15 - Death and dying Flashcards

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True or false: Younger adults tend to be exposed to death more than any other age group.

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False: Older adults tend to be exposed to death more than any other age group
→ because of loss of peers, family members, etc.
→ also increased age brings them closer to death, especially with illnesses and conditions

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Older adults think about death more but ___ it less than other age groups. Elaborate on this.

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Fear;
- Nevertheless, they may still experience significant emotional effects when faced with their own death
- Worry more about the process of dying rather than death itself
→ the idea of suffering sis smt that causes a lot of stress
→ more practical considerations than existential
- greater acceptance, and understanding of death as a natural life cycle; less fear of death; more inevitable and less fearful than when younger
→ may still experience emotional and psychological effects about their mortality (anxiety, stress, etc.)

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Older adults may think of their death as a ___; in what cases does this occur?

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Blessing;
→ can be the case after a long difficult process of dying (especially after drugs that helped and painful operations)

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What do older adults state often when they have a family caregiver at home?

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  • They often state they do not want to be a burden to others
    → especially if they have a caregiver at home
  • When dying they often express more concerns about the needs of their caregivers, minimize their needs, and plan for their deaths
    → there is also a financial burden and stress that goes upon the family as well
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What is caregiver burden?

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  • caregiver burden: stress perceived by the caregiver due to the homecare situation; subjective burden
    → one of the most important predictors of negative outcomes of the situation for the older adult, for the caregiver themselves
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Most people die in a ___ (or ___ ___) despite wanting to die at ___.

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Hospital; LTC facility; at home

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Despite medical advances, those with terminal illness tend to experience pain and discomfort when they die; why is this?

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→ big family aspect to it; family thinks the elder is getting too many drugs but in reality it’s what is easing their pain
→ not enough access to palliative care or hospice (expensive, not everything covers for at-home care)
→ under-utilized and too expensive for racial and ethnic minorities
→ if there’s any unpredictable nature to your illness, there may not be enough resources or knowledge to get you where you need

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How can diversions of opinions about death between family and the older adult be made less likely?

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4 factors
1) the person deciding is young and female (treated with more dignity and respect)
2) higher family income (less of a burden to the family)
3) illness is long during and if the individual is close to death
4) if the family has talked about it

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With advanced age/illness, most people wish…

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  • To be free of pain and symptoms
  • To be treated with dignity and respect
  • To maintain a sense of autonomy and control over their last days
  • To be informed of their prognoses and have time to put their affairs in order
  • To avoid becoming burdens to their families
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What are things that are often overlooked about end-of-life concerns?

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  • Patients often value independence and want to maintain control over their lives and want to continue participating in activities they enjoy
  • The need to satisfy their spiritual needs
    → older adults can become more religious, and if no one is sympathetic to that, it can become problematic (or the opposite)
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How do spirituality and religious beliefs fall into death and dying?

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  • dying and death often becomes a spiritual path for older adults
  • Death typically involves finding meaning in the life one has lived and in your own death and dying
  • Most religions mention some kind of afterlife which helps reduce death anxiety
  • Christianity and Islam teach about reunited with loved ones after death
  • Buddhism and Hinduism teach about a cycle of life, death, rebirth
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True or false: those who have mild or uncertain religious beliefs fear death the most, and those with strong beliefs or not beliefs at all deal with death best.

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True

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Explain the concept of a good death.

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  • The concept of a good death is individualized (to each their own) and ultimately depends on the person who is dying; aligns with the individual’s and the family’s wishes
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Based on what, how, where, with whom, when and why criteria, what differentiates a good death from a bad death?

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Good death:
- What: Heart attack, “natural” death
- How: Quick, painless
- Where: At home, in bed
- With whom: With loves ones
- When: During old age, timely, prepared
- Why: Meaningful, expected, accuracy
Bad death:
- What: Cancer, AIDS, ALS, Alzheimers disease
- How: Slow, agonizing, without dignity
- Where: In hospital or ICU
- With whom: Alone or with strangers
- When: In very old age, untimely, unprepared
- Why: Meaningless, senseless

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From the POV of the senior, vs. the POV of the family, vs. the POV of society; what constitutes a good death?

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  • From the POV of the senior - good death may be a lack of pain during the process, quick, at home with loved ones, and being prepared to die
  • From POV of the family – good death may be when it relieves the family of burden (e.g., financial or emotional)
  • From POV of society – good death may be when it minimizes demands on society (e.g., financially)
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16
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Name the 5 stages of grief.

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1) Denial and isolation
2) Anger
3) Bargaining
4) Depression
5) Acceptance

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Explain the first stage of grief.

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Denial and isolation
- Most typically occurs when a patient is informed prematurely or abruptly
→ someone who doesn’t take into account the person’s readiness for death
- Often the first reaction after shock but is used throughout the whole process
- Is often temporary and replaced by partial acceptance
- Denial may also be expressed as disbelief

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Explain the second stage of grief

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Anger
- Often starts out as “Why Me”
- Gets displaced in all directions and projected onto the environment
→ this can be towards anyone; doctors, nurses, family, friends
- Should be extra understanding of this stage
→ See others being able to complete their life when they cannot
→ They take anger out on people who are able to enjoy the things they wanted to
- Important to think of the reasons for the anger and understand it – do not take it personally

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Explain the third stage of grief.

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Bargaining
- Employed as an act of agreement (with God(s))
→ very similar to kids, p.ex: asking to go to a friends and they say no, then they start being nicer to convince them
- Acts as an attempt to postpone the inevitable
→ sometimes to be able to attend an event (a child’s wedding p.ex, then they can go)
- Includes an implicit promise that the patient will not ask for anything else if granted
→ Maybe a reward for good behavior
→ Sets a self-imposed deadline
→ Most patients don’t keep the “implicit promise”
→ stuck in the bargaining stage sometimes, after they get what they asked for, they continue to ask

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Explain the fourth stage of grief + its forms

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Depression
- Often the feeling of a great loss
- Comes in two forms:
→ Receptive Depression; feeling associated with a great loss (p.ex: loss of her figure with breast cancer)
→ could get prosthetics to deal with that, boosting self-esteem; often lifted when underlying issues are dealt with, but not often
→ Preparatory Depression; feeling associated with a potential loss
→ Both types vary in how they manifest
- Thus, how to manage each type differs

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Explain the fifth stage of grief.

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Acceptance
- Patient often wants to be left alone (often confused with giving up)
- families will need more help than the adult sometimes in this stage
- Has found peace and acceptance with circle of interests diminishing
- want less interaction with the world, shorter and less visits because they’re “checked out”
- Very few actually reach acceptance
→ Most try to fight or struggle to avoid death
→ Struggling makes it difficult for them to reach acceptance with peace

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What is grief?

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  • Intrapersonal dimension of coping with loss
  • Involuntary reaction to the loss
  • Emotional response to the loss
    → grief is a reflection of a connection that has been broken
    → so there’s emotional, spiritual, psychological components involved; all of which being a journey into healing
  • more personal and spontaneous
  • becomes less intense over time, but never actually ends – comes and goes, can return
  • very individualized, everyone grieves in their own way and at their own time
  • It is a healing process that brings us comfort in our pain
  • Plan so much in life (e.g., weddings, vacations) but when it comes to death we are often unprepared
  • It shouldn’t be matter of if you grieve but more about when you grieve
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What is mourning?

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  • The process of incorporating the experience of loss
  • Outward acknowledgment of the loss (the expression)
  • Ongoing, active process of moving toward accommodation
  • conforms to social and cultural norms; wearing black, seclusion,listening to certain type of music
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What is bereavement?

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The state of loss

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True or false: Those who grieve well, live well.

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True: healing process of the heart, soul and the mind – returns us to a better state

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What is anticipatory grief?

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Grieving the loss of someone before they die – notably seen in terminal illnesses (especially if a long process, can experience all stages before they die)

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Women live longer so there are __ widows for __ widower.

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4; for every 1

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True or false: Being a widow(er) increases likelihood of dying

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True: if older, less disruptive to their self-identity or image

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When is widowhood most stressful?

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  • When it is unexpected or occurs early in life
    → Even more of a problem if the spouses are cohabitating and assist each other
    → financial strain, loss of work and community roles, health declines, loss of mobility, loss in vision and hearing, etc. (secondary stressors; result from the loss of the spouse)
  • Ultimate challenge is to find meaning and purpose
30
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For women, the income drops by __% in the first __ years after a husband’s death.

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44%; 3 years

31
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What are the main losses men experience after a wife’s death?

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  • but for men, it’s more so the loss of a confidant, a helpmate, a caregiver
    → men who have had their wife die also pass away very quickly within 6 months of their wife dying due to alcohol related deaths, lung cancer, heart disease – so the effect and the emotional toll can occur both ways
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The death (___ ___) is associated with other stressors and can set off a chain of “___ ___”

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primary stressor; secondary stressors

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Most older adults have a __ week or more period of intense sadness after being widowed.

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2

34
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Widowhood was once seen as an ___, but now is a ___.

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Even; process
→ because most deaths to older adults now are due to chronic illnesses; drawn out for longer rather than a sudden death

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What are symptoms of grief?

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Distress, loneliness, anger, and anxiety vary

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What are grieving styles?

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  • Grieving styles range on a continuum
    → how an individual experiences grief and how it is expressed
    → one or the other, can’t be both BUT can transition from one to the other
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What are the 2 types of grieving styles?

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  • Intuitive griever: they put more energy into the affective domain and invest less into the cognitive
    → Profoundly painful feelings
    → These grievers tend to spontaneously express their painful feelings through crying
    → Want to share their inner experiences with others
  • Instrumental griever: they put more energy into the cognitive domain rather than the affective
    → Painful feelings are tempered
    → Grief is more of an intellectual experience
    → Instrumental grievers may channel energy into activity
    → They may also prefer to discuss problems rather than feelings