Theme 1: Relationships Flashcards
Define marriage in Christianity
The joining of a man and a woman to celebrate love, commitment and sex in the eyes of god and with gods blessing. Christians believes sex and marriage is a gift from god and marriage is a sacrament.
Other than spiritual, what benefit does marriage provide?
Marriage strengthens the legal side of a relationship. Both partners have rights should something go wrong. Spouses also become next of kin and have legal responsibility for each other.
What do Christians believe marriage celebrates, adds or highlights? (4)
- Celebrates the joy of sex.
- Highlights responsibility towards your partner- their needs above your own.
- Stresses importance of commitment- willingness to spend the rest of your life with someone.
- Adds a spiritual dimension- sexual relationship is not only physical but also spiritual and religious.
Full Bible quote about marriage. (Also argument used against gay marriage)
“ have you not read-he who made them, from the beginning male or female and said “for this reason a man shall leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife, and the two should become one? “So they are no longer two but one. What therefore God has joined together, let no one separate “
Key bible quote about marriage.
“ what therefore god has joined together, let no one separate”
Christian wedding vows.
I __ take you __ to be my husband/wife to have and to hold from this day forward for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. To love and to cherish till death do us part.
What do Christians believe is a key part of marriage?
Raising children.
Is divorce allowed in Islam?
Divorce is allowed as a last resort however families should try to help the couple work through their problems first.
What is the process of getting divorced as a Muslim?
The husband must state before witnesses on three separate occasions that he wishes to divorce his wife.
What happens after a Muslim divorce
The couple live together for 3 months (IDDAH) but sleep separately in order to avoid any confusion as to who they father is of any child born after the divorce. The wife is given her dowry (MAHR).
How are a divorced Muslim couple expected to act.
The couple are expected to act with kindness and charity towards each other. Divorced Muslims should re-marry.
What did Muhammad teach about divorce?
Muhammad said “of all the things which are permitted, divorce is the most hated by Allah”
What does the bible teach about divorce?
The bible teaches against divorce and doesn’t allow re-marriage.
Bible quote about divorce/remarriage
“ The wife should not separate from her husband but if she does, let her remain single, and a husband should not divorce his wife. “
What did Jesus say about second marriage?
Jesus spoke against second marriages however suggested they may be possible if the first marriage ended due to adultery.
Jesus quote about adultery.
“Whoever divorces his wife, except for unchastity, and marries another, commits adultery.”
What do Roman Catholics believe about divorce?
Roman Catholics believe divorce is unacceptable.
Reasons for Roman Catholic beliefs about divorce. (2)
- It is a breaking of solemn promises made before God.
- Marriage is a sacrament that cannot be dissolved .
Does the Roman Catholic Church recognise divorce?
No, divorced people are still considered as married and therefore if they remarry it is considered adultery and they cannot receive the sacraments of bread and wine which is known as excommunication.