Test 3 Flashcards
the finding that the more we see and interact with people, the more likely they are to become our friends
Propinquity effect
the finding that the more exposure we have to a stimulus, the more apt we are to like it
Mere exposure effect
the idea that peoples feelings about a relationship depend on perceptions of rewards and costs, the kind of relationship they deserve, and their chances for having a better relationship with someone else
Social exchange theory
the idea that people are happiest with relationships in which rewards and costs experienced and both parties contributions are roughly equal
Equity theory
the intimacy and affection we feel when we care deeply for a person but do not experience passion or arousal in the persons presence
Companionate love
an intense longing we feel for a person, accompanied by physiological arousal; when our love is reciprocated, we feel great fulfillment and ecstacy, but when it is not, we feel sadness and despair
Passionate love
a theory derived from evolutionary biology that holds that men and women are attracted to different characteristics in each other because this maximizes their chances of reproductive success (men attracted to women’s appearance, women attracted by men’s resources)
Evolutionary approach to love
the expectations people develop about relationships with others, based on the relationship they had with their caregiver when they were infants
Attachment styles
an attachment style characterized by a lack of concern with being abandoned, and the view that one is worthy and well liked
Secure attachment style
an attachment style characterized by a suppression of attachment needs, because attempts to be intimate have been rebuffed; people with this style find it difficult to develop intimate relationships
Avoidant attachment style
an attachment style characterized by a concern that others will not reciprocate ones desire for intimacy, resulting in higher-than-average levels of anxiety
anxious/ambivalent attachment style
relationships governed by the need for equity (for an equal ratio of rewards and costs)
Exchange relationships
relationships in which peoples primary concern is being responsive to the other persons needs
Communal relationships
any act performed with the goal of benefiting another person
may be for selfish reasons
Prosocial behavior
the desire to help another person even if it involves a cost to the helper
not for selfish reasons
Altruism
the idea that behaviors that help a genetic relative are favored by natural selection
Kin selection
the expectation that helping others will increase the likelihood that they help us in the future
Norm of reciprocity
the ability to put oneself in the shoes of another person and to experience events and emotions the way the person experiences them
Empathy
the idea that when we feel empathy for a person, we will attempt to help that person purely for altruistic reasons, regardless of what we have to gain
Empathy-altruism hypothesis
personality trait making it more likely that an individual will help others in a variety of situations
Altruistic personality