Setting The Scene

Question 1

What are the 6 key parameters for a massage space?

Answer 1

Tidy, Lighting, Temperature, Aroma, Music, Privacy

Question 2

Tidyness (2)

Answer 2

Clear clutter.

Freshly washed linen, cushions, and towels.

Question 3

Lighting (3)

Answer 3

Soft
Candles
Red/pink hues

Question 4

Temperature (3)

Answer 4

Draft free
Warm
If too hot use a fan.

Question 5

Aroma basics (3)

Answer 5

Oil diffuser to burn essential oils.
Use oils that match or compliment those in your massage oil.
Scented candles.

Question 6

Privacy (2)

Answer 6

No interruptions.

Phones off.

Question 7

Music

Answer 7

Use the massage YouTube playlist.

Question 8

3 types of oil you can use?

Answer 8

Grapeseed
Almond
Light Olive Oil

Question 9

5 essential oils that can be added to your massage oil?

Answer 9

Lavender
Sandalwood
Jasmine absolute
Rose absolute
Neroli absolute

Question 10

Lavender affect?

Answer 10

Aids relaxation

Question 11

Sandalwood effect?

Answer 11

Enhances feelings of sensuality and calm

Question 12

Jasmine absolute effect?

Answer 12

Enlivens male sensuality and relieves sexual tension.

Question 13

Rose absolute effect?

Answer 13

Promotes feelings of love.

Question 14

Neroli absolute effect? (3)

Answer 14

Stimulates virility and fertility, and soothes anxiety.

Question 15

How to store the oil during the massage?

Answer 15

In a bowl of hot water.

Question 16

For intimate genital massage use this type of lubricant.

Answer 16

Water-based

Question 17

5 extra tools/toys

Answer 17

Feathers
Sarong
Vibrator
Water spray bottle
Head massager

Question 18

Ground rules (8) that can be communicated to yiur partner.

Answer 18

1. Pay attention to what’s happening for them in every moment. If she is enjoying a a particular touch, take your time before moving on.
2. Devote yourself entirely to your partner’s pleasure, putting all personal needs aside.
3. Avoid manoeuvring your partner towards any goal, such as orgasm or penetrative sex during the massage, unless agreed upon beforehand.
4. Don’t be distracted by anything.
5. Respond instantly to any sign of discomfort or a negative reaction.
6. Accept that any negative reactions. Everyone likes different things.
7. Agree to not talk unnecessarily.