Relationships Flashcards

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Who came up with the theory for sexual selection?

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Charles Darwin

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What is meant by Anisogamy?

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Refers to the difference between male and female sex cells or gametes eg number produced. A consequence of Anisogamy is there is no shortage of fertile males but a fertile female is more rare.

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What is meant by Intra-sexual selection?

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Intra-sexual selection is where same sex species compete. Often males must compete to get mating rights with females. Winners will then be able to mate and pass genes onto the next generation, making the species stronger.

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What is meant by Inter-sexual selection?

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Refers to the preference for certain traits in the opposite sex i.e. females preference for taller males will over time result in tall males making up more of the population. In addition traits which show being a good parent are attractive and females are pre-programmed to search for these traits.

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What supports are there for the theory of sexual selection?

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+ It is a logical theory to apply to real life settings. This is because it argues that both sexes aim to be sexually selective towards certain traits. This is a support as It prevents offspring from being unhealthy which is a logical want/desire for mammals. If this is not achieved it will result in a genetic ‘dead end’ for that species as they will not be able to mate.
+ Fisher (1930) came up with the ‘sexy sons’ hypothesis.

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What criticisms are there for the theory of sexual selection?

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  • A weakness of this is that humans have significantly higher level of thought than animals. This is a criticism because humans have different examples of power in society than animals. ie the most powerful and smartest people are considered ‘nerds’ but the stronger more likely to find muscular people are considered ‘jocks’. This is a weakness as women will often go for ‘jocks’ who are less powerful than ‘nerds’ more powerful.
  • A weakness of Darwin’s theory is that it does not account for homosexuality. This is because fit and healthy mates are often set aside for same sex partners. Therefore going against Darwin theory as animals cannot provide offspring with same sex partners. To further weaken we can see that it is found in both animals and humans.
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Why is it said that males prefer short term relationships?

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Gives males the opportunity to engage with multiple females, passing on their genes multiple times and increasing there survival chance.

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What what did Buss (2007) find?

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Males were more likely to lower standards in order to achieve an opportunity to engage in mating whilst women aren’t so inclined.

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What did Buss and Schmitt (1993) find?

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A decrease in the level of attraction to females once the male had sex with them.

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Why is it said that females prefer long term mating preferences?

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They look for a male who can provide for her and the offspring meaning they need to choose their partner much more carefully and will look for certain traits which they are pre-programmed to do.

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What do females look for when considering a mate?

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Has resources to invest into them
Can protect them
Shows signs of being a good parent
Compatible with them causing minimal costs

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What is a support for short and long term mating preferences?

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Clarke and Hatfield had an attractive male/female approach total strangers on a university campus. They asled the strangers “would you go on a date with me” etc questions. Males approached said yes much more than females approached.

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Why is it said people are like onions?

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Because as you peel back the layers we find different qualities, and come to a deeper level of understanding.

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What is social penetration theory?

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Altman’s and Taylor (1973) suggest that the more you get to know a person you must give progressively more of your inner self to the other i.e. you share more aspects of your self which may have not been shared with others.

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What does social penetration theory require?

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Requires trust that takes time to build, requiring each person to reciprocate the placing of trust and accept the person. However this may not always occur and the other person may not accept the action of the other.

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What is a strength of social penetration theory?

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+ A strength of social penetration theory (SPT) is that Sprecher and Hendrick studied heterosexual relationships which increases the validity. We see this strength as they found a positive correlation between relationships satisfaction and the increasing level of disclosure present in the relationship. This is a strength because it increases the validity as it can be applied to more people. Therefore making the study overall more valid.

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What elements are there to social penetration theory?

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Breadth
Depth

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What is meant by ‘breadth’ in social penetration theory?

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At first we are more likely to provide wide ranges of information about ourselves ie where we grew up, favourite films, food. All known as ‘low risk’ information which rejection will not cause much harm to.

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What is meant by ‘depth’ in social penetration theory?

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Over time self disclosure becomes deeper as trust and knowledge of the other becomes greater. Therefore topics such as past relations, painful memories etc are shared.

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What did Ries and Shaver (1988) point out?

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That for a relationship to deepen there must be a returning level of reward or showing of a suitable level of emotion or even a returning of a similar level of information.
This maintains the balance in the relationship and over time it becomes deeper and deeper. Can provide a foundation for the couple.

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What is a strength of Ries and Shavers theory?

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They pointed out that for a relationship to deepen there must be a returning level of reward or showing of a suitable level of emotion or even a similar return of information of true self.

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Who pointed out the importance of physical attraction and to what extent is it?

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Shackleford and Larsen (1977) said that higher levels of face symmetry brought a higher rating of attractiveness.

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What is meant by the ‘halo effect’?

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Dion et al (1972) refers to the habit of people to expect good looking people to be good people ie they have ‘physical attractiveness stereotypes’ leading people to believe what’s beautiful is good.

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What did Dion et al (1972) find?

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Found attractive people are frequently rated as higher in judgements about personal traits such as kindness, sociability and success when compared to those that are less attractive.

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What can the halo effect bring about?
It is said to have disproportionate effect on our judgement which often leads to over expectations which over time in a relationship may lead to problems.
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What theory did Kerckhoff and Davis (1962) suggest?
Filter theory
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What does filter theory mean?
Refers to how we sort through the field of available people to find one to be with.
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What are the filters that are said we use?
Social geography 1st level of filter Similarity of attitudes 2nd level of filter complementarity 3rd level of filter
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What is meant by social demography?
1st level filter refers to the factors which impact the likelihood of partners meeting in the first place. ie proximity, social class, level of education, meeting in the first place.
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What is meant by similarity of attitudes?
How people share important views/beliefs. This filter occurs in early period of the relationship up until about 18 months. People start to consider basic values the other person has, self disclosure increases which leads to a greater understanding of similarities/differences.
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What is meant by complementarity?
Concerned with how the couple compliment each other. For example one being good at making big decisions and the other better at daily decisions, whilst one is emotional the other remains calm.
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What is a criticism for filter theory?
A weakness of filter theory is that it was developed in an individualistic culture. This is shown when we look at the participants/researchers are from western backgrounds. To furtherly weaken individualistic cultures look for partners based on their benefit however collectivist cultures look for partners based on families benefit. This is therefore negative as the study can't be applied to those in collectivistic cultures
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What is a strength for filter theory?
A support for filter theory is that it has good face validity. This is shown when we look at how people feel about relationships, which is similar. To furtherly strengthen we can see other studies such as Peter winch (1958) who found evidence for similarities in attitudes in his participants when they were looking for a mate. This is beneficial on the whole for the study as it means it looks to be valid to the general population.
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Who developed social exchange theory?
Thibaut and Kelly (1959)
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What theories did Thibaut and Kelly (1959) suggest?
Social exchange theory Stages of a relationship development
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What are the core assumptions of social exchange theory?
That people seek to minimise costs to themselves while seeking to maximise gain from any situation including a relationship.
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What are the areas included in social exchange theory for a relationship?
Profit and loss Comparison levels Comparison levels for alternatives
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What is meant by profit and loss in a relationship?
Within all relationships people seek to minimise their costs. When someone interacts they feel a gain i.e. care, companionship or sex, costs can include time wasted, loss opportunities, fiscal costs. When rewards outweigh costs the relationship will continue.
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What is meant by comparison levels in a relationship?
These expectations are set from our past, other seen/participated in relationship and how the media portray them. This forms a set level of expectations and depending on our level of self esteem we are willing to settle for higher or lower.
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What is meant by comparison levels for alternatives in a relationship?
People making comparison with their current relationship and others. This happens when the alternative relationship is seen to be more rewarding. Duck said that to be truly happy in a relationship would mean that you don't look for alternatives.
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What are the 4 stages of a relationship development?
Sample stage Bargaining stage Commitment stage Institutionalization stage
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What happens in the sample stage of a relationship?
People explore costs and benefits for a relationship by experimenting with them in our everyday situations. This may not just be romantic relationships.
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What happens in the bargaining stage of a relationship?
This is the beginning of a relationship and the costs/rewards of the relationship are explored.
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What happens in the commitment stage of a relationship?
The relationship in this stage is more stable as costs lessen and rewards increase.
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What happens in the institutionalize stage of a relationship?
Partners are settled down, norms of the relationship established in terms of the costs and rewards.
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What criticisms are there for Thibaut and Kelly's (1959) theories?
- Fails at taking into account the need for 'equality' - Fails to present a holistic theory for a relationship
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What theory did Walster et al (1978) develop?
Equity theory part 1 and 2
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What is the core assertion from equity theory?
Within a relationship you need balance or it does not work, which causes dissatisfaction and a breakdown.
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What did Walster et al suggest in his theory?
People strive to achieve balance in their relationship and if they don't it can cause distress. Both partners must feel there is equity in the relationship so that one is not over benefitting or one under benefitting from it.
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What happens when a person is under benefiting in a relationship?
The person will feel anger, resentment and humiliation due to the situation.
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What happens when a person is under benefiting in a relationship?
This person will feel guilt, discomfort and shame for their part.
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What does Walster et al say can happen over time with equity theory?
The relationship may break up, however these things can lead to recognition of them which can also lead to saving the relationship. However the larger the disparity between couples the harder this is too achieve.
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Walster said there were 4 key principles that can be considered when improving a relation what were they?
Profit (what each person gains) Distribution (how equal the level of reward is) Dissatisfaction (issues caused are unbalanced) Realignment (action of seeking to redress the balance)
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What is a criticism for Walsters theories?
+ Individualistic/collectivist cultural differences. + Not all partners are as concerned with "gaining" from a relationship as others.
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What are the stages of Ducks second theory of a breakdown when keeping it private?
Breakdown Intrapsychic processes Dyadic processes
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What are the stages of Ducks second theory of a breakdown when going public?
Social processes Grave dressing processes Resurrection processes
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What happens in the breakdown stage of a relationship?
Happens when issues or problems start to occur for one or both of the partners, this dissatisfaction then grows if those problems are not addressed.
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What happens in the intrapsychic processes stage of a relationship?
Where a person often says "i cant take it anymore" its a cognitive phase where the partners consider the reasons for there dissatisfaction.
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What happens in the dyadic processes stage of a relationship?
In this stage problems have reached the point where they are no longer able to be dealt with. Couples will often say to each other "we need to talk". This may occur in a series of confrontations or in one.
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What happens in the social processes stage of a relationship?
The breakup becomes public to each partners social network, mutual friends pick sides between friends where some offer support and others allocate the blame. In this stage it can also go past the point of no return, meaning due to social pressures they cannot go back from their.
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What is a parasocial relationship?
A relationship that resembles a normal one but is still lacking in some way. This is often because it is a fan devoting themselves to a celebrity, fans spend time/energy on the relationship whilst the celebrity does not.
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What levels are there to a parasocial relationship - Maltby et al (2006)?
Entertainment - social Intense -personal Borderline pathological
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What are the characteristics of the entertainment level of parasocial relationship - Maltby et al?
Least intense of celebrity worship. Viewing the celebrity as a form of entertainment, fuel or social interaction.
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What are the characteristics of the intense level of parasocial relationship - Maltby et al?
The intermediate level where the person has frequent thought of the celebrity, to the point where they may become obsessive and even gain intense feelings for them.
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What are the characteristics of the borderline pathological level of parasocial relationship - Maltby et al?
Strongest level of celebrity worship. May include uncontrollable fantasies or extreme behaviors such as purchasing celebrity related items or performing illegal acts to be close to the celebrity.