attachment and later relationships

Question 1

who suggested the internal working model

Answer 1

-Bowlby

Question 2

what is the internal working model

Answer 2

-baby’s first relationship with primary attachment figure leads to a mental representation of this relationship
-forming a schema for future adult relationships

Question 3

what do securely attached babies tend to go on to form and who suggested this

Answer 3

-best quality childhood friendships
-uninvolved in bullying
-kerns

Question 4

what type of attachment style is most likely to be bullied and be the bully

Answer 4

be bullied = insecure avoidant
be the bully= insecure resistant

Question 5

what kind of behaviours would typify insecure avoidant attachment

Answer 5

-uninvolved and not emotionally close

Question 6

what kind of behaviours would typify insecure resistant

Answer 6

controlling and argumentative

Question 7

what two major adult experiences do internal working models affect

Answer 7

-romantic relationships and parental relationships with your own children

Question 8

what are secure adults love experiences, views of relationships and memories of mother child relationship

Answer 8

love experiences - relationships are positive
view of relationships- trust others and believe in enduring relationships
memories of mother child relationship- positive image of mother as dependable and caring

Question 9

what are insecure resistant’s love experiences, views of relationships and memories of mother child relationships

Answer 9

love experiences- preoccupied by love
view of relationships- fall in love easily but have trouble finding true love
memories of mother child relationship- conflicting memories of mother being positive and rejecting

Question 10

what are insecure avoidants love experiences, views of relationships, memories of mother child relationships

Answer 10

love experiences- fearful of closeness
views of relationships- love is not desirable or necessary for happiness
memories of mother child relationships- remembers mother as cold and rejecting

Question 11

who came up with the questionnaire termed “love quiz”

Answer 11

Hazan and shaver

Question 12

what did the love quiz test

Answer 12

-tests the internal working model to asses if attachment type formed as infant influences friendships and adult relationships

Question 13

how did they sample with the love quiz

Answer 13

placed quiz in American newspaper - volunteer sample

Question 14

findings of the love quiz

Answer 14

56% secure
25% avoidant
19% resistant

Question 15

what did they find that securely attached respondents tended to have

Answer 15

-a positive internal working model
-longer relationships (10 years compared to the 6 years for insecure)