Young women and Women in the home Flashcards
Who were the Kyrios and Kyria?
- Kyrios was the male head of a Greek household, who had responsibility and authority over the whole household
- Kyria was a Kyrios’ wife
What is a stele?
- Stone slab with sculptural decoration, used as funerary monuments
What is a kleros?
- The plot of farmland loaned by the Spartan state to every adult male citizen
Who is the paterfamilias?
- Male head of a Roman family
What is patria potestas?
- The power of authority held by the paterfamilias over the rest of the household
Who is a litterator?
- A Roman teacher who focused on reading, writing and arithmetic
Who is a pronuba?
- A Roman woman, married only once, and still married to that man
What is a Vilica?
- The head female slave of a Roman estate
What is the Oikos and what did it include?
- OIkos means household
- Included a whole extended family unit, including elderly relatives, unmarried female relatives and slaves
- Every Athenian Oikos strived to achieve self-sufficiency
Where were most Athenian girls educated and what would they learn?
- They’d be educated at home, by their mothers
- They’d learn practical skills such as spinning wool, cooking, managing household finances and managing household slaves
What was an Athenian quote that suggests that a girls education was frowned upon?
‘A man who teaches a woman to write should recognise he is providing poison to an asp’
- Menander
Who arranged Athenian marriages and for what purpose?
- Arranged by the Kyrios
- Almost never because of romantic love
- They’d normally be because two families wanted to solidify an alliance
When would an Athenian couple be considered married?
- From the moment of engagement (betrothal)
What was an Athenian wedding’s purpose, and what was it important that it had?
- Wedding ceremony had no legal function
- Witnesses were needed as they were important in Athenian law, because they could be called upon in court
What was an Athenian betrothal ceremony like?
- Dowry would be agreed
- Oath sworn in front of witnesses
What was an Athenian dowry like and why was it important?
- A dowry could have been between 5%-20% of a Kyrios’ wealth
- Important as it would compensate the groom’s family for providing for the bride
- It was also helpful to the bride, as if a husband wanted to divorce his wife, he’d have to return the dowry, which would encourage men to not mistreat their wives or seek divorce without a good reason
What would happen on Day 1 of an Athenian wedding?
- The Bride shares a feast with her female family and friends
- She makes sacrifices to Artemis, Hera and Aphrodite
What would happen on day 2 of an Athenian wedding?
- The Bride took a ritual bath
- The bride dresses in her finest clothes and jewellery, as well as a veil
- The bride and groom’s families shared a feast at the bride’s kyrios’ house
- The groom dragged the bride away from her mother in a pretend show of force
- The couple would travel from the bride’s house to the groom’s, in a torchlight procession. The guests would follow, singing wedding songs, and throwing flowers and small fruits
- The axle of the cart would be burned at the end of the procession, to represent that the bride couldn’t return to her childhood home
- The bride was taken to the hearth of the groom’s house
What happened on day 3 of an Athenian wedding?
- The bride and groom would spend the night together and consummate the marriage whilst family and friends waited outside, singing songs and banging on the door
- The couple would come out of their bedroom and the guests would sing wedding songs and give the bride gifts
What is said in Pericles’ funeral oration and what does it show us about expectations for Athenian women?
‘The greatest glory will be hers who is least talked of’
- Thucydides
- It was good for a woman to be unremarkable
Who is the first prescribed grave stele of?
- Ampharete
What does Ampharete’s grave stele depict?
- Ampharete holding up a toy bird for her grandchild
- Wearing fancy clothing with lots of excess fabric
- Exposed breasts
What do the features on Ampharete’s grave stele show us?
- Excess fabric on clothes conveys wealth and shows modesty
- Exposed breasts shows maternal role, but also goes against previous modesty of dress
Where was Ampharete’s grave stele located?
- The Kerameikos graveyard, just outside Athens
Who is the second prescribed grave stele of?
- Hegeso
- Also shows a household slave
What is depicted on Hegeso’s grave stele?
- Hegeso is possibly examining jewelery from a box held by a servant
- Servant has plain, simple hair and is also shorter than Hegeso
- Hegeso has styled and ornate hair and has a dress with excess fabric
What were unmarried and married girls called in Athens?
- An unmarried girl was called a Parthenos
- A married girl was a Nymphe
What was a fully grown woman called in Athens, and how would a girl become one?
- Called a Gyne
- Wouldn’t be considered one until she had had her first child
How would Athenian women have tried to treat infertility?
- Taking herbal remedies
- Spending a night in the sanctuary of the God Asclepius
What happened in Aristophanes’ comedy play about a woman faking a pregnancy?
- A woman faked a pregnancy
- She then pretended to be in labour whilst a friend brought a male baby they had purchased from someone
What would the duties of a Kyria be?
- Preserve food stores
- Decorate the andron for Symposiums
- Bear children
- Train household slaves
- Educate daughters
- Care for sick relatives
What were the Athenian laws surrounding adultery in women?
- If a man caught his wife having an affair, he could kill her lover or make him pay a large fine and be publicly humiliated
- The husband could divorce the woman and keep the dowry
- The woman would be banned from joining in religious festivals
What were the Athenian laws surrounding adultery in men?
- Men were allowed to engage in sexual activity outside of their marriages, as long as it wasn’t with a married woman, or the unmarried daughter of an Athenian citizen