Relationships Flashcards
What does the term survival of the sexiest mean
Certain traits and characteristics that are desirable which increase the likelihood of reproductive success
Desired traits for male and females
Males:
- strength
- height
- facial hair
- older age
Female:
- youth= more eggs
- bigger breasts
- hips
What is sexual selection
Competition between individuals of the same sex
Intra and inter
What is intra sexual selection
- within
Mate competition
Males compete with each other to be desired for females
Winners get a mate
Losers genes don’t get passed on
Anisogamy
Differences between males and females & their reproductive cells
Women look for quality
Men look for quantity
What is inter sexual selection
Mate choice
Battle of sexes
Preference of one sex
What is the halo effect
Elevating them to be the first person because we think they are good looking
Dion et al
- attractive people considered to be more successful, kind, sociable
- we behave more positively to good looking people
What is the matching hypothesis
- can’t all form relationships with attractive people as there are not enough people
Walter et al case study
376 males and 376 females
Payed 1 pound to get into the dance
4 judges secretly rated individuals as they entered
Random pairing for the dance occurred despite filling out questionnaires to determine similarities
Asked if they went on a second date with their partners
Filter theory
3 levels :
Level one - social demography
- proximity
- social class
- level of education
- ethnicity/ religion
Level 2- similarity in attitudes
- important in relationships u18 months
- shared beliefs
- similar opinions
Level 3- complementarity
- meet each others needs
- partners will compliment each other = opposites
- important in long term relationships
Evaluation of filter theory
Face vailidity= filter theory filters out the people who are not ideal
Lacks temporal validity = times have changed in terms of online dating, travelling is easier and more efficient
What is Self disclosure
Onion metaphor
- peeling away layers as you get into the relationship & built up trust
Breadth and depth of self disclosure
- start with shallow as you don’t want to put them off
Low risk info - the deeper the relationship goes the more is revealed
Bass and Stafford self disclosure case study
- 57% of gay men and women said that open & honest self disclosure was the main way they maintained and deepened their committed relationships
- self disclosure research allows for individuals to improve on their own personal relationships = real life application
What is the Social Exchange Theory - SET
Sampling stage = explore rewards & costs of social exchange
Bargaining stage= marks beginning of relationship when romantic partners start exchanging various rewards & costs, negotiating and identifying what is most profitable
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