Techniques of Seduction Flashcards
What techniques are involved in seduction according to Greene?
*Building trust
*Creating mystery
*Highlighting needs
*Mirroring the target’s ideal self
*Suggesting the forbidden
*Adding surprise
*Mastering words
*Remaining mysterious
*Showing vulnerability
*Isolating the target
*Playing the hero
*Adding a hint of danger
*Exploiting childhood trauma
*Blending spirituality and physicality
*Alternating pleasure and pain
*Sealing the deal with precision
Why is establishing trust crucial in seduction according to Greene?
Establishing a foundation of trust is crucial in seduction, as it creates a sense of security and comfort that allows the target to open up and become more receptive to the seducer’s advances.
What does Greene advocate for regarding mystery in seduction?
Greene advocates for maintaining an aura of mystery and intrigue, as it keeps the target intrigued and eager to unravel the enigma of the seducer.
How does addressing the target’s needs contribute to seduction according to Greene?
Identifying and addressing the target’s unmet needs and desires enables the seducer to position themselves as the solution, thereby increasing their appeal and influence.
What strategy does Greene suggest for creating a strong emotional connection?
By reflecting and embodying the qualities and traits that the target admires or aspires to possess, the seducer can create a strong emotional connection and affinity.
What effect does introducing forbidden allure have in seduction according to Greene?
Introducing an element of taboo or forbidden allure adds excitement and intrigue to the seduction, sparking curiosity and desire in the target.
How does surprising the target contribute to the seduction process?
Surprising the target with unexpected gestures or experiences creates memorable moments and deepens their emotional investment in the seducer.
What role do effective communication skills play in seduction according to Greene?
Effective communication skills, including the ability to articulate desires, express admiration, and evoke emotion through words, are essential tools in seduction.
Why does Greene recommend maintaining an air of mystery in seduction?
Maintaining an air of mystery and unpredictability keeps the target intrigued and eager for further interaction, fueling their curiosity and desire.
How does revealing vulnerability contribute to building rapport?
Revealing vulnerability and authenticity fosters intimacy and emotional connection, building trust and rapport with the target.
What advantage does creating opportunities for private interactions with the target provide?
Creating opportunities for private and intimate interactions with the target allows the seducer to deepen their bond and exert greater influence over their emotions and decisions.
How does positioning oneself as a hero affect the seduction process?
Positioning oneself as a source of support and protection fulfills the target’s emotional needs and strengthens their attachment to the seducer.
What effect does introducing risk or excitement have in seduction according to Greene?
Introducing an element of risk or excitement appeals to the target’s adventurous side, heightening their arousal and emotional investment in the seducer.
How does addressing childhood trauma contribute to building a bond with the target?
Addressing and healing the target’s unresolved emotional wounds from childhood creates a deep emotional bond and dependency on the seducer.
What advantage does integrating spiritual and physical elements provide in seduction?
Integrating spiritual and physical elements in the seduction process fosters a deeper connection and intimacy, transcending mere physical attraction.
