the family is the cause of conflict/divorce(funct ignore this)
-Fail to explain why W apply most
- Women’s increased financial independence
-Less dependent so freer to end an unsatisfactory marriage
-W much more in paid work (67%)
-Although generally earn less, police’s have helped narrow the gap
-More success in education-better jobs
-Welfare benefits
All help W support themselves after divorce
- Feminist explanation
-Womens dual burden has created a new source of conflict=higher divorce
-Marriage remains patriarchal, men benefit: despite public improvements (edu, employment ect) not much change in private sphere- triple shift (family)
Hochschild (home vs work)
-Compared unfavourably, they feel valued at work but at not at home (frustration from housework)
-Also more working from both means less time to address emotional work
(Higher divorce rates)
However is there evidence working women are more likely to get divorced?
-Nope, argued because working has become an accepted necessity norm for married women
Bernard (radical feminist observer…)
-Many women feel a growing dissatisfaction with patriarchal marriage
-Sees rising DR & more female applicants as evidence of a growing acceptance of feminist ideas
- Modernity and individualisation (Beck&Giddens)
-Argue in modern society, trad norms eg duty to remain with same partner, loose hold over ppl
-As a result we’re more free to pursuit our own self-interest (so more fragile)
Giddens (PR)
-One that exists solely to satisfy each partners needs and not out of a sense of duty, tradition, children sake. (Pure relationship)
-Its normalised
(Higher divorce rates)
How else does modern society encourage individualism
-W and M expected to work & encouraged to pursue ambitions (can cause conflicts between partners)
-Encourages ppl to adopt a neoliberal, consumerist identity-freedom to follow one’s own self-interest
Sociologists disagree about the effects of DR on society. New rights view…
-See it as undesirable as it undermines marriage and the trad nuclear family-they regard it vital to social stability
-They see it creating a growing underclass of welfare dependent female LPF - burden to state, boys without RM
-Also results in poorer health& educational outcomes for children
What are feminists views on high divorce rates
-See it as desirable, shows W are breaking free from the oppression of the patriarchal nuclear family
What are postmodernists and the individualisation thesis view on high divorce rates
-Shows individuals now have the freedom to choose to end a relationship when it no longer meets their needs.
-See it as a major cause of greater family diversity
What are functionalists views on high divorce rates
-Its not necessarily a threat to marriage as a social institution, simply the result of peoples higher expectations of marriage today
-High re-marriage rates shows ppls continuing commitment to marriage
Interactionists views of high divorce rates
-Aim to understand what divorce means to individuals
Morgan: argues we cannot generalise about the meaning of divorce, as every person’s interpretation is different
Eg some say their father leaving was best day of their life, some never recover
Personal life perspective of high divorce rates
-Accepts that divorce can cause problems, eg financial, custody ect
-But some (Smart) argue divorce has become ‘normalised’ and that family life can adopt without disintegrating-rather than seeing it a major social problem
What are some important changes in the pattern of marriage in recent years
-Fewer marrying, at lowest since 1920
-More re-marriages (1/3 we’re in 2012) leading to serial monogamy
-Marrying later(rose 7yrs 1971-2012)
-Couples less likely to marry in church: fallen by 30% since 2012