Ch 1-4 Flashcards
Help clients manage their problems in living more effectively
Primary goals of helper
Help clients become better at helping themselves
Secondary goals of helper
Knowing “how” rather than “what”
Wisdom
Unconditional positive regard, accurate empathy, genuineness
Relationship quality
Foundational value
Respect
The value that orients helpers in every interaction with their clients
Empathy
Authenticity, being “real”
Genuineness
Responsibility-focused value
Empowerment
Outcome-focused value
Action
Requirements for dialogue in helping:
Turn taking
Connecting
Mutual influencing
Co-creating outcomes
SOLER stands for
Face the client SQUARELY adopt an OPEN posture At times, LEAN towards eachother Maintain good EYE contact Be RELAXED or as natural as possible
Forms of inadequate listening
Non-listening
Partial listening
Tape recorder listening
Rehearsing
Why do people seek help?
To deal with problems in living
To uncover missed opportunities/live more fully