young women & women in the home Flashcards
what would a Roman bride do the day before her wedding
sacrifice her bulla and childhood toys to the lares of the house
what would a roman bride wear on her wedding day
a wedding dress with a woollen belt around her waist. the belt remains tied until untied by her husband that night
what would a roman bride wear in her hair?
a flame coloured veil. she would also wear her hair in six locks- like the vestal virgins
where would the roman wedding ceremony take place?
at the bride’s father’s house
what would happen after the roman wedding ceremony?
a lavish feast would take place in the bride’s father’s house
what would the groom do in a roman wedding?
the groom would make a show of force, pretending to steal the bride away from her mother, reenacting the rape of the Sabine women
what happens after the groom steals the bride in a roman wedding?
a lively procession took place from the bride’s house to the groom’s. the guests would sing wedding hymns. women would hold spindles and the groom would throw nuts and dried fruits to the crowd
what did the roman bride have?
three coins. one was dropped during the procession for Janus, one given to her husband and the third given as a sacrifice to ht Lares of her new home
what would the bride wrap around the doorposts at the groom’s house in a roman wedding?
wool
what would the groom do when they reached his house in a roman wedding?
carry the bride over the threshold of the house
what would the couple do last in a roman wedding?
the couple would visit the family’s hearth which the bride would light with a torch from the procession. they would then retire to their bedroom for the night
what was the first part of an Athenian wedding for the bride?
she would share a feast with her female family, also with her friends- if she had any
who would the Athenian bride make sacrifices to on the first day of the wedding
Artemis, the protector of young girls to thank her for protection during childhood and ask her to continue the protection into adulthood. Hera, goddess of marriage to try and secure a happy and successful marriage. Aphrodite, goddess of love, to try and secure a loving and happy marriage with lots of children
what is the first thing the bride does on the second day of and Athenian wedding?
she would take a ritual bath. this was meant to purify her, removing any pollution and enhance her fertility
what would an Athenian bride wear after the ritual bath?
she would wear her finest clothes and jewellery as well as a veil
on the second day of an Athenian wedding where does the lavish feast take place?
at the bride’s Kyrios’ house
what does the groom pretend to do in an Athenian wedding?
the groom drags the bride away from her mother in a pretend show of force. this mirrors several stories such as Persephone and Hades, Helen and Paris and Helen and Theseus. it makes the groom feel powerful and as though the bride is now his property
In an Athenian wedding, what happens after the groom steals the bride?
the couple travel from the bride’s house to the groom’s. this was called the torchlight procession because it happened after dark. The guests would follow singing wedding songs (to ward off evil spirits) and throwing flowers and small fruits (for fertility)
what happens at the end of the torchlight procession in an Athenian wedding?
the axle of the cart was burned. This symbolised new beginnings but also that the bride’s way back to her family and her life before marriage was burned as well, this would also serve to make her hesitate before, for whatever reason seeking a divorce
where is an Athenian bride taken first in the groom’s house?
the hearth
what happens after the couple visit the hearth in an Athenian wedding?
the bride and groom spend the night together and consummate the marriage while family and friends waited outside, singing songs and banging on the door- both for encouragement for the very young bride and to ward of evil spirits which might stop the bride from getting pregnant and producing legitimate heirs for her husband
what is the last part of an Athenian wedding?
the couple come out from their bedroom on the 3rd day and the guests will still be there. they would sing wedding sings and give the bride gifts
what would an Athenian bride sacrifice to Artemis?
a lock of hair and a childhood toy
purpose of an Athenian wedding?
alliances- by marrying a daughter into a good family you cement an alliance, support in times of need, political matters etc
legitimate heirs- this was the biggest and most important part of a marriage, without a legitimate heir, the Oikos and everyone in it would be given to the closest male relative, this could severely affect members of the Oikos as they could potentially lose their home, their possessions etc. having lots of children increased the chance of a son and the chances of the Oikos surviving
Making the Kyrios look good- the feasts, the brides clothing, the kyrios’ house, who the bride is marrying. all of it is potential for the kyrios to show off, improve his reoutation and potentially form more alliances