study guide

Question 1

how many times will a victim of abuse go back to the abuser before leaving or being killed? 

Answer 1

7 times

Question 2

Power and control are the purpose behind an abusive relationship?

Answer 2

true

Question 3

why is it important to not shower or drink anything after someone has been raped? 

Answer 3

The body is evidence, washes away all the evidence

Question 4

what is physical abuse? 

Answer 4

abuse that the victim has visible bruises and injuries 

Question 5

Define date rape?

Answer 5

forced sex on a date 

Question 6

What is quid pro quo?

Answer 6

One thing for another, a person uses authority over a person to get what they want

Question 7

What are three characteristics of a person who hits?

Answer 7

usually comes from a violent family, thinks abuser should be boss, blames others for making them angry

Question 8

consent is permission for something to happen or an agreement to do something?

Answer 8

True

Question 9

What are three characteristics of a person who stays in an abusive relationship?

Answer 9

accepts blame, often comes from violent family, makes excuses for abusers behavior 

Question 10

Define sexual harassment

Answer 10

Any unwanted, unwelcome, unsolicited behavior, because you are a male or female 

Question 11

for examples of sexual harassment?

Answer 11

Rating of person, emails, texts that are inappropriate, pulling down pants, blocking someone’s path

Question 12

three resources wear a victim of abuse can go for help

Answer 12

Life, crisis, hospital, police

Question 13

three guidelines to follow to reduce the risk of date rape

Answer 13

do not abuse drugs and alcohol, do not walk or go places that are not well it, state what you want clearly, say no firmly

Question 14

List and explain three cycles of violence; explain with the abuser and victim do in each cycle 

Answer 14

honeymoon phase abusers, trat the victim with love victims thinks that the abuser has changed. Tension building phase abusers getting frustrated quickly and starting to show anger victim is walking on eggshells trying to make everything perfect. Serious battering phase abuser abuser is the victim and the victim accepts responsibility for the abuse 

Question 15

What does an abuser due to a victim to gain control?

Answer 15

isolate the victim from family and friends

Question 16

three signs of an unhealthy relationship

Answer 16

Physical abuse, name-calling, criticized, accused of lying and cheating 

Question 17

List and explained four different types of abuse that an abuser uses on the victim

Answer 17

Physical, emotional, children, economical, intimidation, threats, sexual abuse, isolation

Question 18

List three statements that you can say to tell someone to stop the behavior

Answer 18

Stop doing that I do not like it, leave me alone, you are making me uncomfortable, I did not like it when you look at me that way

Question 19

Two warning, signs of a violent relationship

Answer 19

very jealous, controlling, pressures for sex, abuses, drug and alcohol, blames, you when , abuser mistreats

Question 20

two date rape drugs

Answer 20

Ruffino, GHB

Question 21

percentage of women and men involved in date, rape that have been under the influence of drugs and alcohol

Answer 21

75% men and 55% women

Question 22

Hostile environment can happen anywhere and it is where a person does not feel safe and cannot be productive

Answer 22

True

Question 23

A victim of sexual assault can experience

Answer 23

withdrawal from school, withdraw from social situations, lose their self confidence, doubt their self-worth

Question 24

We need to clearly communicate what we want on a date so there’s no confusion or miscommunication. You don’t want to put yourself in a bad situation.

Answer 24

True