The Art and Science of Coaching Flashcards
Effort is important but knowing_______
where to make effort is even more important.
Have you found a path that is ______ but _____? In other words do you _________ live your days?
comfortable, mindless, consciously
Life is a ________, how are you _______ it?
game, playing
- are you doing what inspires you or experiencing the results you know you can produce?
Having found the game, play it with intensity. Play it as if your life depended on it.
What are transformational conversations?
which you help align others to become fully aligned purposeful beings. Provocative and meaningful conversations make all the difference at key stages of our lives.
What is mastery?
is a state of mind, a way of being in the moment, in which you are fully aligned and awake to how you create your thoughts and responses.
What games are there?
Power
Money
Fame
Contribution
- People tend to choose them early on.
What’s the most important thing you can do when you feel your calling?
Start moving your feet in that direction, because that is when when we get in touch with our truest self.
People already have all the ________ to be a success?
resources
What are the four systems of the brain?
Reptilian
- Main function is to keep body safe
- Fight or flight
- Immediate action
Emotional
- Love
- Anger
- Fear
- Highest priority is survival of the group
- Before transformational change can happen it must be assured that the group is safe
Cerebral
- Vision plan future
- Need to visualize and plan future
- Mental rehearsal
Integrity
Life is either a ______ ________ or _____ ______.
Daring adventure, nothing at all.
Why does your conscious mind pay such little attention to your vision/value system?
Because of the fast pace of everyday life, your conscious mind is fixated on the urgent and important issues before you.
Empowerment conversions and solution-focused coaching help people quickly move past the old __________.
habit systems
Negative thinking habits can easily take charge of the system.
People may have learned through their family, school, or culture to make decisions in specific ways.
i.e that was a horrible feeling I better not do that again.
Effective coaching paves the path to the exploration the ______-_____ ideas.
beyond-conscious.
There are four developmental steps to implementing any dream.
1) A strong plan and visualization
2) The physical steps to realize the plan within a time frame
3) A body of use - people who get results from the plan
4) Meaningfulness a community of people who can enjoy and gain value from these actions.
- Traveling through these phases will support any accomplishment.
Intention and attention
Intention is what the goal is i.e. hitting a home run.
Attention is paying attention to each step along the way to hitting the home run.
A good couch helps people play attention to both.
What does your inner purpose do?
It leads you
Why is understanding which phase a person has as their main focus useful?
It creates a springboard for truly useful conversations.
What are the four stages of every project?
1) Inspiration
2) Implementation
3) Value integration
4) Completion
Position of coach is to see each stage from the outside and guide.