Adult attachment Flashcards
John Bowlby
secondary drive theory of love
Harlow an Harlow
monkey study
monkeys wanted comfort not just food
secondary drive theory of love
innate behavioural attachment
how is the attachment system activated
external - loud noises, strangers, being alone
internal - sickness, hunger, pain
when the attachment system is activated what is deactivated?
the exploration system (cant play/explore)
Secure attachment
50-60%
return of mother is solution of the problem
get back to playing
ambivalent attachment
10-15% reunion doesn't calm baby anger due to being alone inconsistent care preoccupied with availability
avoidant attachment
20-25%
reunion is not affective
ignores mum due to experience of rejection
rejecting caregiver
disorganised attachment
when the threat is also the caregiver
child doesn’t know how to behave
internal working models (Bowlby)
it is the sum of all your attachments that tailer yours
can also be seen as schemas
Bartholomew and Horowitz (1991)
split the three styles into 4 along 2 dimensions:
avoidance of emotional intimacy (deactivate attachment)
anxiety about abandonment (hyperactivate attachment)
secure attachment predicts
academic achievment, skill, attention spans
airport seperation study
Separation is the threat (57%) - exhibited more attachment behaviours Flying together (43%) - less attachment behaviours (less likely to stay in close proximity)
- Concerns about availability/accessibility results in increased attachment behaviours.
intrapersonal correlates and consequences
self esteem, mental health, coping, perceived social support, pain tolerance, emotional regulation
interpersonal correlates and consequences
caregiving, parenting, empathy, prosocial behaviour
attachment styles as schemas
we can have multiple attachment styles, stored in schema
can be situation specific
can be made salient by priming
can be relationship specific
Rowe and Carnelly (2003)
P’s recalled words in a way congruent with the primed style
secure = more positive interpersonal expectation
text message can prime attachment
internal working models
templates of beliefs about the self and others based on a history of caregiving experiences
positive view of self, positive view of others
secure
negative view of self, positive view of others
preoccupied (want to be completely emotionally intimate with others)
positive view of self, negative view of others
dismissing (don’t depend on others)
negative view of self, negative view of others
fearful (want emotional closeness but don’t trust anyone, worry about being hurt)
high avoidance, low anxiety
dismissing
high avoidance, high anxiety
fearful
high anxiety, low avoidance
preoccupied
low anxiety, low avoidance
secure
appraisal of self worth and self confidence
measures adult attachment style and self esteem
60 studies measuring this (Mikulincer and Shaver, [in]2007)
anxious - (preoccupied/fearful) low self esteem, high anxiety
avoidant - less clear