Virtual relationships in social media Flashcards
Virtual relationships
Partners who have communicated and connected only online
Online Anonymity
Meeting online allows individuals to disclose info more easily
More honest about their true selves as they are less worried about how they appear
Build intimacy more easily than face to face
Particularly true in those with low self esteem, or those concerned with physical appearance
Reduced cues theory
(SPROULL + KIESLER)
Virtual relationships are less effective than f2f due to the lack of nonverbal cues that aid understanding and communication
Reduces an individual identity and leads to disinhibition: Allows people to communicate in blunt and aggressive ways= reduces communication
Downsides of online anonymity
Allows people to lie more easily
Allows people to prey on the vulnerable (Those with low self esteem or poor social skills) for financial or sexual gain
Strangers on a Train (1970)
RUBIN
Confederates on a train and revealed high risk info to strangers
Stranger reciprocated self-disclosure
Hyperpersonal Model
Low-risk info is seen on a person’s profile so more high-risk info is disclosed
This is due to being limited to verbal info they can exchange due to it being online
Selective self-presentation
Individuals can create an overwhelmingly favourable impression online
Easier to manipulate your image and self-disclosure
Whitty + Joinson (2009)
Individuals are more motivated to self disclose in ways that are ‘hyper honest’ ad questions asked are more direct and probing
Avoids small talk
We disclose so that we can be seen in more of a positive light
Absence of ‘gating’
Something that stops a relationship from developing
Physical barrier; Weight, disability
Personality traits; Shyness, low self-esteem
Virtual relationships hide gates
Can still be compatible and attracted to each other but gates prevent a relationship from developing
Why are gates hidden online?
Individuals can portray themselves however they want
Gates can limit and have a negative effect on a relationship so individuals hide these factors until the relationship has developed
Dangers of preventing gating
Allows individuals to hide their true identity which allows others to get close to people online who may not want to start a relationship with them
McKenna + Bargh (2009)
Looked at computer-mediated communication (CMC) use by lonely and socially anxious people
more able to express themselves online
70% of relationships formed online lasted more than 2 years
(Higher than F2F)