USS Definitions Flashcards

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1: Talking & Looking At You

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many men get fearful upon seeing two women talking and looking at them because they think the girls might be ridiculing them.

That’s not the case though: two women chatting to themselves while looking at you is one of the oldest and most obvious sex signal out there.

Giggling while talking and looking at you is a further added signal, but more mature women don’t do it as much.

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2: The Peekaboo

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Peekaboo is a game children play of hiding from their a grown up’s view and then reappearing again. You’ve probably seen and played this one a few times if you’ve ever been around children.

In dating scenarios, I have seen some variations in relationships, but rarely as a interest signal. A more common variation might be you looking at her, she looking away, then you looking away and she looking at you.

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3: Shy Geisha

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The way a woman looks at you reveal her true emotions. If you look at a woman and smile almost all of them will look away. How they look away will reveal loads.

If they look down as if to sweep the floor with her eyes, she likes you. If she looks up again to look at you within 45 seconds she expects and want you to make a move on her.

If she looks away horizontally she isn’t sure yet she wants to talk to you.

If she looks at the ceiling when looking away, she’s not interested.

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4: Side Long Glance

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since people don’t respect women giving too long eye contact, she will be glancing over at you to see if you’re noticing them.

Women have a better peripheral vision than men, so this could be a bit like a head turn for men.

If she’s glancing at you from the corner of her eyes, she wants you to approach her.

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5: The Jewelry Tug

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playing with a necklace while looking at you is a strong sexual interest sign. Leil says that she is getting you to notice her decorations, her plumage if you want :).

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6: The Expose

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If her dress falls from her shoulder it might not be a coincidence and she’s just showing you more skin. A slight open blouse could work the same.

You could say “boy it’s quite hot in here” to show you picked up on it and are in tune with her.

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7: The Shoe Dangle

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If a woman dangle her shoe on her toes, it’s a major strong signal of availability.

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what I’ve also read somewhere else is entering and exiting the shoe with her foot. I’m sure you can see the parallel that rhythmic entering movement

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8: Close Encounters

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Pay attention to how close she’s standing to you.

If she’s standing very close, it’s a good sign. Do NOT act surprised or step back, unless you want to communicate disinterest, that is.
You could slightly move or lean in towards her instead or smile to reciprocate.

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9: Space Invasion

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She might let just a part of her body enter your personal space. A leg, a knee for example.

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10: The Innocent Touch

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a woman will never touch if she doesn’t welcome your advances.

If a woman reaches out and touches you for any reason, you must react very positively otherwise she’ll think she’s gone too far and back down.

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11: Leaning In

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When a woman leans in towards you never ever back up.

When standing note which leg is bearing her weight.

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12: Weathervane Palms

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If she shows the inner side of her palm it’s a good sign and a way of saying “I submit to you”. When she’s resting her head on her hand, does she show you the knuckles or the inner palm?

Showing the knuckles is a close body language sign and also might be a hostile sign. Leil Lowndes says though not to jump to conclusions too quickly if her palms turn away: it might be sexual tension or a sign of nervousness of a shy person whom likes you.

Look for more signs.

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13: Necking

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Showing the neck is a very powerful sex signal. If she moves her hair completely to the back while talking or looking at you it’s a sign she wants to submit.

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14: Underarm Flash

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She might be leaning back, supposedly appearing relaxed, but if she shows her underarm she knows exactly what she’s doing.

The same showing of underarm can happen when she flicks her hair back.

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15: The Lips Lick

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A woman might do it either conspicuously or covertly. She wants to make her lips most and more inviting for you, for her own pleasure or to imply what might be in store for you later on.

This is a rather obvious and sexually open sign. And yet, Leil Lowndes says, many guys still miss it.

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16: The Primp

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She might quickly add some extra touches to herself like applying lipstick or make up to draw your attention across the room. Alternatively, if you’re already engage with her, she might do it when you’re not there, so pay attention is her make up is more visible or if she applied fresh lipstick.

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17: Hair Play

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When you’re talking she can sometimes start playing with her hair, or twirling them with her finger. Leil Lowndes says it’s either a sign of sexual nervousness or she’s tantalizing for you to be playing with her hair.

A little flip while looking at you is also a very common USS.

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18: Self Caress

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If she touches herself on her neck, collarbone, arms, and thighs it’s a good sign of arousal.

Leil Lowndes says that when a woman is very attracted to someone it’s like the high of a drug. Some women freeze like deer in the headlights and can’t speak or move, other feel a tingling sensation and caress themselves to pacify, and still others might get silly and scrunch their shoulder.

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19: Shoulder Scrunch

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As a above, some women will start acting like little babies when they’re with a man they like. They might giggle and scrunch their shoulder together for example.

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20: Perking And Breast Trust

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When you enter a room, notice if some women perks up and straight her back thrusting her breast forward.

It can also be a good indicator when you walk up to her. Before you even say anything: is she thrusting her breast forward?

Leil Lowndes says all women do it, but it’s not a tell that you can use by itself because, I’d add, most women would do it even with guys they’re not necessarily interested in. So you should always combine this sign with other signals.
However, if she does not perk up when she sees you, that’s a very bad sign.

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21: Mirroring

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When women start copying your signs and movement, it’s a good sign.

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22: The Suggestive Suck

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If she puts something in her mouth… You don’t need a biology degree to see the hint there. It can be a spoon, a straw, or even her fingers.

Note: Since many women drink their drinks with a straw I’d like to add you should look for signs of her doing it in a particularly way. For example she does it a bit quicker and more often, or with a different style than her previous baseline behavior, like holding the straw, or more slowly, or while looking at you.

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23: Playing With Glass

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If a woman runs her fingers around the rim of her wine glass she might be thinking about touching you. Or around the stem of the glass, or play with a pen.

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24: Being Goofy

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Excitement and sexual nervousness, especially in younger or less experienced women, can come off as being goofy.

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25: The Pose

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When a woman strikes a pretty pose, she wants to attract you, don’t mistake it for being stand-offish.

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26: Showing Leg

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Baring their legs is a major USS signal.