walking away Flashcards
“like a satellite wrenched from its orbit, go drifting away”
The quote begins with a simile, comparing the departure of the child to a satellite being wrenched from its orbit. This simile vividly illustrates the abruptness and forcefulness of the separation. Satellites are typically associated with a fixed orbit, suggesting stability and predictability.
The imagery of a satellite drifting away further emphasizes the sense of gradual departure and distance. Satellites drifting away in space evoke a feeling of vastness and remoteness, underscoring the widening gap
The use of the satellite as a symbol is significant. Satellites are man-made objects launched into space for communication, observation, and exploration. In this context, the satellite could symbolize the child’s journey into the wider world
The word “wrenched” conveys a sense of forceful separation and disruption. It suggests that the departure is not merely a natural progression but rather a wrenching, painful experience for the parent, adding emotional depth to the imagery
the small, the scorching Ordeals which ones fire ones irresolute clay
“The small, the scorching ordeals” - The word “small” here doesn’t necessarily refer to the size of the challenges but rather to their significance in the grand scheme of things. Even seemingly minor difficulties can have a profound impact on an individual. “Scorching ordeals” conveys the intense and painful nature of these challenges, suggesting that they are not easily overcome.
“which fires ones irresolute clay” - Here, the poet uses metaphorical language to describe how these challenges act as a kind of refining fire, shaping and strengthening one’s character. The phrase “ones irresolute clay” refers to the individual’s uncertain or indecisive nature (“clay” symbolizing the raw material of a person’s character). The challenges serve to “fire” or harden this clay, transforming it into something more resilient and determined
This enjambment also propels the reader forward, creating a sense of momentum that mirrors the ongoing process of personal growth and transformation.
and love is proved in the letting go
Theme of Love: The overarching subject of the quote revolves around love, a recurring motif throughout the poem. Love, in this context, encompasses both the parental love for a child and broader notions of affection and attachment.
Parenthood: The quote specifically addresses the parental experience, highlighting the complexities of love within the parent-child relationship. Parenthood is depicted as a journey of nurturing, guiding, and ultimately letting go as children mature and assert their independence.
Emotional Resilience: The act of “letting go” signifies a pivotal moment in the parent’s emotional journey, requiring resilience and strength. It involves relinquishing control and accepting change, which can evoke feelings of vulnerability and uncertainty.
Sacrifice and Selflessness: The quote suggests that genuine love entails sacrifice and selflessness. By letting go, parents prioritize their child’s growth and autonomy over their own desires or fears of loss, demonstrating a profound commitment to their well-being.
Developmental Psychology: From a developmental psychology perspective, the quote touches upon themes of individuation and separation. It acknowledges the inherent tension between attachment and autonomy as children navigate the process of becoming independent individuals.
