self disclosure Flashcards
what are the three elements of self-disclosure
- social penetration theory
- breadth and depth of social disclosure
- reciprocity of self-disclosure
what is self disclosure
the sharing of personal information about the self which leads to increased attraction
outline self disclosure
the gradual process of revealing your inner self to someone
- reciprocal exchange of deeper information
what is breadth of self disclosure
at the start of a relationship when we disclose low risk information with other
why does breadth occur before depth
if we reveal too much about ourselves too soon this can reduce the attractiveness of a person
what is depth
the exchange of high risk information such as painful memories as the relationship develops and self disclosure becomes deeper
why is it important that self disclosure is reciprocal
an empathetic emotional response increases attraction causing increased intimacy in a relationship making it more likely to be maintained
a strength of self disclosure is the supporting evidence from sprecher and hendrick
- longitudinal study of mainly white middle class heterosexual dating couples using questionaires and found strong correlations between measures of satisfaction and self disclosure
- both men and women that selfdisclosed and believed their partner did were more satisfied with and committed to their relationship than those who did - this is a strength as it supports the claims of self disclosure theory
- therefore their findings support that self disclosure plays a large part in relationship satisfaction and adds validity to its claims
a limitation of self disclosure is that the research evidence is correlational
- research such as sprecher and hendricks research is correlational and doesnt establish causation
- this is a limitation as evidence doesnt enable us to conclude self disclosure causes a partner to be seen as attractive but could be due to another factor such as perceived similarity
- factors other than high levels of self disclosure may explain why some romantic relationships are successful and others fail
- therefore there is only weak evidence for the social penetration theory of factors affecting attraction in romantic relationships and its likely that several factors play a role in attraction to a potential partner
a strength of research into self disclosure is that it can offer practical applications
- it can help people who want to improve communication in their relationships and strengthen their romantic bond with their partner
- hass and strafford found that 57% of gay men and women in their study said that open and honest self disclosure maintained and deepened their relationship
- this is a strength as it shows that the theory can help less skilled individuals whose communication is limited to small talk to deepen their relationships by using self disclosure effectively
- then this can bring benefits to their relationship in terms of satisfaction
- therefore effective applications in relationship counselling suggests that self disclosure leads to more satisfying relationships and is therefore valid
- demonstrates the value of psychological insight in real life application
a limitation of self disclosure theory is that its effectiveness varies depending on how partners met
- research by dating platforms found that a third of relationships between 2015-2019 started online
- there are differences in the levels of self disclosure over the internet compared to face to face relationships
- individuals over the internet are anonymous which may lead to them revealing more information about themselves
- boom and bust phenomenon
- relationships get very intense quickly (boom)
- however because of the underlying trust and knowledge of the other person are not there to support the relationship it becomes difficult to sustain (bust)
- this is a limitation as self disclosure theory doesnt consider these relationships that start online and by 2035 if current trends continue more people will meet their partner online than offline
- therefore a large number of people are being ignored in such theories and self disclosure differs depending on how partners have met.