Unit 1

Question 1

The Bible teaches that man is a three part being consisting of?

Answer 1

1. Spirit
2. Soul
3. Body

Question 2

Our soul is made up of?

Answer 2

1. Mind
2. Will
3. Emotions

Question 3

Secular Psychology views man as having how many parts?

Answer 3

Two (soul and body)

Question 4

Codependency is a disease of?

Answer 4

The soul

Question 5

In its broadest sense, codependency can be defined as an addiction to?

Answer 5

1. Behaviors
2. Things
3. People

Question 6

The term codependency first appeared in the late 1970’s, but was really just a “new name for an old game”. This codependency had also been called?

Answer 6

1. Co-alcoholic
2. Non-alcoholic
3. Para-alchoholic

Question 7

A common denominator among codepedents is to develop relationships, either personally or professionally with?

Answer 7

1. Troubled
2. Needy
3. Dependent people

Question 8

Unlike many other life threatening disorders which have long, arduous recovery processes, codependency lends itself easily to?

Answer 8

Recovery

Question 9

The chief component of the family system is?

Answer 9

The marital partnership

Question 10

In healthy families children are?

Answer 10

Not constantly judged and measured by their parents’ frustrations and anxiety ridden projections

Question 11

Adult Children of Alcoholics abandonment issues include?

Answer 11

1. Actual physical abandonment
2. Neglect of the child’s basic emotional needs
3. Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse

Question 12

The practicing codependent has been taught that “doing for others” is a means to achieve?

Answer 12

Love, belonging, salvation

Question 13

Codependency can emerge from any family system where?

Answer 13

Certain overt and covert rules exist

Question 14

Perfectionists often appear to be highly motivated, but their motivations usually come from a desperate attempt to avoid?

Answer 14

The low self-esteem they experience when they fall

Question 15

The fifth rule of the dysfunctional family is?

Answer 15

Don’t be selfish

Question 16

Children need parents who realize that the key to a well-adjusted child is?

Answer 16

The parents’ healthy marriage relationship

Question 17

Learning to ask directly for what we need stops us from?

Answer 17

Manipulating others

Question 18

The codependent adult-child believes that the world is?

Answer 18

A very serious place

Question 19

Alcoholism is a disease that can be arrested, but not cured. Alcoholism takes the form of?

Answer 19

A compulsion, an obsession, an addiction

Question 20

The nature of the disease of alcoholism is that patients do not believe they are ill. This is called?

Answer 20

Denial

Question 21

Alcoholics Anonymous is a voluntary, worldwide fellowship and consists of a program led by?

Answer 21

Men and women from all walks of life

Question 22

The Spiritual direction of the A.A. Twelve Step program comes out of?

Answer 22

Christian biblical tradition

Question 23

The entire Twelve Step program is designed to get people out of the “God role” and to put our loving, moral, and forgiving God back into?

Answer 23

Control

Question 24

In relation to recovery, it is a deceptive and false misconception that being “born again” means?

Answer 24

That all becomes right in our lives

Question 25

New believers not only need true and proper doctrines, they need?

Answer 25

1. Godly role models who are true and honest about themselves 2. Accountability to become honest and true 3. To be shown how to grow through applying scriptural principles to their lives

Question 26

The word "enabling" is a therapeutic term for?

Answer 26

Destructive helping

Question 27

In what is referred to as "The Karpman Drama Triangle," players in the drama include?

Answer 27

Rescuer, victim, persecutor/controller

Question 28

In an alcoholic family the family problems are most often blamed on?

Answer 28

The scapegoat/rebel

Question 29

The Minirth-Meier Ten Stages of Recovery include?

Answer 29

1. Grieving your loss 2. Addiction control 3. New self-perception

Question 30

Codependency is an example of poor mental health and a way of surviving the pain of life. It is also?

Answer 30

1. Idolatry 2. Sinful 3. A way of seeking false control

Question 31

Forgiveness is supernatural, it is God's idea and His way for us to respond to?

Answer 31

The painful offenses of life

Question 32

In the Christian walk, through the Ministry of the Holy Spirit, God helps people to have a commitment to change. The process of change is called?

Answer 32

Sanctification

Question 33

According to the National Christian Counselors Association, our God-created temperament, our identity, is the part of man that determines how we react to?

Answer 33

People, places, and things

Question 34

Determinism is the theory that all human action is caused entirely by preceding events, and not by?

Answer 34

The exercise of the will

Question 35

Codepenency is?

Answer 35

Learned behavior

Question 36

Secular materialists espouse the belief of Charles Darwin that creation, nature, and humanity are the result of?

Answer 36

A random, purposeless material process

Question 37

Since the 1960's a new type of determinism has arisen in Western thinking. Many well-educated people have embraced a non-biblical supernaturalism and consciousness and/or movement referred to as?

Answer 37

The New Age

Question 38

Francis Schaeffer concludes that man, even in non-Christian belief system, still carries the marks he describes as "mannishness." These include?

Answer 38

1. Love 2. Rationality 3. Longing for significance

Question 39

Temperament Theory is not simplistic, it does not see man as preprogrammed but free to act and to interact on three levels?

Answer 39

Spirit, soul, and body

Question 40

Components that make up the "inner man" are?

Answer 40

Temperament, character, personality

Question 41

Temperament Theory is based on the premise that?

Answer 41

Temperament is the inner part of man which God placed within him in the womb

Question 42

The three aspects of Temperament Therapy are?

Answer 42

1. Understanding our own unique self and temperament needs 2. Surrender to God through the Lordship of Jesus Christ, and to His plan for our lives 3. Willingness to surrender our ungodly ways of meeting our temperament needs

Question 43

Through research and observation The National Christian Counselors Association has divided temperament into what three areas?

Answer 43

1. Inclusion 2. Control 3. Affection

Question 44

What is meant by pure temperament?

Answer 44

Having the same temperament in all three areas (inclusion, control, affection)

Question 45

According to Melody Beattie the components of "self-care" include?

Answer 45

1. Stopping rescuing/caretaking and learn about care giving 2. Nurturing your inner child 3. Learning to detach and to stop obsessing about people/problems

Question 46

Obsessive/compulsive talking is not about communication, rather it is?

Answer 46

An exhausting attempt at relieving internal pressure

Question 47

Anyone using the results of the Arno Profile System (A.P.S.), must always remember it reveals temperament, not?

Answer 47

Actual behavior

Question 48

Forfeiture (de-selfing) as a codependent trait is expressed LEAST by which temperament?

Answer 48

Choleric

Question 49

Importance as a codependent trait is expressed MOST by which temperament?

Answer 49

Choleric

Question 50

Nancy Groom defines codependency as a self-focused way of life in which a person, blind to his/her true self, continually reacts to others, being controlled and by seeking to control their behavior, attitudes, and/or opinions. This results in?

Answer 50

1. Spiritual sterility 2. Loss of authenticity 3. Absence of intimacy