Theories Of Romantic Relationships- Social Exchange Theory Flashcards
What is social exchange theory
Individuals look at relationships in terms of rewards and cost (what are the putting in and what are they getting out)
Exhanges do not have to be even
Example of rewards and costs
Rewards - gifts, quality time, happiness
Costs- time, money, sacrifices
thibault and kelly (1959)
-we want to maximise our profit and minimise our losses
-what one person considers a high reward might be considered less valuable for other eg materialistic gifts
Blay
Relationships can be expensive
They include an opportunity cost -your investment of time and energy in your relationship.
What are the Two ways to measure profit of a relationship
Comparison level
Comparison level for alternative options
What is comparison level (CL)
The amount of reward an individual believes they deserve.
-formed from previous relationships that give you the standard for future relationships
-people with low self-esteem will have low CL and therefore will be satisfied with low profit.
-people with high self-esteem will have a higher CL
What’s CLaT
-you look to see if there’s greater reward in alternatives
When you’re in a relationship you look got alternatives
-we will only stay in current relationship if we believe it’s more rewarding than the alternatives.
-if the cost of our relationship outweighs the reward alternatives become more appealing
What are the 4 stages of level of comparison (CL)
- Sampling
2.bargening - Commitment
4.institutionalisation
What is sampling
View the cost and reward of the relationshipn
Bargening
Negotiation between the partners where the rewards and costs are agreed
Commitment
Acceptance of what they’re putting in and what they’re getting out
Institutionalisation
Norms of the relationships are established
Supporting study - Hatfield and criticism of study
Hatfield - 1979
The happiest people where those who felt the marriage was equal for both partners in terms of cost and benefit.
-however only done on new marriages so(honey moon phase) lacks population validity
Positves of the theory
✅- Hatfield’s supporting study
✅- face validity
Limiations of theory
❌Inappropriate assumptions about relationships- assumes everyone is always looking for alternatives and that relationships keep track of their exchange of cost and reward which isn’t true.
❌- correlational no cause and effect- suggests satisfaction comes in when the cost outweighs the reward but could be due to extraneous variables.
❌-lacks temporal validity