attraction Flashcards
social psychology definition
“the scientific investigation of how the thoughts, feelings and behaviours of individuals are influenced by the actual, imagined or implied presence of others”
interpersonal attraction
- the study of attraction between people
- considers the degree to which we like others
- relates to both platonic relationships (friendships) and romantic relationships
- love is the most intense form of attraction and includes other elements such as sexual desire and deep concern for each other
proximity
- proximity means being physically or functionally close to someone
- the smaller the distance between two people, either at school, work, home or some other place they visit regularly (including online), the more likely they are to be attracted to each other
proximity research- Festinger’s study
- Festinger (1950) studied students who were studying in college apartments
- the students were assigned to their apartments; they did not choose where they lived themselves
- the researchers then asked them, ‘Which student in the estate do you see most of socially?’
- they found that students were the friendliest with those living next door, slightly less friendly with those two doors away and least friendly with those at the end of the corridor
- they also found that students who lived near a stairwell had more friends, including those on the next floor, than those living at the end of the corridor
familiarity
- proximity is likely to lead to frequent interactions with someone
- in turn, more frequent contact allows two people to know each other better and develop a relationship
- In other words, closer proximity can lead to more encounters (exposure), which leads to familiarity
- the more familiar we are with someone, the more likely we will feel attracted to them
mere exposure effect
Individuals show an increased preference (or liking) for a stimulus as a consequence of repeated exposure to that stimulus
To sum up:
the more familiar a person is, the more likely we will feel attracted to them
this includes preferring to look at mirror images of ourselves (the way we appear in a mirror) while our friends prefer the more familiar non mirror image
similarity
the more similar a person is to us, the more attracted we feel towards them
This includes similarities in: Beliefs Age Education Socio-economic background Personality Political beliefs Religion
what makes a person physically attractive
- research suggests that most people prefer: large eyes, a small nose and chin and prominent cheekbones
when these features are actually measured, it appears that highly attractive faces are more symmetrical and closer to average within the culture than others.
matching hypothesis
we are more likely to be attracted to a partner who is of similar attractiveness to us
Research:
Participants rated the physical attractiveness of couples in photographs
Shown photos of ‘real’ couples and ‘random’ couples.
Results: the ‘real’ couples were consistently found to be judged as more equal in attractiveness than the ‘random’ pairs
complementary factor
one person seeks one thing from a relationship while the other seeks something else
people like to be with others whose needs, behaviours and resources complement their own
this provides balance and some evidence that similarity may not always be important
psychological attractiveness
people are more likely to like those who display positive attitudes towards others and life in general compared to those who display negative attitudes
Psychologically attractive - friendly, patient and good listeners, stay positive, criticisms are constructive
Halo effect
- the tendency to use global evaluations to make judgements about specific traits
- in other words a trait such as ‘attractive’ determines personality traits such as ‘outgoing’ or ‘kind’.
Solomon Asch (1946) study
we form impressions in a holistic way and that central traits have a disproportionate influence on impressions
central Traits:
- kindness
- honesty
- friendliness
peripheral traits:
- Shyness
- Irritability
- Anxiety
RESEARCH
warm and cold personalities:
Asch (1946) found that:
- ‘warm’ people were more likely to be considered popular, friendly and generous compared to ‘cold’ people
- no difference between the terms reliable and honest.
- warm and cold - central traits
- therefore, have a strong influence on our impressions of others.
reciprocity principle
we tend to find people more attractive if we think they like us (reciprocity)
If someone likes us, then we probably like them.