Relationships Flashcards
Important qualities for Christians when looking for love
• wants a partner that also prioritises Jesus
• don’t like any explicit behaviour (before marriage)
• they believe if they ask then God will give them the right partner
• wants another Christian partner
What is a sacrament?
An outward sign of an inward change change that involves God’s blessing, e.g. marriage, baptism
Christian wedding traditions
• Biblical readings during service
• Usually takes place at a church
• Make vows of faithfulness to their partner
• Bride wears white to show she is pure
• Prayers said to ask for God’s blessing
• Given rings to symbolise eternity
Purpose of vows during a Christian wedding
Reflect commitment and faith, promise is a promise to God too - therefore, dislike divorce because it breaks the promise to God
How many people have a religious wedding?
Halved over the last 20 years
Teachings about Christian weddings
• phrase used in services - ‘what God has joined together, let no man put asunder’ - means marriage is a lifelong service and should not be undone
• church teaches that marriage is a ‘gift of God in creation’ - marriage mirrors the relationship between Jesus and his church as the Church cannot exist without Jesus (‘for better or for worse’)
• ‘but at the beginning of creation, God made then male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother to be United to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ - Mark 10:6-8
Christian beliefs about marriage
• basis for creating an environment children can be born into
• not having children goes purpose of marriage
• lifelong commitment
• divine bond blessed by God
What is premarital sex?
• Sex that takes place before marriage
What is chastity?
Choosing not to have sex before marriage - sex as a gift for married couples
Responsibility
Actions or duties you are expected to carry out
Celibacy
The decision not to have sex, to remain celibate e.g. monks to a vow of celibacy
Purpose
The purpose of sex is to procreate and to express love between a married couple
Maturity definition
Being able to understand the emotional value of sex and responsibilities that come with it.
Promiscuity definition
Having more than one sexual partner
Commitment
A sense of dedication and obligation to someone or something, e.g. marriage partner
Christian attitudes to sex/marriage (1950s)
• 65% of people married in a church
• if born out of wedlock, referred to as a ‘bastard’ - outcast from society, stigma
• save sex for marriage (usually married by 25)
• Christian teachings believe that pre-marital sex is wrong because it goes against the message of the Ten Commandments (thou shall not commit adultery)
• ‘a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife and they become one flesh’ - Adam and Eve were created for each other because ‘it is not good for man to be alone’
Purpose of sex
• unitive and creative
• marriage also - why they come hand in hand
• believes God created sex for the joy and pleasure and bond of a marriage
• couple is united in love/faith
• cannot be separated (believed in Catholicism)
Christian attitudes to sex/marriage (2010s)
• 2010 - only 35% have church weddings
• 2010s - 97% have pre-marital sex
• 80% have more than one sexual partner (promiscuous)
• 2010s - most marriages at 32