Verbal judo Flashcards

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What are the five universal truths of verbal judo?

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FIVE UNIVERSAL TRUTHS
Verbal Judo

  1. Feel the need to be respected
  2. Would rather be asked than be told
  3. Have a desire to know WHY
  4. Prefer to have options over threats
  5. Want to have a second chance
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What is the verbal judo 5 step?

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VERBAL JUDO 5 STEP
Verhal Judo

• ASK
• PROVIDE CONTEXT
• PRESENT OPTIONS
• CONFIRM
• ACT

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What is active listening?

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ACTIVE LISTENING

Mirroring - Repeating last few words or gist of the person in crisis

Paraphrasing - Putting the content of what the person in crisis said into your own words

Emotional Labeling - Identifying the emotion the person in crisis is feeling
Summarizing - Integrate paraphrased content with the identified emotion

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What is the famous quote by Sun Tsu?

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“To win one hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the highest honor. To defeat your opponent without fighting is the highest skill.”

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