Verbal judo Flashcards
What are the five universal truths of verbal judo?
FIVE UNIVERSAL TRUTHS
Verbal Judo
- Feel the need to be respected
- Would rather be asked than be told
- Have a desire to know WHY
- Prefer to have options over threats
- Want to have a second chance
What is the verbal judo 5 step?
VERBAL JUDO 5 STEP
Verhal Judo
• ASK
• PROVIDE CONTEXT
• PRESENT OPTIONS
• CONFIRM
• ACT
What is active listening?
ACTIVE LISTENING
Mirroring - Repeating last few words or gist of the person in crisis
Paraphrasing - Putting the content of what the person in crisis said into your own words
Emotional Labeling - Identifying the emotion the person in crisis is feeling
Summarizing - Integrate paraphrased content with the identified emotion
What is the famous quote by Sun Tsu?
“To win one hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the highest honor. To defeat your opponent without fighting is the highest skill.”