Week 6, Session 2 Flashcards
Today we will discuss _______ (________), which is the most _________ aspect of relating.
Today we will discuss respect (honour) which is the most neglected aspect of relating.
________ human has a need to feel valuable, but it was ____ intended for us to have to ______ this value to __________.
Every human has a need to feel valuable, but it was not intended for us to have to assign this value to ourselves.
God created is to be ____-dependent, with a wholesome self-image the delightful ___-______ of our relationships.
God created is to be inter-dependent, with a wholesome self-image the delightful by-product of our relationships.
The FIRST measure is a person’s ________ worth - this is who we are ______ from our gifts, possessions or accomplishments.
The FIRST measure is a person’s intrinsic worth - this is who we are apart from our gifts, possessions or accomplishments.
We must be able to __________ between ____ a person ___ and ____ a person ______ to be able to give a sense of worth and value to those around us.
We must be able to distinguish between who a person is and what a person does to be able to give a sense of worth and value to those around us.
The SECOND measure of value is based on good __________.
The SECOND measure of value is based on good character.
” A _____ ______ is ______ __________ than great wealth. _________ is ______ than silver or gold”
” A good name is more desirable than great wealth. Respect is better than silver or gold”
The THIRD measure is the recognition given to a ‘spirit of _________’
The THIRD measure is the recognition given to a ‘spirit of excellence’
___________ commitment to grow and ________.
Intentional commitment to grow and develop
Acceptance demonstrates genuine ______ and regard.
Acceptance demonstrates genuine warmth and regard.
Attention gives honour because when focus on another person it shows then they are _________.
Attention gives honour because when focus on another person it shows then they are significant.
Affirmation strengthens a person’s sense of worth as we speak __________ assuring them of our belief in them
Affirmation strengthens a person’s sense of worth as we speak positively assuring them of our belief in them
Appreciation expresses _______
Appreciation expresses gratitude
Approval is our agreement with someone and is shown in two ways - by giving _______ ___ them and, or by speaking of our _______ ___ them to others
Approval is our agreement with someone and is shown in two ways - by giving support to them and, or hy speaking of our support for them to others
Admiration gives ______
Admiration gives praise
Acknowledgement gives a person _____ in _____
Acknowledgement gives a person credit in public
No matter how much we may value or think highly of someone, it _____ be _____________ clearly and correctly for this relational leg to be functional
No matter how much we may value or think highly of someone, it must be communicated clearly and correctly for this relational leg to be functional.
The simplest way to convey honour is to ______ it in ______.
The simplest way to convey honour is to express it in words.
Words must be matched by corresponding behaviour - it gives our words ____________.
Words must be matched by corresponding behaviour - it gives our words believability.
It is always honouring to take into ___________ another’s needs and preferences.
It is always honouring to take into consideration another’s needs and preferences.
Courtesy shows respect through _____ _________.
Courtesy shows respect through good manners
It shows _______ when you ____ the other person your _____ attention.
It shows honour when you give the other person your full attention.
___________ touch is another way to convey respect.
Appropriate touch is another way to convey respect.
In fact, experts tell us that the ___ - ______ message is at least __ times more powerful than the verbal message.
In fact, experts tell us that the non - verbal message is at least 5 times more powerful than the verbal message.
Attitudes are communicated through our ______ _________ - our voice, stance, vibrancy; especially our face and eyes.
Attitudes are communicated through our overall demeanor - our voice, stance, vibrancy; especially our face and eyes.
