young women & women in the home Flashcards

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what would a Roman bride do the day before her wedding

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sacrifice her bulla and childhood toys to the lares of the house

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what would a roman bride wear on her wedding day

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a wedding dress with a woollen belt around her waist. the belt remains tied until untied by her husband that night

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what would a roman bride wear in her hair?

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a flame coloured veil. she would also wear her hair in six locks- like the vestal virgins

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where would the roman wedding ceremony take place?

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at the bride’s father’s house

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what would happen after the roman wedding ceremony?

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a lavish feast would take place in the bride’s father’s house

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what would the groom do in a roman wedding?

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the groom would make a show of force, pretending to steal the bride away from her mother, reenacting the rape of the Sabine women

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what happens after the groom steals the bride in a roman wedding?

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a lively procession took place from the bride’s house to the groom’s. the guests would sing wedding hymns. women would hold spindles and the groom would throw nuts and dried fruits to the crowd

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what did the roman bride have?

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three coins. one was dropped during the procession for Janus, one given to her husband and the third given as a sacrifice to ht Lares of her new home

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what would the bride wrap around the doorposts at the groom’s house in a roman wedding?

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wool

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what would the groom do when they reached his house in a roman wedding?

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carry the bride over the threshold of the house

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what would the couple do last in a roman wedding?

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the couple would visit the family’s hearth which the bride would light with a torch from the procession. they would then retire to their bedroom for the night

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what was the first part of an Athenian wedding for the bride?

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she would share a feast with her female family, also with her friends- if she had any

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who would the Athenian bride make sacrifices to on the first day of the wedding

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Artemis, the protector of young girls to thank her for protection during childhood and ask her to continue the protection into adulthood. Hera, goddess of marriage to try and secure a happy and successful marriage. Aphrodite, goddess of love, to try and secure a loving and happy marriage with lots of children

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what is the first thing the bride does on the second day of and Athenian wedding?

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she would take a ritual bath. this was meant to purify her, removing any pollution and enhance her fertility

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what would an Athenian bride wear after the ritual bath?

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she would wear her finest clothes and jewellery as well as a veil

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on the second day of an Athenian wedding where does the lavish feast take place?

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at the bride’s Kyrios’ house

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what does the groom pretend to do in an Athenian wedding?

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the groom drags the bride away from her mother in a pretend show of force. this mirrors several stories such as Persephone and Hades, Helen and Paris and Helen and Theseus. it makes the groom feel powerful and as though the bride is now his property

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In an Athenian wedding, what happens after the groom steals the bride?

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the couple travel from the bride’s house to the groom’s. this was called the torchlight procession because it happened after dark. The guests would follow singing wedding songs (to ward off evil spirits) and throwing flowers and small fruits (for fertility)

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what happens at the end of the torchlight procession in an Athenian wedding?

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the axle of the cart was burned. This symbolised new beginnings but also that the bride’s way back to her family and her life before marriage was burned as well, this would also serve to make her hesitate before, for whatever reason seeking a divorce

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where is an Athenian bride taken first in the groom’s house?

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the hearth

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what happens after the couple visit the hearth in an Athenian wedding?

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the bride and groom spend the night together and consummate the marriage while family and friends waited outside, singing songs and banging on the door- both for encouragement for the very young bride and to ward of evil spirits which might stop the bride from getting pregnant and producing legitimate heirs for her husband

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what is the last part of an Athenian wedding?

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the couple come out from their bedroom on the 3rd day and the guests will still be there. they would sing wedding sings and give the bride gifts

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what would an Athenian bride sacrifice to Artemis?

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a lock of hair and a childhood toy

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purpose of an Athenian wedding?

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alliances- by marrying a daughter into a good family you cement an alliance, support in times of need, political matters etc
legitimate heirs- this was the biggest and most important part of a marriage, without a legitimate heir, the Oikos and everyone in it would be given to the closest male relative, this could severely affect members of the Oikos as they could potentially lose their home, their possessions etc. having lots of children increased the chance of a son and the chances of the Oikos surviving
Making the Kyrios look good- the feasts, the brides clothing, the kyrios’ house, who the bride is marrying. all of it is potential for the kyrios to show off, improve his reoutation and potentially form more alliances

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kyrios
the male head of a Greek household with responsibility for and authority over all members of the household
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kyria
the kyrios' wife
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exposure
the ancient art of leaving an unwanted baby outside the city to die
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dowry
an amount of money to be paid to a prospective groom by the bride's family
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wetnurse
a woman who looks after and breastfeeds another women's baby
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stele
stone slabs with sculptural decoration, used as funerary monuments
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helot
a spartan word for slave, spartan society had a whole class of enslaved people
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symposium
a drinking party help by an Athenian Kyrios
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kleros
the plot of farmland loaned by the Spartan government to every adult male citizen
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agoge
training school that spartan boys were sent to age 7
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syssition
communal mess hall in which spartan warriors dined with their comrades. Each man had to contribute food (in practice this meant his wife had to contribute it from their kleros)
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polyandry
the practice of having multiple male sexual partners. Spartans practiced polyandry to promote childbirth
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paterfamilias
the male head of a Roman family
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patria potestas
the power or authority held by the paterfamilias over members of his household
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materfamilias
the wife of the paterfamilias, the female head of a Roman family
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bulla
lucky charm worn by Roman children
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litterator
a Roman teacher who focused on reading, writing and arithmetic
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fresco
a wall painting originally done on damp plaster in which the colour becomes fixed as the plaster dries. This was a very common way of decorating houses
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cum manu
a Roman form of marriage, meaning with hand. A bride would leave her childhood family and join her husband's family.
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sine manu
a Roman form of marriage meaning without hand, a bride marries her husband but remains part of her childhood household rather than her husband's household/ her husband's family's household
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coemptio, confarreatio, usus
varieties of Roman wedding ceremony
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pronuba
a Roman woman married only once and still married to that man
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lares
household gods worshipped by the Romans (like guardian / ancestor spirits)
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vilica
the head female slave of a Roman estate. Her roles were similar to that of a peasant farmers wife, but she was enslaved
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why were some Athenian babies- particularly girls exposed?
Raising children would put a lot of strain on the families resources, especially girls as things such as dowries would have to be provided for them etc
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what does Menander say about teaching women to write?
" A man who teaches a woman to write should recognise he is providing poison to an asp"
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why should quotes from Menander not be considered completely trustworthy?
Menander was a comedic playwright, so much of his work would most likely have been exaggerated to make it more entertaining.
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describe an Athenian betrothal ceremony
The Athenian girl's kyrios would select an appropriate groom and agree a dowry. The paterfamilias and the groom would then swear an oath in front of witnesses to complete the betrothal ceremony. The bride would not be present for any of this.
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what does Pericles say about women in his funeral oration?
"The greatest glory will be hers who is least talked about among the men, whether for good or for bad"
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describe the grave stele of Ampharete
The grave stele of Ampharete is a funeral monument, carved to resemble a house. The main focus of the stele is a woman sitting on a chair, holding a baby (her grandchild). You have a profile view of Ampharete and she is dressed in modest, draping clothing showing her wealth as well as a veil- further emphasising her modesty. In one hand she holds the baby and in her other hand she holds something which could be a toy for the baby.
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what does the way Ampharete is dressed in the sculpture on her grave stele tell us?
She is dressed modestly in a veil and very draped clothes. The excess material used in her clothes shows wealth, as it would have cost more money to make / buy the clothes as there is more of them. She is therefore presented as virtuous- her modesty in her clothing showing the female virtue of modesty as well as wealthy, which would have reflected positively on her reputation.
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why is the gravestone of Ampharete not a completely reliable source?
- It is incomplete, the stele would once have been painted, because of this there could have been something painted on the background which we can no longer see, etc. - It shows an idealised version of a person, so although it is useful for telling us about the ideal standards and expectations for women, it cannot tell us much about normal everyday women and how they really were - Ampharete was obviously very wealthy, shown by both her clothing and the fact that she had an intricate stele carved to commemorate her death, this makes her experience uncommon rather than common
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what values does the grave stele of Ampharete tell us were important?
- fertility - maternity - modesty - motherhood - wealth
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what does the way Ampharete is sitting further emphasise?
Her modesty, she appears to be shielding herself slightly from view and is turned away, sitting in profile
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describe the grave stele of Hegaso
The stele itself is carved into the shape of a house, and inside 2 women are shown. The woman sitting on a chair is Hegaso whilst the other woman who is standing is most likely her servant or maid. We can tell this due to the ornate hairstyle and heavily draped clothes which Hegaso it wearing, contrasting to the much plainer and simpler clothes and hair of the other woman. The other woman also holds some sort of box out to Hegaso, it could be a jewellery box as Hegaso appears to be holding and admiring something, the way she holds it suggests it could be a piece of jewellery she has just taken from the box. Hegaso and the other woman both stand in profile, showing modesty and Hegaso also appears much bigger than the other woman- further emphasising her wealth.
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what was an unmarried girl in Athens called?
A Parthenos
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what was a married girl in Athens called?
A Nymphe
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when was an Athenian girl considered a fully grown woman?
An Athenian girl was not considered a gyne (fully grown woman) until after she had her first child
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why was it important for a Kyrios to have male heirs?
To inherit his property
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What do lots of funerary monuments show women with and what does this tell us?
Many funerary monuments show women holding babies, suggesting motherhood was seen as a very important part of their lives
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why was pregnancy and childbirth very dangerous for Athenian girls?
Newlywed girls were often not old enough for their bodies to have finished growing, and so pregnancy could risk their lives. For women of any age labour was risky because of the risk of infection. Their medical understanding was not as advanced as ours, so complications which would be easily treated today were often fatal in ancient Greece