The Ideal Marriage and its relationship to Education

Question 1

What are the 3 aspect of discussion of marriage in the book

Answer 1

1. Marriage is a human instinct
2. Marriage is a social interest
3. Marriage is a selection and choice

Question 2

Describe marriage is a human instinct

Answer 2

1. Islamic shariah opposes monasticism (living alone).

2. It is sunnah to get married (Bukhari & Muslim) (By Anas).

Question 3

Describe the H aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 3

(H)Preserving the human race (Qs : 4:1 16:72)

Question 4

Describe the L aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 4

(L)Preserving the lineage

Question 5

Describe the I aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 5

(I)Keeping the society free from immorality (Hadith about marriage else to observe fasting to control sexual desire.)

Question 6

Describe the D aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 6

(D)Preserving the society from diseases

Question 7

Describe the S aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 7

(S)Spiritual and psychological serenity (Qs: 30:21)

Question 8

Describe the C aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 8

(C)Cooperation between spouses for building the family and bringing up children [setting responsibility according to each other’s strengths in complementary ways. (Love, peace & stability)]

Question 9

Describe the P aspect of social interest in marriage

Answer 9

(P)Burning passion of parenthood

Question 10

What are the discussion about marriage is a selection and choice?

Answer 10

1. Choice based on religion
2. Choice based on noble birth & honour
3. Exogamy
4. Preferring virgins
5. preference of marrying a prolific women

Question 11

Describe R aspect of selection & choice in marriage

Answer 11

Choice based on religion.
Sound understanding of Islam.
Practical application of all of its rulings & manners
Full commitment of shariah methods and principles.
(Hadith in Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Daud, Ibnu Majah by Abu Hurairah: 4 reasons to get married & the best is religion)

Question 12

Describe N aspect of selection & choice in marriage

Answer 12

Choice based on noble birth & honour
People known for their righteousness, morals, noble birth and honour.
“Choose carefully where you put your seed”

Question 13

Describe E aspect of selection & choice in marriage

Answer 13

Exogamy
Choosing outside spouse over relative
Genetics proved that endogamy weakens offspring physically & mentally

Question 14

Describe V aspect of selection & choice in marriage

Answer 14

Preferring Virgins
Higher chance of loyalty
Deflowered women is ideally chosen if a man is divorced or if there are alot of young siblings required to take care of.

Question 15

Describe P aspect of selection & choice in marriage

Answer 15

Preference of marrying a prolific women
Preferred to marry a woman whom can bear children (Hadith in Abu Daud & An Nasai by Maqil Ibnu Yasur: Rasul PBUH shall take pride in ‘sahabat asking him’ his abundance of children