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what was Ackerman’s process
-Move into the “living space”
-Stir interaction
-Family achieves “meaningful emotional exchange”
-Self awareness grows
-Understand the connection between intrapsychic
-Self Awareness—systemic role in functioning—new patterns of family relatedness
how to replace theory according to the experientialists
Rely instead on:
-Accumulated residue of experience
-Freedom to let real relationships occur
-Authenticity was key.
-Felt that obsessive interest in one’s fantasy life was unhelpful, but the fantasy between people was important
-Metaphor was highlighted to tap into a different, more shiftable, part of the brain.
what were some of Whitaker’s beliefs
-People are alienated from their emotions and frozen into devitalized routines.
-Did not work on symptoms.
-“Process not progress.”
-Risks are important, the greater anxiety in the room, the better the chance for growth.
explain clinical municipality according to Goldner
The therapist must be able to tolerate contradictory truths.
The paradox of:
-Men take control by losing control (man controls situation when he is feeling shamed or angry)
-Women love and protect men who hurt them
explain the necessary stance according to Goldner
-One must develop the most comprehensive understanding of abuse and victimization without compromising the moral vision of accountability.
-How does it happen? What fears or insecurities were at play? History of violence? All with the clear, constant acceptance that the abuser (man) is accountable for his violence.