THEORIES OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS - SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY Flashcards
what is social exchange theory?
theory of how relationships form and develop, based on idea that romantic partners exchange rewards and costs
committed relationships rewards exceeds costs and alternatives less attractive than current relationships
what did Thibault and Kelley come up with?
the minimax principle
what is the minimax principle?
behaviour in relationships reflects the economic assumptions in exchange
we want to minimise losses and maximise gains
rewards and costs are…
subjective and how values and rewards and costs may change over the course of the relationships
examples of rewards
companionship, sex and emotional support
examples of costs
time, stress and energy
according to Thibault and Kelley, relationships incur an…
opportunity cost where an investment of your time and energy in your current relationships using resources that you cannot invest somewhere else
comparison level
develops our exp of prev relationships, feed expectations of current one
influenced by social norms determine what is considered reasonable level of reward
link with self-esteem someone with low self esteem have low CL and satisfied with small profit
CL for alternatives (CLalt)
could they do better
could they get greater rewards and costs elsewhere
SET theory believes we stay in a current relationship if….
it is more rewarding than alternatives
Duck says…
CLalt we adopt depends on state of current relationships
costs in current relationship outweigh rewards, alternatives become attractive
rewards in relationships outweigh costs, x notice alternatives are available
what are the four stages of SET?
sampling stage
bargaining stage
commitment stage
institutionalization stage
sampling stage
explore rewards and costs of SE by experimenting own relationships or observing others
bargaining stage
marks beginning of a relationship when partners start exchanging rewards and costs identifying what is profitable
commitment stage
time goes on, sources of costs and rewards become more predictable and the relationship becomes more stable as rewards increase and costs lessen