relationships and families Flashcards

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The chrisitan family

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a place for nuture and discipline
-a place to be bought up in christianity
value of fidelity - hlpes protect stability of the family
strengthening familfe - part of the mission of the church

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Different types of families

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nucleur
single parent
extended
cohabitating - same as nuclear but parents are not married
step family
same sex
adopted
foster
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Marriage - anglican/catholic/methodist

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  • should take place between a man and a woman

- outwards act of marriage is evidence of spiritual unity

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genesis 2:23-24

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a man leaves his father and mother and is united with is wife, and they become one flesh’

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at the wedding service…

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promises made are for life and shouldnt be broken

binding nature is reinforced by jesus - he says that once a couple are married, they cannot be seperated

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quote

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‘man must not seperate what god has joined together’

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vows..

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between god as welll - god’s blessing is asked through prayer and his presence in the marriage relationship makes it stronger

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‘QUOTE

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A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT QUICKLY BROKEN

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Church of england

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  • acommitment to love and grow
    should reflkect christ’s love for the church because christ is commited to his people and to the church
  • couple should be prepared to withstand selfishness, juts as christ put himself onto the cross
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3 blessings of marriage

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  • procreation
  • sexual relations
  • help and comfort

extended love - the couple will exude what they have learnt in the relationship onto the wider community - forgivess ect

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Catholic church

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  • creates a unique and unbreakable bond between couple - cannot be dissolved
  • marriage in a catholic church reveals god’s unconditional love
  • marriage is a sacrament - bings god’s grace to the couple - god’s grace helps spouse to be faithful and to be good parents
  • church believes marriage is permenant and not a makeshift culture
  • constant precense of christ - helps sustain and lengthen out the union and it is through times of difficult that couples can overcome it and grow
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purpose of marriage for catholics

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procreation - be fruitful and multiply
union - sign of faithfulness
one flesh - through the act of sex, which is resticted to marriage
scarament - god’s grace guides them through the intervention of the holy spirit
ends in death - ‘Till death do us part’ - marriage vows - against divorce

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catholic/orthodox wedding services

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-both required to be baptised
disparity of cult - when special permisison for an unbaptised candidate who wants to get married is baptised
- if a catholic marries a non christian it is not a sacrament
nuptial mass - they take part in the bringing the bread and wine to the alter - active role in sacrament is to direct all thoughts to god to demostrated him being the most important catalyst in the marriage

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church of england

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welcomes any heterosexual couple to marry whether they are christian or not or even baptised or not. prepared to carry out mixed faith marriage services
- CofE believes church wedding adds spiritual dimension to the marriahed - because god is included
couple can make choices about bible readings
the church of england - the offical religion in england performs state weddings

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Quakers

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no minister to lead proceedings

couple sit in silent worship until they feel it is right for them to say their vows

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christian responses to civil partnerships

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Catholic and church of england are against civil partnerships
- marriage is the proper place for sexual relations - with the main role being to create new life
perfroming a civil partneship would suggest that homosexual sex is just as acceptable as married heterosexual sex
- they believe it is best to raise children with a biological father and mother
House of bishops - have told churches not to carry them out
church of england vicars are allowed to have civil parnterships but must remain celibate
- other homosexual clergy belive that not recognising gay partnerships is ‘failing to respond to an opportunity to celebrate and affirm love, fidelity and commitment’

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other christians

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civil partnerships should be acceptable because it provides companionship, untiy, and stability loike a heterosexual marriage

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response to marriage

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liberal christians argue that everyone should be treated equally - if a same sex couple want to get married, they should be allowed to

all love is from god - if a same sex couple is in love, then it must come from god and should not be condemned

not a choice - born gay so it is natural so it is god-given

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responses to same sex marriage

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religious organisations that do not wish to carry out homosexual marriages are protected under the law
marriage - requires set words to be said to agree the marriage
civil partneships - requires only a legal document
to end a marriage - divorce
to end a civil partnership - dissolution order

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CofE

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Members of the church of england may enter same-sex marriages without facing punishment but cannot be conducted by the church
because church teaches marriage should be between a man and a woman - procreation

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catholic church

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although the church teaches not to discriminate - they still teach that homosexual acts are unnatural since it does not result in children
it is opposed to same sex marriage beacuse it might have harmful effects on society, undermining the value of heterosexual marriage

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Episcopal church

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changed its law and allows same sex marriage - altering the marriage rites
‘children of god’
‘love transcends sexuality and gender’

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responses to pre marital sex and cohabitation

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all christians agree that casual sex is wrong because it takes place outside a loving relationship
one night stand - no intention of forming a permanent bond
fornication

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catholic church

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sex - the body’s language
this is how they communicate their absolute and exclusive love to one another
everytime sex occurs - possibility for new life
sex outside marriage is wrong

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church of england
sex is an act of loyalty and love reflecting total commitment which also reflects the marriage vows teaches that sex outside marriage, falls short of god's purposes but accept that cohabitation is a step towards the commitment of marriage
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celibacy
-so they can focus on fully serving god -paul was celibate - he says though that if they cannot control their sexual desires, they should marry those that choose celibacy are focusing primarily on god celibacy is a gift rather than a restriction - the priest is enabled better to share the love with all rather than being distracted by sharing the love with one catholic church - celibacy is a more selfless and spiritual love
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diverent views about cohqabitations
- as sex outside marriage becomes more socially acceptable - the church should modernise with the times - step towards marriage - church of england - learning to be faithful - SIN -catholic church - cohabitating is a sin - catholic churches discourage cohabitating couples from recieving holy communion as it is seen as a sin cohabitation leads to higher divorce rates
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contraception
birth control artificial - use of a device like a condomn or medication natural - abstaining, choosing to have sex in the least fertile time in the menstrual cycle withdrawl method - withdraws before ejactualtion
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catholic church
sinful allows natural forms of contraception not artificial condoms should not be used even to prevent the spread of STI'S but more recently, has been accepted as the lesser of two evils - where one could potentially pass on AIDS to another person procreation - ariticial contraception interferes with god's plan PROMISCUITY - lead to more sexual partners because less chance of pregancy natural - allowed so they can plan when
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church of england/methodist
family size - helps quality of life by reducing number of children pleausre - strengthen their own emotional bond without risk of more children disease - prevents infection
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abstinence
no sex until marriage - abstinence directed at young people organisations empahsise - abstience reflects a sense of self worth and value like THE SILVER RING THING organisation sex was created by god as an expression of love within th marriage
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RELATE - TACKLES RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
Councelinng services for tackiling relationship problems before divorcing
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Catholic church
marriage is permanent do not accept divorce breaks the legal agreement but does not break the holy agreement made by god divorce process is painful - advice and support should be given to anyone even if they divorce teaches temporary separation - try and restore their own marriage and not enter into any other sexual relationships
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CATHOLIC CHURCH - ANNULMENT
agreeing that promises made in marriage were not valid and so neither is the marriage if a person had been forced into the marriage without consent indivduals free to marry other people after
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church of england
belives in lifelong commitment howveer does recognise that sometimes it is impossible for a couple to remain together and divorce is inevitable - abuse or adultry the church care for the diovorced couple and they are allowed to remarry, whether is in the church is up to the priest it is the more loving thing to do jesus allowed remarriage for adultry
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traditional views about men and women
women are literally god's helpers men are the leaders in that relationship some women still choose to subit obediance to their husbands during their wedding cermeony some christians consider women to be weake rthan men - in genesis eve gave in before adamn did man - wage earner women - child-bearer
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Catholic church
values the role of a woman in the home as a highly as her chose career outside the house women should feel under no social pressure to have a career if she would rather be a fulltime housewife
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St.Ambrose
you are not her master but her husband
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Jesus + role of women
challenged many cultural sterotypes
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Sex discrimination is against the law in the UK - do not apply in religious organisations
Roman catholic church - compementarianism - believe men and women were created differently and so therefore fulfil different roles
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Sex discrimination is against the law in the UK - do not apply in religious organisations
Roman catholic church - compementarianism - believe men and women were created differently and so therefore fulfil different roles
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god's law about priesthood
- jesus chose early men to be his disciples - the early church leaders were all men - priests represent jesus when celebratring the mass because jesus was a man - the authority of the church has been passed down by men
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those in favour of women priests
jesus came to break down barriers not reinforce them jesus was following the tradition of his time god created women in the image of himself as well as men
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religious upbringing
'children obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the lord. fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged'
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catholic church
``` baptism bedtime prayers sunday school confirmation regular church attendance first holy communion ```
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amish community
Ordnung - list of rules about how they should live instructed to marry only other amish provide schooling - farming for boys, domestic tasks for girls women are under the authority of men - men are both in charge spiritually and provisionally children taught not to be selfish and get along with others - god is pleased with harmony age of 16 - leave the community to explore before settling down to the trict rules when they return. RUMSPRINGA
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catholic church benefited from unequal distribution of wealth, and justified it with christian teachings jesus taught wealthy people have a duty to share with those lesser than them and that spiritual riches are far more important than financial ones
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famous hymn that supports inequality and that states god made it
the rich man in this castle the poor man at his gate god made thme highly and lowly and ordered their estate