THUS It Is So--

Question 1

If a wise man has a controversy 
with a foolish and arrogant man
The foolish man 
[ignores logic and fairness and] 
only rages or laughs, 
and there is no peace 
(rest, agreement).

Answer 1

Proverbs 29:9

Question 2

They saw that, notwithstanding their rude treatment of Him, He had only thoughts of love toward them, and their hearts were won.

Answer 2

self-sacrificing LOVE