Relationships and Family Flashcards
What 3 conditions do the Catholic Church teach that sex should be under?
Sex should be:
Marital - within marriage.
Unitive - bonding - the couple totally give themselves to eachother.
Pro-creative - must be to create new life.
Give a quote for each of the following:
Extramarital sex
Unitive
Pro-creative
Marital - “the sexual act outside of marriage is a grave sin” - CCC
Unitive - “the two shall become one flesh” - Mark 10: 6-9
Pro-creative - “be fruitful and multiply” - Genesis 1: 27-28
Give some catholic views about sex before marriage:
- Catholics beleive that the gift of virginity makes a husband and wife feel special. Therefore it should be saved for marriage.
- Casual sex has no comittment and it can cause hurt to others.
- Trivialises the act.
- God gave humans the gift of sex in order to reproduce, so it should only happen when there is a possibility of life.
Give some contrasting views on sex before marriage:
- Sex before marriage is fine as long as it’s within a loving, long-term relationship. Jesus taught that love is the most important thing - Love = one of the ‘Kingdom Values’.
- Pre-marital sex is very common in a modern society.
- Some people won’t be able to or want to get married.
- Sex has health benefits.
What are the 7 conditions for a valid Roman Catholic Marriage?
- Must be free to marry.
- Must be consummated (have sex).
- Must declare willingless to accept children.
- Vows must be said in front of catholic priest.
- Must not be closely related.
- Must marry of own free will.
- Must give consent.
What is the nature of a CATHOLIC marriage? (Mnemonic). Give a quote for each.
Sacrament - “an outward sign of an inner grace” -“Christ comes into the lives of married christians through the sacrament of matrimony”
Permanent - “what God has joined together, let no man separate.”
Exclusive - “Marriage is an exclusive union.”
Life-giving - “be fruitful and multiply.”
(SPEL)!!!
What is adultery?
Adultery is when a married person has sex with someone who is not their husband or wife.
What are some catholic views on adultery?
- Adultety breaks the marriage vows and ten commandments.
- Jesus says adultery is wrong.
- It’s a betrayal that causes great hurt.
- Can create anxiety for children of couple.
What is cohabitation?
Cohabitation is living together as a couple without making a formal commitment.
What are some catholic views on cohabitation?
- Cohabitation encourages a casual, selfish attitude to a relationship.
- Married couples are less likely to separate because they recieve counselling.
- Marriage is the deepest commitment you can make, and the most secure for children.
- Making vows publically shows your commitment.
What are some contrasting views on cohabitation?
- Cohabitation enables the couple to get to know each other which may prevent divorce if and when they decide to get married.
- The only important thing for children is that their parents love eachother.
What is divorce?
Divorce is the legal ending of a marriage.
What is the Catholic Church’s view point on divorce?
The Catholic Church believe that couples who have married in the Catholic Church cannot end their marriage because they vowed ‘till death do us part’.
“What God has joined together, let no man separate” - Mark
What is remarriage?
Remarriage is when a divorced person marries a new partner.
Why can’t couples who have married in the Catholic Church remarry?
Catholics who have married in the Catholic Church can’t remarry as unless the original partner has died, the couple will forever be married in the eyes of God. Anyone who is in another relationship, other than their marriage, should not recieve Holy Communion.
What is an Annulment?
An annulment is a statement from the catholic church which couples receive if their marriage is not valid.
What are some valid reasons for an annulment?
- One or both forced to marry.
- One or both never intended to have a child.
- Marriage wasn’t consummated.
- Lies/concealment.
- Incest.
- Couldn’t give consent
- Didn’t understand the vows.
What is the catholic church’s position on homosexuality?
The church teaches that homosexuality is not wrong or unnatural. However it asks homosexual couples to remain celibate as they can’t physically pro-create.
- Breaks the S and L of SPEL for marriage.
- Not fully unitive.