4- Children facing Death Flashcards
Can’t differentiate death & separation
Believe death is reversible
Children from birth to 4
Come to understand irreversible & final
May believe they can cause death
*Younger-Death is going to sleep or on a trip
Children between 4 & 6
Understand death irreversible & universal
Develop logical thought, realistic understanding of cause of death
Children between 7 & 11
Abstract understanding of death
May perceive as heroic or tragic
May choose escapism, denial, acting out
Children 12 - Adolescent
Myths about grief in children & adolescents include:
Do not grieve Should not go to funerals Should always attend funerals Recover from loss quickly Shield from los
Children’s grief is commonly..
Misunderstood
A child’s grief is manifested by the childs (2)
Developmental stage
Access to surround supports
T/F Children should not and cannot be protected from death and loss.
TRUE
To assist grieving children it is important that families receive larger…
Community Support
Interventions for preschoolers include:
Simple terms, open to questions
Age appropriate literature
Interventions for 6-8 include:
Encourage participation in rituals
Support in sharing controlled emotions
Interventions for 9-11 include:
Encourage participation in care-giving
Give information about dx & px stat
Interventions for Adol 12-14 include:
Allow to assist in caregiving, but not 2 burdensome
Allow choice in rituals after death
Interventions for Adol 15-17 include:
Discuss ways they can help
Anticipate intense mourning & help them understand grieving process
_____ is a natural medium for children to express their feelings & allows them to feel some control
PLAY
T/F Children will express grief through play whether facilitated by adults or other children.
TRUE
Some helpful activities and toys?
Dolls/Action Figures & houses
Puppets
Aggression release (drums, punching bags)
Children & teens also benefit from this therapy, providing avenues for expression.
ART
Hospice & palliative often use ____ with children and adolescents. Funeral homes too!
ARTS - collages, scrapbooks, music
Children age 1-9 die from..
Unintentional/Intentional Injuries
Congenital defects
Cancer
Youth 10-19 die from…
Unintentional/Intentional injuries
Cancer
Heart disease
There are 4 pathways to children death: (SPCP)
Sudden
Potentially curable disease
Congenital abnormality
Progressive condition
Children with progressive disorders often have multiple episodes until they die. Care-givers who have fought for survival may be..
Ill-prepared to provide end-of-life care
T/F Children often suffer needlessly at the end of life.
TRUE