Relationships Flashcards
evolutionary explanation
Sexual selection?
our preferences are evolved adaptations
- evolutionary explanation of partner preference
- attributes / behaviour that increase reproductive success are passed on + become more frequent over generations of offspring
- describes how evolution has shaped us to provide a mating advantage through intrasexual / intersexual selection
Anisogamy?
- refers to difference between male + female sex cells
- male gametes: small + mobile + many produced over longer time
- female gametes: large + static + limited fertililty as only limited time of production
- = no shortage of fertile males but fertile females are ‘rarer resources’
- gives rise to 2 types of sexual selection
2 types of sexual selection:
1.Inter- sexual selection
- when males compete for the attention of a female
- females chooses from available potential mates (males) according to attractiveness
- the female plays an active role, chosing her mate
- according to attractivness + biology
inter-sexual selection + human reperoductive behaviour
Robert trivers
- choosiness
- both sexes are choosy as they both stand to lose if they invest resources in substandard partners
- but the consequences of making a wrong partner choice are more serious for female = pays for her to be especially selective
- therefore female’s optimum mating stratergy is to select a genetically fit partner who is able to provide resources
inter-sexual selection + human reperoductive behaviour
Ronald Fisher
- Runaway process: sexy son hypothesis
- genes present in today’s generation are those that enhanced reproductive success
- women will mate with men they find “sexy”
- = their son will then inherit this “sexy” trait = higher reproductive success for later generation
Evidence for inter-sexual selection
- Buss + Schmitt
- asked men+women how many partners they would ideally want over next 2 years + over lifetime
over next 2 years (average) :
- men = would like 8 partners
- women = 1 partner
over lifetime (avergae) :
- men = 18
- women = 4-5
- Clark + Hatfield’s
- sent males+female students out + made them ask others “I have been noticing you around campus, i find you attractive would you go to bed with me tonight?”
- 0 females agreed
- 75% males agreed
2 types of sexual selection:
- Intra-sexual selection
- when males compete (often aggressively) + the winner is rewarded with the female
- the female is passive in this process
= she doesn’t choose her own mate
= leads to dimorphism
intra-sexual selection + human reperoductive behaviour
Dimorphism
- sexual dimorphism = difference in form between sexes = males + females look different
- in physical competetion between males for mates = size matters = larger males have advantage + more likely to mate
- dimorphism suggests that males are competing for the attention of females + females do the choosing
intra-sexual selection + human reperoductive behaviour
Aggressive behaviour
- males may benefit from behaving aggressively in order to acquire fertile females + protect them competing males
- = selection of aggressivness in males
intra-sexual selection + human reperoductive behaviour
preference for youth + fertility
- In females, youthfulness is selected because males have preference to mate with younger more fertile women
- eg females with large waist-to-hip ratio
Supporting evidence
Cunningham
- found that men are attracted to features associated with young children
- large eyes
- small noses + chins
evaluation for
Evolutionary explanations for Relationships AO3
- Supporting evidences
- Ignore social + cultural influences
- Evolutionary reductionism
- Emphasise the differences in what males and females look for in a potential partner
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Supporting evidences
- supporting evidence for intra-sexual selection’s theory that states that males compete for fertile female + have preference for youth + fertility
- Cunningham found that men are attracted to features associated with young children (eg large eyes + small noses + chins)
- Validates intra-sexual selection as shows that in females, youthfulness is selected because males have preference to mate with younger more fertile women
- making the evolutionary explanation for relationships more credible + furthers our understanding into what affects mating preferences in relationships
2.
Ignore social + cultural influences
- outdated
- Evolutionary explanations ignore social + cultural influences.
- For the past 100 years, Western societies have experienced significant changes in terms of gender
equality + women’s independence - These changes mean that women in modern Western societies may no longer be looking for a man to provide them with resources + other qualities in a mate become more important
- This makes evolutionary explanations limited, as they only explain human mates’ choice in terms of evolutionary adaptiveness, ignoring other important factors, such as culture + social norms.
3.
Evolutionary reductionism
- Evolutionary explanations of relationships suffer from
evolutionary reductionism, as they argue that strategies for choosing a mate are the result of genetic inheritance + a striving for reproductive success. - However, this is not always as straightforward in real life, where individual differences in partner’s choice play a huge part
- For eg evolutionary explanations fail to account for
homosexual relationships where choice of partner clearly does not result in reproductive success + so doesn’t have an evolutionary advantage
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Emphasise the differences in what males and females look for in a potential partner
- Furthermore, evolutionary explanations of mate preference also emphasise the differences in what males + females look for in a potential partner
- This exaggeration of the differences between the genders is known as an alpha bias + the differences between males + females may be overstated
- It is plausible to argue that males + females actually look for similar characteristics, such as loyalty + kindness, and such characteristics are not reported in the research,
which tends to look for clear differences.
Facttors affecting attraction
self-disclosure
- Revealing personal information about yourself
- Romantic partners reveal more about their true selves as their relationship develops
- These sef-disclosures about one’s deepest thoughts + feelings can strengthen a romantic bond when used appropriately
Social penteration theory of how a relationship develops
- self disclosure is a major concept within Altman + Taylor’s social penteration theory
- Revealing your inner-self to someone else
- Reciprocal exchange of information between intimate partners
- Builds trust
- Penetrate more deeply into each others lives
Breadth + debth of self disclosure
- According to Altman + Taylor, self disclosure has 2 elements: breadth + debth
- As both of these increase, romantic partners become more committed to eachother
- When we first meet someone, the info we reveal is more ‘superficial’ and ‘low-risk’ as afraid to reveal too much info straight away and threatening the relationship
- As relationship develops, self-disclosure becomes deeper
Recpricoty of self-disclosure
- For a relationship to develop + increase in breadth + debth there needs to be a reciprocal element to disclosure
- Once disclosing info about true self to partner, partner will hopefully respond in a way thats rewarding, with empathy / own intimate thoughts + feelings
- So there is a balance of self disclosure between both partners in successful romantic relationship = increase feelings on intimacy + deepen relationship
evaluation for
self-disclosure + social penteration theory AO3
- supporting evidence
- Methadological issues w SE
- Reductionism
- culture bias - ethnocentric
Real-life application - self-disclosure - main way gay men + women maintained + deepened their committed relationships
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Supporting evidence
- Altman + Taylor’s social penetration theory has supporting evidence from Sprecher + Hendrick
- They found a positive correlation between self disclosure, satisfaction + high levels of intimacy
- This increases our confidence in the validity of the
theory that self disclosure leads to more satisfying relationships.
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Methadological issues with SE
- However there are methodological issues with the SE for the social penetration theory as most of the research is only correlational.
- Whilst we can assume that self disclosure creates more
satisfaction we can not conclusively claim that as causation has not been established = we do not know if self disclosure increases satisfaction or if satisfaction increases self disclosure - Cause + effect can not be established
- Therefore its necessary to consider that other factors
could explain satisfaction in relationships for eg similarities in values and/ or monetary gifts
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Reductionism
- The social penetration theory reduces relationship satisfaction to a single factor = claiming that self-disclosure is most important in relationship formation
- The social penetration theory ignores many other aspects of romantic attraction, such as physical attractiveness, similarity of attitudes + complementarity
- However this does not mean they are any less important = limits the theory = less valid + credible
- Suggests further research should investigate couples individual experiences using a more holistic approach which will ultimately further our understanding into how romantic relationships are formed
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culture bias - ethnocentric
- The social penetration theory ignores cultural
variation in the formation of romantic relationships
+ is therefore ethnocentric + culturally bias - Most of the supporting research are conducted on western cultures + focus on western ideals of relationship
formation - Tang et al found that despite higher intimate self disclosure in the USA (disclose more sexual thoughts + feelings) compared to romantic partners in China, level of relationship satisfaction was high in both cultures
- This limits the theory, making it culturaly bound, meaning it can not be used to explain all relationships globaly + cannot be fully generalised to other cultures as self disclosure isn’t too important for all
- implication on advise given during counselling sessions - counsellors have to consider the role culture as self- disclosure is not a requirement for successful relationships in all cultures
factors affecting attraction
physical attraction
1. Halo effect
2. Matching hypothesis
Factors affecting attraction
physical attraction
1. Halo effect
- physical attractivness important in forming romantic relationships
- Halo effect - how physical attractivness tends to have a disproportionate influence on our judgment of their attributes + personality
- we have procenceived ideas about the personality traits attractive ppl have
- physically attractive ppl are seen as more kind / strong / sociable / successful compared to unattractive ppl
- belief that good looking ppl have good characteristics which makes them evenmore ‘attractive’ = we behave positvely to them = self-fulfilling prophecy
Evaluation of
Physical attractivness - Halo Effect
AO3
- supporting evidence
- individual differences
1.
Supporting evidence
- SE for halo effect from Palmer + Peterson
- They found that Physically attractive people were rated as more politically knowledgeable + competent than unattractive people
- Other studies also found that Physically attractive people
were judged to be more intelligent, healthier, sociable compared to unattractive people - These findings validate the halo effect and add credibility to the theory as it shoes that physical attractivness is a majot factor influencing people’s prespective of eachother, and therefore formation of relationships
2.
Individual differences
- fails to consider that not all individuals seek attractive partners = physical attraction is not most important to everyone
- Towhey gave ps photos of strangers + some biographical information about them + participants were asked to rate how much they liked the people on photographs
- He found that physical attractiveness was more
important only for participants who displayed
sexist attitudes - This suggests that, depending on the individual, physical
appearance may or may not be a significant factor in attractiveness, while the halo effect suggests it is always the main one - Therefore this limits our understanding on the role of physical attraction in relationship formation
Factors affecting attraction
physical attraction
2. Matching hypothesis
- Suggests we look for partners who are similiar to ourselves in terms of physical attractivness (+personality + intelligence)
Walster et al’s computer dance’
- The computer dance experiment did not find support for the matching hypothesis
- Nearly 400 male + female students were randomly paired at a dance + later asked to rate their date
- Physical attractiveness (which was independently assessed) proved to be the most important factor in liking, rather than similarity
- It was also the best predictor of the likelihood that they would see each other again
Evaluation of
matchin hypothesis
AO3
- Supporting evidence
- Opposing evidence from online relationships
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Supporting evidence
- The matching hypothesis has supporting evidence which
validates its claims that individuals seek partners who match their level of attractiveness - Feingold carried out a meta-analysis of 17 studies using real-life couples
- He established a strong correlation between the partners’ ratings of attractiveness, just as predicted by the matching hypothesis
- This evidence validates the matching hypothesis furthers our understanding into the role physical attraction plays in the formation of relationships
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Opposing evidence from online relationships
- The matching hypothesis is limited as it has failed to take into account the role of technology forming relationships
- Taylor et al investigated the activity log on a dating
website + found that website users were more likely to
try and arrange a meeting with a potential partner who
was more physically attractive than them - These findings contradict the matching hypothesis, as according to its predictions, users should seek more dates with a person who is similar in terms of attractiveness
- This limits our understanding of relationship formation + invalidates the matching hypothesis
- Additionally this suggests it has low temporal validity as it fails to take into consideration the role of technological
advances on the formation of relationships
= the matching hypothesis therefore outdated + cannot be generalised to today’s society, as online dating has not be considered.
Evaluation of
Physical attraction (in general)
impact on forming relationships
- Supporting evidence
- Beta gender bias
- Individual differences ignored
1.
Supporting evidence
- SE for halo effect from Palmer + Peterson
- They found that Physically attractive people were rated as more politically knowledgeable + competent than unattractive people
- Other studies also found that Physically attractive people
were judged to be more intelligent, healthier, sociable compared to unattractive people - These findings validate the halo effect and add credibility to the theory as it shoes that physical attractivness is a major factor influencing people’s prespective of eachother
2.
Beta gender bias
- The theory that physical attraction is most important in forming romantic relationships may have gender beta-bias as it assumes that men + women have same view of the importance of physical attractiveness, however research suggests otherwise
- Meltzer et al found that men rate their long-term relationships more satisfying if their partner is physically attractive, while for women their partner’s attractiveness didn’t have a significant impact on relationship satisfaction
- This shows that there are significant gender differences in how important appearance is for attraction = research into the role of physical attraction on relationships are misleading as ignores the differences between men + women + importance of how attractive their potential partner is
3.
Individual differences
- Fails to consider that not all individuals seek attractive partners = physical attraction is not most important to everyone
- Towhey gave ps photos of strangers + some biographical information about them + participants were asked to rate how much they liked the people on photographs
- He found that physical attractiveness was more
important only for participants who displayed sexist attitudes - This suggests that, depending on the individual, physical
appearance may or may not be a significant factor in attractiveness, while the halo effect + matching hypothesis suggests it is always the main one - Therefore this limits our understanding on the role of physical attraction in relationship formation
Factros affecting attraction
Filter theory
- This theory suggests that people develop relationships by applying a series of filters, such as similarity of social demographic factors + attitudes + complementarity of needs to narrow down the pool of available romantic partners
- Using these filters helps individuals narrow down the pool of availability to those who they believe they have the best chance of a relationship with
3 Levels of filter
- social demographic factors
- similarity in attitudes
- Complementarity
- social demographic factors
- Most people will form a relationship with people close to them geographically, in age + social background
- geographically + age = higher chance they will meet, speak or generally become aware of one another
- Similarities in education, social class + background gives them assurance that relationships are more likely to move forward
- similarity in attitudes
- People tend to view others as more attractive if they share the same core beliefs + values, such as views on importance of family
- Most people will come into contact with people from the same social / cultural background = same attitudes
- This can also be the case for internal characteristics such as attitudes, or personality traits
- Complementarity
- Not all personality characteristics need to be the same, we are often attracted to people who can give us what we lack
- Similarity becomes less important as relationship develops + is replaced by need for ur partner to balance your traits with opposite ones of their own
- A dominating person may like a submissive person
- 1 partner may enjoy meeting new people + being socially proactive + other may enjoy being introduced to people rather than initiating social interactions themselves = complement eachother
Evidence:
Winch
Winch found that
- similarity of interests + attitudes + personality traits were very important for couples in the beginning of relationships
- complementarity of needs had more impact on long-term relationships
Evaluation of Filter theory
AO3
- Supporting evidence
- outdated + lacks temporal validity
- Ignores cultural variation in the formation of
relationships = is ethnocentric + culturally bias - Has face validity
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Supporting evidence
- FT has supporting evidence which validates its claim that individuals are attracted to + form relationships with
people who they have filtered/ narrowed down our range of potential partners using 3 main factors - Winch found that similarity of interests, attitudes +
personality traits were very important for couples in the beginning of relationships - complementarity of needs had more impact on long-term relationships
- This evidence validates the filter theory, giving it greater credibilty + furthers our understanding into what variables are important when individuals are choosing potential partners to form a romantic relationship with + maintaining them in future
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outdated + lacks temporal validity
- FT could be criticised for being outdated + lacking temporal validity
- Dating websites + apps have greatly affects modern relationships
- Compared with 20-30 years ago, people nowadays are
more open minded + likely to develop relationships with someone who is not in their geographical proximity or from the same culture - This makes the Filter theory less valid + limits our
understanding of how romantic relationships form in modern society