The Family Flashcards
Function of the family
o To socialise the young o Socialise – the process by which children acquire beliefs, motives, values, and behaviours deemed significant and appropriate by older members of their society (Shaffer, 2005)
A family is…
o Two or more persons related by birth, marriage, adoption or choice’ who have emotional ties and responsibilities to each other (Shaffer, 2005)
Define and give an example of direct, reciprocal and indirect effects of parents
o Direct
Parent acts in a certain way and this influences the child o Reciprocal Difficult child will be responded to differently than an easy child o Indirect effects Mothers who have a supportive relationship with their husband are more sensitive in their interaction with their children
The three propositions central to Harris’s argument that parenting makes little difference (1995)
o 1. Parental behaviours have no effect on the psychological characteristics that children will have as adults
o 2. Peer groups are the primary environmental influence on psychological functioning
o 3. Dyadic relationships are situation specific although they may give rise to powerful emotions, they produce only temporary changes in behaviour
Socio-cognitive influences in child-rearing
o Modelling
o Enactive experience
o Direct tuition
Note: evaluative praise better,
Suggestions -> self-regulation
Commands -> external regulation
Socio-cognitive regulators
o Outcome expectations
Social sanctions
Self-sanctions
o Self-efficacy expectations
• Tridiadic bidirectional interactive model
o Environment
o Behaviour
o Person
Techniques for eliminating behaviour
o Physical/verbal punishment
If its proportional, measured, w/o emotion and consistent, may work effectively.
Punishment when emotional leads to a focus on punishment rather than lesson
o Extinction
o Time-out
Age specified and child reflects on behaviour and a more appropriate behaviour -> fosters self-regulation
o Withdrawal of love – don’t
o Reasoning
Inductive reasoning (Hoffman)
• Appeal to cognitive and affective system, elicit empathic reaction.
• Guilt will become internalised and generalised
o Reinforce alternative desirable behaviour
Techniques for strengthening behaviour
o Material rewards
Transferred reward from intrinsic to material reward with children present studies
External rewards undermine motivation
Reward contingent upon performance
o Social reward – praise with reason
o Verbal attributions – good girl for sharing – never negative.
o Direct instructions and maturity demands
Factors that influence the effectiveness of disciplinary practices
o Link between behaviour and consequences
o Reasoning
o Consistency
o Proportional
o Age-appropriate
o Demands enforced
o Promotion of self-regulation
Difference between physical punishment and physical abuse
o Behaviours that do not result in significant injury are considered corporal punishment whereas behaviours that cause injury are considered physical abuse.
Child behaviours and experiences associated with parental corporal punishment
o Immediate compliance
o Moral externalisation
o Delinquent, criminal and antisocial behaviour
o Mental health issues
o Adult abuse of own child or spouse
o Victim of child abuse
The 3 views on corporal punishment
o Pro-corporal punishment
o Anti-corporal punishment
o Conditional corporal punishment
Criticism of Gershoff (2002)
o Baumrind’s (2002) reanalysis of the studies in Gershoff’s review indicated that some categorised as involving harsh punishment could be considered physical abuse – and that outcomes were more negative for those studies
Methodological issues
o Varied definitions
o Retrospective reporting
o Spanking preceded negative behaviour
o Parents who spank less read more and hug their children more – co-effects