Setting The Scene Flashcards
What are the 6 key parameters for a massage space?
Tidy, Lighting, Temperature, Aroma, Music, Privacy
Tidyness (2)
Clear clutter.
Freshly washed linen, cushions, and towels.
Lighting (3)
Soft
Candles
Red/pink hues
Temperature (3)
Draft free
Warm
If too hot use a fan.
Aroma basics (3)
Oil diffuser to burn essential oils.
Use oils that match or compliment those in your massage oil.
Scented candles.
Privacy (2)
No interruptions.
Phones off.
Music
Use the massage YouTube playlist.
3 types of oil you can use?
Grapeseed
Almond
Light Olive Oil
5 essential oils that can be added to your massage oil?
Lavender Sandalwood Jasmine absolute Rose absolute Neroli absolute
Lavender affect?
Aids relaxation
Sandalwood effect?
Enhances feelings of sensuality and calm
Jasmine absolute effect?
Enlivens male sensuality and relieves sexual tension.
Rose absolute effect?
Promotes feelings of love.
Neroli absolute effect? (3)
Stimulates virility and fertility, and soothes anxiety.
How to store the oil during the massage?
In a bowl of hot water.
For intimate genital massage use this type of lubricant.
Water-based
5 extra tools/toys
Feathers Sarong Vibrator Water spray bottle Head massager
Ground rules (8) that can be communicated to yiur partner.
- Pay attention to what’s happening for them in every moment. If she is enjoying a a particular touch, take your time before moving on.
- Devote yourself entirely to your partner’s pleasure, putting all personal needs aside.
- Avoid manoeuvring your partner towards any goal, such as orgasm or penetrative sex during the massage, unless agreed upon beforehand.
- Don’t be distracted by anything.
- Respond instantly to any sign of discomfort or a negative reaction.
- Accept that any negative reactions. Everyone likes different things.
- Agree to not talk unnecessarily.
