Relationships And Families Flashcards
Catholic teachings on sexual love
Marital (within marriage)
“sexual act outside marriage is a grave sin”
- sex is a gift from God
- marriage is the deepest committment due to vows
Unitive (bonding/uniting) "the two shall become one flesh" - unites and deepens love - become closer and more committed - couple give themselves to each other
Procreative (open to new life)
“be fruitful and increase in number”
- God creates new life through sex
- more intensity when life-giving
“God created humans in his image”
- human life most important thing to God
- created men and women equal in his eyes
- man and woman are complementary to each other and produce a harmony
Catholic view - Sex before Marriage
(Against)
- should happen with the right person who you trust
- there is less committment as no vows made
- should only happen when there is possibilty of new life
- devalues sexual act
- makes couple feel more loved as in marriage they are truly devoted
Contrasting view - Sex before Marriage
(For)
- everyone can have sex when they are ready
- it is common and CC should modernise
- if the relationship is good it’s fine as Jesus taught love is most important
Conditions for Catholic marriage
Consummated, declare wilingness to have children, vows said in front of a priest, not closely related, free to marry, out of own free will, give consent (I take thee…”)
Nature of Marriage
Sacramental - God part of it, shows holliness and closeness to God
“love of man and woman is made holy in the Sacrament of Marriage”
Permanent - lasting and until death, never ending
“till death do us part”
Exclusive - no other partners
“this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity”
Procreative - life giving, open to new life
“be fruitful and increase in number”
Why is adultery wrong?
- breaks vows
- breaks 10 commandments (do not commit adultery)
- God was part of marriage - breaks sanctity of it
- betrayal causing hurt and distress
- makes other feel rejected and a failure
- may cause breakdown of marriage - insecure for children
Catholic view - Cohabitation
(Against)
- breaks sanctity of marriage and sexual love
- reduces need for faithfullness
- less committed as marriage has vows
- marriage - less likely to separate due to prep
- encourages promiscuity
- marriage deepest committment - most secure for children
Contrasting view - Cohabitation
(For)
- get to know each other, could prevent divorce
- the only important thing for children is that the parents have a good relationship
Catholic view - Divorce
(Not recognised)
- God part of marriage - breaks sanctity of it
- couple vowed “till death do us part”
- “everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery”
Contrasting view (mainly CofE) - Divorce
(For)
- allowed as it’s a sign of God’s forgiveness
- human nature that vows can be always kept
- divorces more common in modern life
Catholic view - Remarriage
Can’t remarry unless partner has died. If they do, they can’t receive Communion.
Contrasting view (CofE) - Remarriage
Accepted as its a sign of God’s forgiveness and human nature that vows can’t always be kept. Shows God’s wilingness to give a fresh start.
Acceptable reasons for annulment
- forced to marry
- not consummated
- didn’t intend on children
- lies / concealment
- incest
- couldn’t give consent
- didn’t understand vows
Catholic view - Homosexuality + same sex marriage
(Against)
- cannot naturally procreate
- it isn’t a sin and should still be loved - “love thy neighbour”
- not properly marital or unitive
- God wanted between man and woman (Adam, Eve)