Ch13 Peer Relationships Flashcards
Play
activities that children engage in for
inherent enjoyment
Benefits of engaging in Play
Learning and practicing empathy
Fostering cognitive and language development
Enhancing motor development and skills
Promoting emotion regulation and increasing
positive emotions
The Development of Social Play
Social types of play
Parallel play
Associative play
Cooperative play
Anna Freud and
Sophie Dann’s Research
Studied a group of orphans liberated
from a Nazi concentration camp at the
end of World War II
Provided evidence that relationships with peers can help
very young children develop (some) social and emotional
capacity for social relationships that usually emerge in the
context of parent-child relationships
Similar findings were obtained two decades later in
research with monkeys
Although peers alone cannot produce optimal
development in children, peers can contribute to
children’s development in meaningful ways
Choice of Friends: Preschoolers
proximity is the key factor in
friendship selection
In most industrialized countries, similarity in age is
also major factor in friendship
Preference for same-sex
friends emerges in
preschool and continues
through adolescence
To lesser degree,
children tend to be
friends with peers of
same race
Effects of Friendships
Reciprocated best friend
In preadolescence
relates to positive social outcomes in middle childhood and self-
perceived competence and adjustment in adulthood
…but it’s correlational research, causal relationship unclear
Children who have antisocial and aggressive
friends tend to exhibit antisocial and aggressive
tendencies themselves
Again, correlational
unclear whether having aggressive friends actually causes aggressive
behavior or if aggressive children gravitate toward one another
Choice of Friends: By age 7
children tend to like peers similar
to themselves in cognitive maturity of their
play and in their aggressive behavior
Choice of Friends: 4th to 8th Grade
riends are more
similar than nonfriends in prosocial
behaviors, antisocial behavior, peer
acceptance, and academic motivation
Choice of Friends: Adolescents
friends tend to have similar
interests, attitudes, and behavior
The Role of Technology in
Friendships
Online social media, instant messaging, and
texting important in peer interactions
Creation and maintenance of electronic
communication facilitates
Greater anonymity
Less emphasis on physical appearance
More control over interactions
Finding similar peers
24/7 access, and it’s fun
Perspectives on use of technology
Rich-get-richer hypothesis: Internet beneficial
to those who already are proficient using Internet
skills
Social-compensation hypothesis: online
communications benefits over face-to-face
communication for lonely and socially anxious
youths.
In contrast: high levels of Internet use primarily for
entertainment or for communication with strangers
can harm the quality of friendships and predicts
increases in anxiety and depression.
Effects of Friendships
Extent to which friends’ use
drugs/alcohol may put an
adolescent at risk depends, in
part, on nature of the child-
parent relationship
If adolescent’s parents are
authoritative in their
parenting rather than
cold/detached, adolescent is
more likely to be protected
against peer pressure to
use drugs
Peer Stress, Parent Support, and
Children’s Depressive Symptoms
When children have high
peer stress and low parent
support, they experience
high levels of depressive
symptoms.
In contrast, if they have
supportive parents, children
have the same level of
depressive symptoms
regardless of the amount of
stress from their peers
sociometric status
a measurement of the degree to
which children are liked or disliked by their peers as a group
Popular Peer Status
A category of sociometric status that refers to
children or adolescents who are viewed positively by
many peers and are viewed negatively by few peers
These individuals…
Tend to be skilled at initiating
interactions with peers and at
maintaining positive
relationships
Tend to be cooperative, friendly,
sociable, and sensitive to others
Are not prone to intense
negative emotions and regulate
themselves well
Tend to be less aggressive than
average children