Test #1 Flashcards
What is a grouping of individuals who are affecting each other intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and psychologically?
A family
What are the 5 areas of familial impact?
1) Intellectually
2) Emotionally
3) Spiritually
4) Physically
5) Psychologically
What is it called when you are providing a stable environment where individuals can think and learn, and where mental achievement developed and welcomed; a milieu of life-long learners?
Intellectual impact
What is it called when the home needs to be a place where calm and peace exist; family relationships must be free of abuse in all forms; the greatest gift parents can give their children is a relationship where Dad loves mom, and Mom loves dad
Emotional impact
What is it called where the home should be a place where spiritual growth is prioritized and practiced; God-centered worldview vs. Man-centered worldview?
Spiritual impact
What is it called when the home should be a place where physical fitness/wellness is valued?
Physical impact
What is it called where the home should be a safe place where the soul of each individual person can flourish? (cognitive, behavioral, emotional)
Psychological impact
What does “psyche” mean?
soul
What does “Logos” mean?
word
What are the 3 pillars for marriage and the family?
1) Humanity is a divine creation
2) Humanity has 3 primary responsibility
3) Marriage is a divine institution
What does “Imago Dei” mean?
Image of God
What is the significance of “Imago Dei”?
Because it shows the distinction between humanity and all other creatures
What are the 3 primary responsibilities of humanity?
1) to have dominion
2) to replenish
3) to subdue
What are the 3 things associated with the Theological side of “Imago Dei”?
1) Constitutional likeness
2) Functional likeness
3) Result of the Fall
What does the practical side “Imago Dei” mean?
Value of humanity
What are the 2 significant reasons that make marriages a divine institution?
1) Its divine origin
2) Its divine order
What is the 1st thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
1) That being in love is not an adequate foundation for building successful marriage
What is the 2nd thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That romantic love has 2 stages
What is the 3rd thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That the saying “like mother, like daughter”, and “like father, like son” is not a myth
What is the 4th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
How to solve disagreements without arguing
What is the 5th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That apologizing is a sign of strength
What is the 6th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That forgiveness is not a feeling
What is the 7th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That toilets are not self-cleaning
What is the 8th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That we need a plan for handling our money
What is the 9th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That mutual sexual fulfillment is not automatic
What is the 10th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That I was marrying into a family
What is the 11th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That spiritually is not be equated with “going to church”
What is the 12th thing of the 12 things I wish I knew prior to getting married?
That personality profoundly influences behavior
What does “love” mean according to Dr. Anderson?
Commitment
What is the purpose dating?
To examine the intellectual, emotional, social, spiritual, and physical foundations of marriage of the purpose of determining compatibility
What stage of love is “being in love”; doing things for each other; feeling of euphoria?
Delightful stage
What stage of love is “being intentional”; purposeful expressions of love?
Deliberate stage
What are the two stages of romantic love?
1) Delightful stage
2) Deliberate stage
What are the 5 languages of love?
1) Words of Affirmation
2) Acts of Service
3) Receiving gifts
4) Quality time
5) Physical touch
Confession and repentance occurs both _________ and __________ in marriage
Vertically, and Horizontally
What are the 5 languages of Apology?
1) Expressing regret
2) Accepting responsibility
3) Making restitution
4) Genuinely expressing the desire to change your behavior
5) Requesting forgiveness
What does forgiveness mean?
“to pardon” or “to take away”
What are the four things that forgiveness does not do?
1) Forgiveness does not destroy our memory
2) Forgiveness does not remove all the consequences
3) Forgiveness does not rebuild trust
4) Forgiveness does not always result in reconciliation
What are the four factors that influence roles within marriage?
1) Each person has different models
2) Each person has a philosophy about maleness and femaleness
3) Each person has different gifts and skills
4) Each person has different likes and dislikes
What are the seven purposes of the family?
1) To be obedient to God-given authority
2) To provide for life’s necessities
3) To teach socialization skills
4) To parent the children
5) To demonstrate hospitality
6) To provide security
7) To display loyalty
What three things regarding obedience should we do?
1) Obey first
2) Obey fast
3) Obey with a happy face
What are the 10 manners children should know according to Dr. Dave Young?
1) Say “please” when asking
2) Say “thank you” when receiving
3) Say “excuse me” when bumping
4) Put down your electronics when someone enters the room
5) Look people in the eyes when talking
6) Let others finish before you speak
7) Shake hand firmly
8) Say “Yes Ma’am” and “Yes Sir”
9) Greet people warmly
10) Open door for others
What are the 6 elements of Biblical marriage?/
1) Is ordained by God
2) Is exclusive (one man and one women)
3) Is a covenant commitment
4) Is permanent
5) Is a picture of Christ with the church
6) Is the foundational institution of human society
What is a covenant?
An agreement confirmed by oaths or vows in the name of the Lord
What is the divine pattern for marriage?
1) Principle of Leaving (leave)
2) Principle of Cleaving (cleave)
3) The Principle of One flesh (Become one flesh)
What does the word “leave” mean in Genesis 2:24?
“To forsake”; implies a new home distinct from one’s parent
What does the word “cleave” mean in Genesis 2:24?
“to cling” or “to stick”; implies an act of the will… choosing to be joined to another for life
What two things causes “one flesh” to take place?
“Leaving and Cleaving”
What are the 7 biblical examples of a husband?
1) Adam
2) Isaac
3) Elkanah
4) Nabal
5) Ahab
6) David
7) Job
Adam was a what kind of husband?
The blaming husband
Isaac was a what kind of husband?
The loving husband
Elkanah was a what kind of husband?
The sympathetic husband
Nabal was a what kind of husband?
The foolish husband
Ahab was a what kind of husband?
The weak husband
David was a what kind of husband?
The unfaithful husband
Job was a what kind of husband
The strong husband
What are the 5 descriptions of a biblical wife?
1) She is to be a “help meet”
2) She is “crown” to her husband
3) She is a “good thing”
4) She is virtuous
5) She is the “weaker” vessel
What are the 8 duties of a godly husband?
1) He is to love his wife
2) He is to be faithful
3) He is to be satisfied with her
4) He is to honor her
5) He is to understand her
6) He is to consult her
7) He is to provide for her
8) He is to protect her
What are the 7 duties of a Godly wife?
1) She is to obey her husband
2) She is to respect her husband
3) She is to lover her husband
4) She is to be chaste
5) She is to take care of the home
6) She is to be faithful to her husband
7) She is to have an attitude of submission
What does submission mean in the Greek?
1) “by” or “under” or “to arrange”
2) “to place or rank under, to subject”
What does the Greek military term mean for submission?
“to arrange (troop divisions) in a military fashion under the command of a leader”.
What does submission mean in a non-military terminology?
“a voluntary attitude of giving in, cooperating, assuming responsibility, and carrying a burden”
What 3 areas does submission apply to according to Ephesians 5:21-22, 24?
1) The relationship of all believers to one another
2) The relationship of the wife to the husband
3) The relationship of the church to Christ
Submission is viewed as both ________ and _______; each Christian is to be subordinate to every other Christian
Mutual, and Reciprocal
Submission denotes a genuine _______ that results in placing oneself under another; it implies both ________ and _______
Respect, Attitude, and Action
