Verbal Game Flashcards
Assumption 1
You seem like you are from X
Assumption 2
You don’t seem like you are from X
Assumption 3
You seem like you do something creative
Assumption 4
You seem like you do something very professional
Assumption 5
You seem like you are a very laid- back, chill person
Assumption 6
You seem like you’re a very outgoing, life- of-the-party type of person.
Push-Pull 1 (Disqualification)
Just when I thought you were cool…. nice meeting you (back turn).
Push-Pull 2 (Disqualification)
You won me over until you said that (Eye Roll).
Push-Pull 3 (Disqualification)
I thought we would get along now I know we would fight like cats and dogs.This isn’t going to work.
I have a problem
Yep, I knew I saw you at the meetings. (Situational Teasing)
I’m so bad at X
Agreed!!! (Situational Teasing)
My friends love my X
I think they were just being nice (Situational Teasing)
I haven’t been to the gym in a long time
I have been meaning to talk to you about that. (Hard Teasing)
Are you calling me fat?
More cushion for the pushin’ (Hard Teasing)
I hate when guys do X
You might want to leave because I do X all the time (Hard Teasing)
Playful Assumptive Frames 1
Years of therapy and we are still dealing with your issues.
Playful Assumptive Frames 2
There are tons of unbelievable things about me, the reason you are in trouble is because they are all true.
Playful Assumptive Frames 3
You were told you were special before you got on the short bus huh.
Hard Assumptive Frames 1
You are looking at me like a fat kid looks at a Hershey bar. I’m more than a pretty face and sexy body you know.
Hard Assumptive Frames 2
All you woman are the same. You just want me for my looks but I have a mind also.
Hard Assumptive Frames 3
I’ll get you a diet X (coke, milkshake, margarita, etc.)
Tangents 1
Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.
Tangents 2
Why is me being way hotter then you such an issue?
Tangents 3
We all have flaws except me
My name is Ashely
Nice to meet you Alice, nice to meet you alicia, nice to meet you allen (Messing up on purpose)
My number is 555-555-2827.
Ok, so your number is 555-555-2829. (Messing up on purpose)
I grew up in New York.
So how was it growing up in New Jersey? I’m sorry, so how was it growing up in New Hampshire? (Messing up on purpose)
Drama 1
Don’t give me that look.
Drama 2
You and I aren’t going to get along. We will fight and I’m always going to win.
Drama 3
We are having a fight right now and I’m winning.
I’m addicted to Margaritas.
I knew you were still going to those meetings (Callback Humor)
I felt so special when my friends surprised me with those gifts.
The short bus got you started, remember that (Callback Humor)
I hated when guys do that.
You might want to leave because I do that a lot.
I like my drinks strong and smooth
So you like it when it’s strong and smooth and goes down easily. Says a lot about you (Sexual Teasing)
I’m a huge giver
How good is it when you do give it? (Sexual Teasing)
I have to go to the bathroom
I was hoping for something a bit more romantic (Misinterpretation)
It will only be a minute.
I last at least that long. 1 minute in heaven is better than 30 seconds in heaven (Misinterpretation)
I love to do that.
Now is a weird time to talk about your sex addiction (Misinterpretation)
You’re funny 1
Should I take my shirt off now or later? (Amplification)
I like your X (shirt, shoes, laugh, etc.)
Stop it. You’re making a black man blush. (Amplification)
Present Projection
You look like a baker. I bet you know the secret to amazing baking and you keep it all to yourself. Stingy!
Past Projection
I knew you look familiar! In 6th grade you use to bake cookies and bring them to the teacher. You were such a teacher’s pet.
Future Projection
Our kids are going to be so disappointed when there is nothing but bread and cake on the table. They are going to say, daddy where is the meat? I’m going to say, well kids all your mom can do is bake so this is all we have.
Turn her interest tangible
Aww you like me. How long have you liked me?
Turn her interest tangible 2
Instadate, Isolation, Pulling
Hard Assumptive Frames 4
So it sounds like you’re attracted to me
You’re funny 2
Should we kiss now or later?
You’re funny 3
Do you want to propose now or later?
I like apples
So did Eve and we know how that turned out.
Are you calling me fat? 2
I’m a chubby chaser, can’t you tell?
Screening
Can I take you on a date?
Qualification 1
So what would your friends say are your best qualities?
Qualification 2
How often do you go to the gym?
Drama 4
I will fight you
Drama 5
We would be bad together
Playful Assumptive Frames 4
It’s okay, admitting you have a problem is the first step.
Playful Assumptive Frames 5
My mom warned me about girls like you.
Playful Assumptive Frames 6
You have to wine and dine me first before we do all that.
In The Moment Qualification 1
Are you one of those lawyers who tell your clients the truth or are you one those lawyers that tell your clients whatever they want to hear in order to get their business? (Qualification)
In The Moment Qualification 2
No, I’m honest with my clients even if they don’t want to hear the truth. Me : I like that (Qualification)
Disqualification 1
I can’t talk to you anymore.
Disqualification 2
I’m still not sure about you.
Disqualification 3
I had such high hopes about you.
Daygame Structure 1
Excuse me, can I tell you something really quickly?
Daygame Structure 2
Please tone down the beauty. You’re very distracting.
Daygame Structure 3
Observational Statement, Assumptions, Projections and Teasing
Daygame Structure 4
Screening: Can I take you on a date?
Nightgame Structure 1
Hello. I had to say hi to you. You’re very distracting. Tone down the beauty.
Nightgame Structure 2
Assumptions, Projections and Teasing
Nightgame Structure 3
Screening: Can I take you on a date?