A kind of love some say Flashcards

Relationships

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Explores the everlasting…

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psychological and physical scars

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2
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Accentuates the importance of…

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not permitting physical abuse, as it can severely damage a person in the long term.

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3
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Suffering became a part of…

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the speaker´s identity

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4
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3 Big Ideas

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  • Poignant contemplation on the profound impact of enduring physical or emotional abuse
  • Consequences of complex relationships
  • Overwhelming conflicting emotions blur the thin silver lining between love and its antithesis, hate.
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5
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“Is it true the ribs can tell / the kick of a beast from a / lover´s fist”

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The rhetorical question creates a perturbing comparison between the lover´s actions and the kick of a beast.

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“Is it true” highlights the…

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unimaginable. The speaker adopts an enigmatic tone as to highlights how the stories of physical abuse appear to be unbelievable.

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“Lover´s fist?”

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The jarring juxtaposition may convey the speaker´s overwhelming feelings, heightening the tension of the poem as people would not usually associate a lover with a “fist”.

In doing so, Angelou depicts the lover as dangerous. Which further enhances the speaker´s fragility and powerlessness.

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“Bones”, “bruised”, “sudden shock”

(in terms of sibilance and plosive alliteration)

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The plosive alliteration may portray the violence and aggression the lover has towards the speaker.

The soft sibilance may represent the speaker´s unwillingness to express her suffering and distress, as she is trapped within this psychologically damaging relationship.
The speaker is isolated with nothing but the already physically damaged body parts and the certainty of enduring more pain.

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“Bones”, “bruised”, “sudden shock”

(in terms of asyndetic listing)

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The asyndetic listing feels like a routine. It may portray the ongoing, cyclical pain the lover inflicts upon the speaker.

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10
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Deeper implications in general

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Experiencing physical abuse has no comparison to the quantity of emtional pain one may endure

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11
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“[the] / Hard impact.”

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Imagery of the unexpected actions of the lover

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12
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The enjambment places emphasis upon “Hard”, as the…

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visual separation between lines may connote the sudden, powerful and violent contact between the lover and the speaker.

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13
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The short phrase, “Hard impact”, creates an…

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emphatic tone - further portraying the lover´s brutal actions and the speaker´s fear as a result of this.

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14
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“Hate often is confused”

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The declarative statement universally expresses Angelou´s concerns for society´s attempts at justifying hatred and bad behaviours.

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15
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Universal message (as a whole)

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Love challenges our conventional notions and once we open up to experiencing love, we are opening a door to possible abuse.

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16
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“[Its] limits are in zones beyond itself.”

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The metaphor suggests that everyone has different perspectives upon love and hate, and therefore, the boundaries between manners that are acceptable or not are highly subjective.

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The lexical field of restrictions is seen in:

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“limits” and “zones”

18
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The preposition, “beyond, suggests that…

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love is something transcendent. Hence, our inability to fully grasp the full understanding of what it is to feel loved and to give love.

D.I.

Unless we go through similar experiences of abuse, we will be unable to understand why many victims diminish the importance of the pain inflicted upon them.

19
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“Sorry eyes, spoke not / of lost romance, but hurt.”

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Metaphor

20
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“Sorry”

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The speaker feels apologetic and internalises the pain from the relationship.

ALTERNATIVELY

Angelou may be suggesting that after the moment of physical abuse, lovers tend to reflect back on the moment and are sorry for the pain they have inflicted. However, Angelou informs readers that this apologetic feeling is only brief as they are likely to fall-back upon these hurtful manners again.

21
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“Sorry eyes”

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Graphical imagery of the lover´s pain.
After enduring physical abuse, your appearance is unable to mask the incurable emotional wounds.

22
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“Of lost romance,”

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The speaker reminisces about the past. Nostalgic tone.

If the “sorry eyes” are the speakers, it may suggest that the lover still feels love and affection towards the lover, which may imply that she´s is unable to realise how unhealthy the relationship is as she has become accustomed to the suffering; she cannot imagine what a normal one it.

The aggression has been normalised and as she looks into the lover´s eyes she desperately convinces herself that he still loves her.

23
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The short syntax of the phrase, “but hurt”, adds…

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gravity and emotional weight to the speaker´s emotions.

24
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The adjective, “hurt”, encapsulates…

(+ how the reader responds)

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the speaker´s vulnerability and fragility. Maximising the pain felt.

Readers evoke sympathy towards the speaker.

25
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“Love by nature, exacts a pain / unequalled on the rack.”

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The metaphor suggests that love is multifaceted and unique to everyone.

26
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“Love by nature” suggests that…

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we are all born with goodness and love in our hearts. However, some people enjoy inflicting pain and agony upon others. Angelou suggests that it is these people who will never be able to experience “true love”.

27
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“pain”

(+ plosive alliteration)

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Angelou expresses her concerns as she highlights how lover´s try and justify their abuse as love.

Plosive alliteration: Sounds harsher

28
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The adjective, “unequalled”, means (in the context of the poem)….

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that the pain endured is superior to everything.
This further emphasises that the pain inflicted upon the speaker is inhumane and unspeakable.

29
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“unequalled on the rack” references…

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a torturing device.

Angelou is addressing the suffering that can be caused in a relationship - Makes readers aware that it is not all “happy”.

(rephrase)

30
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CONTEXT

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Angelou´s childhood trauma.
She is drawing upon the impotent and vulnerable sensations she has felt.

31
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The decreasing stanza lengths may symbolise…

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the speaker´s diminishing hopes and sense of defeat.

32
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The poem is mostly composed of enjambment which may highlight…

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the continuous pain the speaker experiences