Virtual Relationships Flashcards
What is CMC
Computer-mediated communication.
Encompasses a wide variety of electronic communication methods, where relationships can be formed or maintained.
Define self-disclosure
Involves sharing personal info:
- Thoughts
- Dreams
- Fears
- Goals
- Preferences
An important way to strengthen relationships and build trust.
Why would someone self-disclose more online?
-Anonymity
- May not care as much because might never meet them
- Less consequences.
- Time to think about what to say
- Less embarrassment
Why would someone self-disclose less online?
Worry of:
- Blackmailing
- Trolling
- Catfishing
- Screenshotting
- Editing
What is paralanguage?
A form of nonverbal communication.
For example:
- Body posture
- Eye gaze
These may express liking even if verbal communication does not.
Still paralanguage signals on the phone:
- Pauses
- Tone of voice
All non-verbal communication lost on the internet –> dependant only on words and nothing else.
Why is paralanguage so important?
Non-verbal paralanguage may be more important than words.
Allows people to add layers of meaning to their spoken utterances through the manipulation of the manner of speech, or the way they say things.
The 2 contrasting theories of self disclosure in CMC?
- Reduced cues theory
- Hyperpersonal model
What is reduced cues theory?
- Sprouil & Kiesler (86)
- CMC relationships are less effective than F2F
- Lack cues we normally depend on
- e.g. appearance, emotional state, facial expression and tone of voice
What does reduced cues theory lead to?
- No cues can cause individualisation (reduces peoples sense of identity)
- Encourages disinhibition in relating to others.
Reduced cues theory says CMC relationships are likely to…
- Involve blunt communication.
- Consequence of this = reluctance to self-disclose.
- Unlikely to initiate a relationship.
What is Hyperpersonal Model?
- Walther (96-11)
- Online relationships can be more personal and involve greater disclosure than F2F ones.
- Relationships can develop quickly as SD happens earlier so once established are more intense and intimate.
What is the boom and bust phenomenon?
- Cooper and Sportolari (97)
- Online relationships end more quickly due to high excitement level of interaction not matched by level of trust.
What is the selected self-presentation in the hyperpersonal model?
The idea that people online have:
- More control over what they self-disclose.
- More time to manipulate their online image than in F2F situations.
- Much easier to manipulate it to promote intimacy in CMC relationships.
What other aspect of CMC promotes SD?
Anonymity as when you know that ppl don’t know your identity, you are more likely to self-disclose more about yourself to a stranger.
What is a gate?
A feature/obstacle that could interfere with the development of a relationship (F2F)