Unit 1 Flashcards

1
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The Bible teaches that man is a three part being consisting of?

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  1. Spirit
  2. Soul
  3. Body
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2
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Our soul is made up of?

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  1. Mind
  2. Will
  3. Emotions
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3
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Secular Psychology views man as having how many parts?

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Two (soul and body)

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4
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Codependency is a disease of?

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The soul

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5
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In its broadest sense, codependency can be defined as an addiction to?

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  1. Behaviors
  2. Things
  3. People
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6
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The term codependency first appeared in the late 1970’s, but was really just a “new name for an old game”. This codependency had also been called?

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  1. Co-alcoholic
  2. Non-alcoholic
  3. Para-alchoholic
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7
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A common denominator among codepedents is to develop relationships, either personally or professionally with?

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  1. Troubled
  2. Needy
  3. Dependent people
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8
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Unlike many other life threatening disorders which have long, arduous recovery processes, codependency lends itself easily to?

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Recovery

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9
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The chief component of the family system is?

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The marital partnership

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10
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In healthy families children are?

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Not constantly judged and measured by their parents’ frustrations and anxiety ridden projections

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11
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Adult Children of Alcoholics abandonment issues include?

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  1. Actual physical abandonment
  2. Neglect of the child’s basic emotional needs
  3. Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse
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12
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The practicing codependent has been taught that “doing for others” is a means to achieve?

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Love, belonging, salvation

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13
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Codependency can emerge from any family system where?

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Certain overt and covert rules exist

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14
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Perfectionists often appear to be highly motivated, but their motivations usually come from a desperate attempt to avoid?

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The low self-esteem they experience when they fall

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15
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The fifth rule of the dysfunctional family is?

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Don’t be selfish

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16
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Children need parents who realize that the key to a well-adjusted child is?

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The parents’ healthy marriage relationship

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17
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Learning to ask directly for what we need stops us from?

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Manipulating others

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18
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The codependent adult-child believes that the world is?

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A very serious place

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19
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Alcoholism is a disease that can be arrested, but not cured. Alcoholism takes the form of?

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A compulsion, an obsession, an addiction

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20
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The nature of the disease of alcoholism is that patients do not believe they are ill. This is called?

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Denial

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21
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Alcoholics Anonymous is a voluntary, worldwide fellowship and consists of a program led by?

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Men and women from all walks of life

22
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The Spiritual direction of the A.A. Twelve Step program comes out of?

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Christian biblical tradition

23
Q

The entire Twelve Step program is designed to get people out of the “God role” and to put our loving, moral, and forgiving God back into?

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Control

24
Q

In relation to recovery, it is a deceptive and false misconception that being “born again” means?

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That all becomes right in our lives

25
Q

New believers not only need true and proper doctrines, they need?

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  1. Godly role models who are true and honest about themselves
  2. Accountability to become honest and true
  3. To be shown how to grow through applying scriptural principles to their lives
26
Q

The word “enabling” is a therapeutic term for?

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Destructive helping

27
Q

In what is referred to as “The Karpman Drama Triangle,” players in the drama include?

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Rescuer, victim, persecutor/controller

28
Q

In an alcoholic family the family problems are most often blamed on?

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The scapegoat/rebel

29
Q

The Minirth-Meier Ten Stages of Recovery include?

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  1. Grieving your loss
  2. Addiction control
  3. New self-perception
30
Q

Codependency is an example of poor mental health and a way of surviving the pain of life. It is also?

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  1. Idolatry
  2. Sinful
  3. A way of seeking false control
31
Q

Forgiveness is supernatural, it is God’s idea and His way for us to respond to?

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The painful offenses of life

32
Q

In the Christian walk, through the Ministry of the Holy Spirit, God helps people to have a commitment to change. The process of change is called?

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Sanctification

33
Q

According to the National Christian Counselors Association, our God-created temperament, our identity, is the part of man that determines how we react to?

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People, places, and things

34
Q

Determinism is the theory that all human action is caused entirely by preceding events, and not by?

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The exercise of the will

35
Q

Codepenency is?

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Learned behavior

36
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Secular materialists espouse the belief of Charles Darwin that creation, nature, and humanity are the result of?

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A random, purposeless material process

37
Q

Since the 1960’s a new type of determinism has arisen in Western thinking. Many well-educated people have embraced a non-biblical supernaturalism and consciousness and/or movement referred to as?

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The New Age

38
Q

Francis Schaeffer concludes that man, even in non-Christian belief system, still carries the marks he describes as “mannishness.” These include?

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  1. Love
  2. Rationality
  3. Longing for significance
39
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Temperament Theory is not simplistic, it does not see man as preprogrammed but free to act and to interact on three levels?

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Spirit, soul, and body

40
Q

Components that make up the “inner man” are?

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Temperament, character, personality

41
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Temperament Theory is based on the premise that?

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Temperament is the inner part of man which God placed within him in the womb

42
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The three aspects of Temperament Therapy are?

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  1. Understanding our own unique self and temperament needs
  2. Surrender to God through the Lordship of Jesus Christ, and to His plan for our lives
  3. Willingness to surrender our ungodly ways of meeting our temperament needs
43
Q

Through research and observation The National Christian Counselors Association has divided temperament into what three areas?

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  1. Inclusion
  2. Control
  3. Affection
44
Q

What is meant by pure temperament?

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Having the same temperament in all three areas (inclusion, control, affection)

45
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According to Melody Beattie the components of “self-care” include?

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  1. Stopping rescuing/caretaking and learn about care giving
  2. Nurturing your inner child
  3. Learning to detach and to stop obsessing about people/problems
46
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Obsessive/compulsive talking is not about communication, rather it is?

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An exhausting attempt at relieving internal pressure

47
Q

Anyone using the results of the Arno Profile System (A.P.S.), must always remember it reveals temperament, not?

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Actual behavior

48
Q

Forfeiture (de-selfing) as a codependent trait is expressed LEAST by which temperament?

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Choleric

49
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Importance as a codependent trait is expressed MOST by which temperament?

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Choleric

50
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Nancy Groom defines codependency as a self-focused way of life in which a person, blind to his/her true self, continually reacts to others, being controlled and by seeking to control their behavior, attitudes, and/or opinions. This results in?

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  1. Spiritual sterility
  2. Loss of authenticity
  3. Absence of intimacy