The Self, Family & Peers (3) Flashcards
Self-concept? + examples
A conceptual system made up of one’s thoughts and attitudes about oneself
- Gender
- Physical appearance
- Possessions
- Values, beliefs, preferences
- Psychosocial characteristics
Developing a sense of Self in Childhood
* Age 3-4?
Understanding in terms of concrete, observable characteristics related to physical attributes, activities, abilities, 7 psychological traits
- Unrealistically positive
- Sense of self over time: coincides with first autobiographical memories
Refine conceptions of self in primary school, in part because they increasingly engage in…?
Social comparison
Social comparison?
The process of comparing aspects of own psychological, behavioural, or physical functioning to that of others in order to evaluate oneself
Developing a Sense of Self
* Middle to late primary school?
- Conceptions of self begin to become integrated and more broadly encompassing
- Older children rely on objective performance
- Increasingly based on their relationships with others, ex peers -> making them vulnerable to low self-esteem
Developing a Sense of Self * Adolescents?
hink of themselves in terms of a variety of selves, depending on the context
Personal fable?
(No one understands what I’m going though)
A form of adolescent egocentrism that involves beliefs in the uniqueness of one’s own feelings and thoughts
-> This kind of egocentrism causes many adolescents to be preoccupied with what others think of the -> Imaginary audience
Imaginary audience?
(everyone is watching and judging me)
The belief, stemming from adolescent egocentrism, that everyone else is focused on their appearance and behaviour
Developing a Sense of Self
* Middle teens?
- Adolescents often begin to agonise over the contradictions in their behaviour and characteristics
- Most lack the cognitive skills needed to integrate their recognition of these contradictions into a coherent concept of self
Developing a Sense of Self
* Late adolescence and early adulthood?
- Self becomes both more integrated and less detained by what others think
- Reflect internalised personal values, beliefs, and standard
- Adult support important in helping adolescents understand the complexity of personalities
Identity
A description of the self that is often externally imposed, such as though membership in a group?
Erikson’s Theory of Psychosocial Development, list first 5?
- 1 year: Basic trust vs. Mistrust
- 1-3.5 years: Autonomy vs. Shame and doubt
- Role of parents, provide a supportive environment (explore the environment while keeping them safe) - 4-6 years: Initiative vs. Guilt
- Does the child feel like they can measure up to their parents goals? - 6-puberty: Industry vs. Inferiority
- Children are starting to master cognitive and social abilities
- Gain sense of competence OR excessive feeling of inadequatecy - Adolescence-early adulthood: Identity vs. Role confusion
- Resolve who they really are or face confusion
Some important things to note about Erikson’s Theory of Psychosocial Development ?
- Evidence from autobiographical memories, but the language is not explicit but Erikson’s infers the crisis and the stages “I felt this way when I was young”
- Influence of the unconscious mind (Freud)
Identity achievement? :)
An integration of various aspects of the elf into a coherent whole that is stable over time and across events
Identity confusion? :(
An incomplete and sometimes incoherent sense of self, with resulting feeling of isolation and depression
Identity foreclosure? :(
Period in which the individual has not engaged in any identity experimentation and has established a vocational of ideological identity based on the choices or values of others
Negative identity? :(
An identity that represents the opposite of what is valued by people around the adolescent.
(Parents are professors, “I don’t like education!”, drops out of school)
Identity diffusion? :(
Period in which the individual does not have firm commitments regarding the issues in question and is not making progress toward developing them
Moratorium? :)
Period in which the individual is exploring various occupational and ideological choices and has not yet made a clear commitment to them
(Only possible in some cultures and typically to the more privileged classes)
- Influences on Identity Formation?
- Approach parents take with their children (e.g. parenting style)
- Individual’s own behaviour (e.g. drug use undermines teens’ abilities to develop healthy identities)
- Larger social context (e.g. SES: needing to work/take care of family member)
- Historical context (e.g. equal rights movements, religious rules/expectations)
Family dynamics?
The way in which family members interact though various relationships: mother with each child, father with each child, mother with father and siblings with one another
Socialisation?
The process though which children acquire the values, standards skills, knowledge and behaviours that are regarded as appropriate for their present and future roles in their particular culture
3 main ways of socialisation? Parents as…
- Parents as direct Instructors, explicit instructions
- Parents as indirect socializers, modelling the parents interaction, what we show investment or engagement in arts/spots our implicit messages
- Parents as social managers, pick and choose the activities the kids engage in, who their friends are (chose playdates), decide the early social environment