week 6 Flashcards
peak parent experience
having a kid
low experience
when your child gets hurt,sleepless nights
maslow motivation model
- might not be linear
- sometimes trascendets might come firsr?
- no way of going back to pre-traumatic event after getting throught it
frankel 3 basic principles
- life have meaning even in the most mirable ones
- main motivation for living is our will to find meaning in life
- we gave frredom to find meaning in what we do, and what we experience
maslow hierchy
(top - down)
- self0actualization
- esteem need
- need of belonging
4.safety
5.phsysiology survival needs
self actualization and self-trancendent
- self-actualization > identify as an individual
- self-reancendent > deny or go beyond one’s own ego
live for causes outside on self
peak experiences
- self-sacrifice
parents go beyond themselves all the time for their children
- move countries
- changing jobs/getting two jobs
- understand and change their behaviours when they know it will hurt their children
self- trancendent (being-cognition)
higher order of motivation
within the hierchy
- anyone can have peak experience (different then what the model says) even people who are motivated by lower-order needs
- emotional peak> self trsendence motivation> alturistic behaviour
self-trandence
shift between serving one’s own purposes and serving a greater purpose
multicultural psychological theory
self-transedent means different things depending the parts of the world it is
posttraumatic growth
positive change that results of the struggle
trauma
after getting through trauma
u cannot go back(to before trauma)
growth of trauma
- is intentional it dont just happen
- growth is highly emotional experience
5 domains of growth
- greater appreciation of life after trauma
- warmer relationship with others
- greater sense of personal growth
- recofnitions of new possibilities as ones life
- spiritual development
post trauma growth
- extraversion and opness to experience (deal better with trauma)
2.finding ability to deal/menage with the trauma
post traumatic grow
- support netwroek is important!
beyond narrative development
- future orientation vs past-dwelling